Why the secrecy?

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HappyAgain
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Why the secrecy?

Postby HappyAgain » Sun Apr 10, 2022 9:46 pm

Why are so many men on this board asking about being secret about an implant? I’ve always wanted my partner to be pleased before my needs. I wish I’d looked into this implant 10 years ago. I had one girl who was very physically fit and would have 2-3 mind blowing orgasms to my 1. It was awesome on my psyche. Any woman that wants to be sexually active and has ever owned a vibrator ( more women than you probably think) get to have a duck that actually cums on a guy they’re into and they can ride it until the sun sets while you could be so into it or do your taxes. The level that your new implant can take sex is simply up to the time you have to engage in sex. I’ve also seen guys ask about “how long before you’ll look normal in front of your buddies and not tell them?” I’ll answer that by saying you have a dick that will last as long as you want it to and any woman will be fucking your brains out, why be ashamed.

Musson
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby Musson » Mon Apr 11, 2022 6:46 pm

It’s probably fear of rejection and shame at the lack of natural virility. I agree it’s silly. Still, with respect to one night stands and hook ups, why give women one more basis to reject you? It’s already difficult to maneuver past their sexual defenses. I’m not implanted yet but I do choose to keep my use of viagra to myself. My wife of course knows but I don’t bother to tell my other sex partners. I see no reason to. If and when I get an implant I would most likely keep it to myself until I had a sure thing going on. Similar to breast implants, most women leave it unsaid until the relationship grows a bit. But in the end you are right, this is silly but understandable behavior.
63yr old. PDwith 40% dor. Curve. Pre-PD 7”x6”.lost 2 in. due to PD. ED prior to PD. Switched from Sildalifil to Trimix Nov 2023 . Currently titrating Trimix for optimization.

2435tjklAS
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby 2435tjklAS » Mon Apr 11, 2022 8:15 pm

Musson wrote:It’s probably fear of rejection and shame at the lack of natural virility.


I think he answered it here. To most girls it'll be a little weird that instead of getting turned on by them we're pumping our balls. I'm sure it's fine for a lot of people, but some women will lose interest in you, and nice word choice with virility - a rock hard erection is sexier than a pumped up one.

I'm just gonna role with it and blame it on my brain injury, then say "I can keep it hard for as long as you want" or something. Some will be into it, some won't. It is how it is.
39. AMS 700 LGX, 21+3. Nov. 2, 2021. Idiot who abused alcohol for brain injury, abused viagra for implant.

Goal to prove implants increase dick size

Pre-op dick size: 8.75" x 5.7"

Current: 9-9.5" x 5.5"

Goal: 10+" x 6+"

newbie443
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby newbie443 » Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:43 am

I agree and do not keep it a secret from my partners. I tell them I want sex to be part of our relationship. So much so I had surgery so that I can anytime and for as long as I want. As far as the question of not being turned on or excited by her I simply tell her that if I did not want to be there with her having sex I would be somewhere else. It just lets me with out failure to launch. Not any different than a dry women using lube or her own medication. Basically it lets us mirror the womans ability to have sex anytime for as long and with partners we want to with. Before I choose to have the implant I was very embarrassed and would not even talk to my doctor. Studies show I was not alone and that around 50% of men with ED are the same. Why this happens is a shrink question. Fear is a powerful thing and the reasons for it way above me. I have mostly delt with my fears with my implant. Not completely though. I understand those who wish to keep it secret after surgery as I did my ED prior to surgery. We are different and that is ok. What works for one does not work for everyone.

Good luck to everyone with this.
Injections failed. Implanted 3-21-18 AMS 700 LGX 21 + 1 RTE 100 cc reservoir 6.5" L 5" G Dr. Kramer.

Proximal Perforation Sling Repair 4/13/21 Dr. Broghammer

66 years young.

Will show and tell and talk with others.

SquadCaptain74
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby SquadCaptain74 » Tue Apr 12, 2022 7:10 am

Clearly - nothing to be hidden under the veil of secrecy.
ANY partner will know you have a bionic boner. The pump and or the feel of the shaft is a dead give away that "something" is different.
Stand on your laurels and the fact you will stay oak tree hard for as long as your partner desires to keep going. Boink away with pride. If the partner is that shallow - then you should just roll with it and move to find a partner that understands.
Northern Virginia
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strongagain
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby strongagain » Tue Apr 12, 2022 8:27 am

Well, that has something to do with age, at least for me. When I was young I had a big boner 24/7, was incredibly randy and long lasting. During that time I didn’t know anything about implants of course, couldn’t imagine that not all men are like me. During that time I surely would have felt bad when I had an implant.

That all changed 15 years ago, due to a colon cancer operation. All nerves important for erections where cut. Shit! It took me some years to think about an implant, wasted some precious year with thinking…

Now, most men my age have problems with erections - and now I’m extremely proud of having an implant, not ashamed of telling the world about my pocket rocket. What a great feeling to know that I can fuck all women around me till they are half-dead.
Born in 1950, ED since 2007 (colon cancer)
08/2015 Titan Zero Degree 22 cm + 3 cm RTE
Dr. Leiber, Freiburg, Germany
6.5" x 5.7" - Very happy with implant

Living in Freiburg, Germany

Old Guy
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby Old Guy » Tue Apr 12, 2022 1:15 pm

My main reason to hide the fact I'm implanted is mainly for my kids sanity. Mom & dad still doing it at their age? OMG!
However, if any of my boys confide in me they are having issues in bed I will educate them with my experience.
Nov. 8, 2019
4+ years, Coloplast Titan OTR
Married 36 years to my beautiful young bride
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Lost Sheep
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Apr 12, 2022 3:15 pm

One potential concern (particularly for a polygamous man who might have ex-partners who could be vindictive, hurt, vengeful maybe?) is that she might attempt to trash his reputation among their social circle.

Of course, in some circles that might enhance his attractiveness to the women in their circle, but could make him a target of ridicule among the men. Depends on what type of social circle he inhabits.

Not so important among the more mature, I suppose (in both senses of the word).
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
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frank66665
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby frank66665 » Tue Apr 12, 2022 3:30 pm

I am of the opinion that as long as you can keep it a secret the better
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Lost Sheep
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Re: Why the secrecy?

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Apr 12, 2022 4:33 pm

Possibly so a man can surprise his partner with extraordinary "cyborg sex"?

Cyborg: person whose physical abilities are extended beyond normal human limitations by mechanical elements built into the body.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter


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