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Psychological aspets

Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2023 12:40 pm
by aslanglobal
Hey guys
I'm 1.5 years in post op. For the first year I felt very good, lucky, and definitely put this thing to use
However, I now seem to to be suffering from psychological issues others can suffer from.
I cannot get my dick to point straight, it is always wobbly never firm, I am now avoiding sex
And really gotta force myself to cycle. I seem to be mentally rejecting this much later and
I am repulsed currently I have this. Did anyone experience this later and how did you come to
Terms with it?

Thank you

Re: Psychological aspets

Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2023 1:24 pm
by Rebz89
Ah man I'm still very new post op but just wanted to send positive thoughts.

You had a good run with it so firstly be grateful for that.

Next month you might be back in love with it. If its not getting hard then it's a pump issue not a you issue. Mine curves slightly too.

Talk to your urologist man don't sit and fester he will have answers or solutions and be able to reccomend someone else all be mentally or physically to get you back on track.

Remember being embarrassed about admitting Ed and doing appointments and all the other shit?

Well this next step you need to take is nothing in comparison. You've done all the hard work to get here now just do a little work to maintain a good relationship with YOUR DICK. it is yours and you should learn to love it again. Chin up buddy
Talk to a specialist and it might be the simplist of solutions.

If not your bionic brothers are here too feel free to pm if need anything. Not sure I can help but here

Re: Psychological aspets

Posted: Wed Jan 18, 2023 2:37 pm
by fade3W
Following this topic because I can relate. I’m just about 2 years in and everything functions fine but it just doesn’t feel a part of me. I don’t feel like I’m the same from before the implant. I know I’m not. But my daily life has changed dramatically, it’s hard to work out, sleeping can be uncomfortable in certain positions. It’s a big change. I don’t have any answers but I sympathize with you.

Re: Psychological aspets

Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2023 9:01 am
by Endoftheline
aslanglobal wrote:Hey guys
I'm 1.5 years in post op. For the first year I felt very good, lucky, and definitely put this thing to use
However, I now seem to to be suffering from psychological issues others can suffer from.
I cannot get my dick to point straight, it is always wobbly never firm, I am now avoiding sex
And really gotta force myself to cycle. I seem to be mentally rejecting this much later and
I am repulsed currently I have this. Did anyone experience this later and how did you come to
Terms with it?

Thank you


Hey man, im only 7 months in and honestly i cannot say that i relate. Its overall on upgrade, i like to think of myself as a cyborg, my sexual function has been enhanced. Better orgasm, 100% reliability whats not to love?

Did a girl say something that made you start doubting your decision? There must be a catalyst to tbis new way of thinking.

Re: Psychological aspets

Posted: Thu Jan 19, 2023 10:11 am
by cbinspok
Almost 2 years in ….and I would say it’s about focus… your dick is now looking and working great, Now its time to drag your brain along and think about sex. You got the goods. Your ed traumatized you for so long, you are stuck. Look at some porn, dream about a fantastic “date” relax screw or masterbate enjoy the gift you have given your self, Stop over thinking it. Stop being your own enemy, your brain has adopted your new super cock, you should too.