I am 32 years old and I am mentally ill due to performance anxiety. I masturbated in my teens and quit masturbating after not performing with a girl and because of that I was a psychogenic. In 2018, I tried to have sex with a girl but could not perform. Three months ago I masturbated to check my erection but it did not. I was very worried about that. Then I had my Doppler test and I found a leak in Venous. My EDV was over 10. Then my doctor injected me again with alprostadil full dose and it was 50% erection. The doctor prescribed me cialis. 15 days ago I used 5 mg cialis daily which gave me 100% erection most of the time at night. I have been leaving Cialis for a week now. Now I get 90-100% erections through stimulation and I'm masturbating twice a day for 5-10 minutes without cialis.
Is my Doppler or alprostadil injection accurate?
What should I do now?
Can I have sex with a girl?
How is my condition Is it really Venous Leakage or Psychogenic ED?
Need your advice.
My condition has changed from 0% to 80% in the sense of masturbation. But I couldn't find the problem.
Need Advice
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ED due to VL. Implant is the last resort. Tried Cialis 5mg that works but have Chinese brand.
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Looks like your ready to have sex with a girl to me, just relax and enjoy the ride!
76 year old fart. Prostate removed Oct. 9, 2017,Psa 30 days after .15 next Psa .2. 37 Radiation treatments for recurrent cancer, 1 year out Psa .033 ZERO ERECTIONS, implanted Sept 5 2019 Dr. Lentz Duke Raleigh N.C. Titan 22cm.
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Agree with Vajim. If things are improving with medication, you don't need an implant. You just need the girl with whom you feel confident. You may even quit medications and perform without any thing.
Finally Bionic
52y old. RP Oct. 2017. Pills didn't work. Trimix failed after a couple of times. Have inguinal hernia repair on both sides. Implanted AMS CX, 21 cm+1 cm RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at KP, VA, Jan. 2021. New username FinallyBionic
52y old. RP Oct. 2017. Pills didn't work. Trimix failed after a couple of times. Have inguinal hernia repair on both sides. Implanted AMS CX, 21 cm+1 cm RTE, by Dr. Kai Li at KP, VA, Jan. 2021. New username FinallyBionic
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AST2123 wrote:Agree with Vajim. If things are improving with medication, you don't need an implant. You just need the girl with whom you feel confident. You may even quit medications and perform without any thing.
I think so but due to over masturbation in a week I'm so much tired. I need energy and then will try to better 20 percent. But due to performance anxiety I am under confident to try sex with a girl. If I couldn't perform, there is chance that I will depress again.
ED due to VL. Implant is the last resort. Tried Cialis 5mg that works but have Chinese brand.
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penitreatment wrote:AST2123 wrote:Agree with Vajim. If things are improving with medication, you don't need an implant. You just need the girl with whom you feel confident. You may even quit medications and perform without any thing.
I think so but due to over masturbation in a week I'm so much tired. I need energy and then will try to better 20 percent. But due to performance anxiety I am under confident to try sex with a girl. If I couldn't perform, there is chance that I will depress again.
Here is something that worked for me for quite a few encounters.
The next time you are with a girl, do not concentrate on your performance. Concentrate on her pleasure. Extend your foreplay with her. Use your hands and lips on various parts of her body (women have erogenous zones all over - ear lobes, neck, palms are accessible even when fully clothed and quite titillating to many women and nipples are well known excitement centers).
You might even tell her you want to try to pleasure her without actual sex but only want to explore the rest of her body. It is very likely she will appreciate the attention. And your penis will appreciate not being pressured to "perform". You can relax.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
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Lost Sheep wrote:penitreatment wrote:AST2123 wrote:Agree with Vajim. If things are improving with medication, you don't need an implant. You just need the girl with whom you feel confident. You may even quit medications and perform without any thing.
I think so but due to over masturbation in a week I'm so much tired. I need energy and then will try to better 20 percent. But due to performance anxiety I am under confident to try sex with a girl. If I couldn't perform, there is chance that I will depress again.
Here is something that worked for me for quite a few encounters.
The next time you are with a girl, do not concentrate on your performance. Concentrate on her pleasure. Extend your foreplay with her. Use your hands and lips on various parts of her body (women have erogenous zones all over - ear lobes, neck, palms are accessible even when fully clothed and quite titillating to many women and nipples are well known excitement centers).
You might even tell her you want to try to pleasure her without actual sex but only want to explore the rest of her body. It is very likely she will appreciate the attention. And your penis will appreciate not being pressured to "perform". You can relax.
Well, this is the normal sex anybody do. You're giving me good idea and I hope this will work.
ED due to VL. Implant is the last resort. Tried Cialis 5mg that works but have Chinese brand.
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