Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

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smphead
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Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby smphead » Wed Sep 15, 2021 4:14 am

So, i'm practising Bachatta Sensual. For those not familiar with Bachatta, it's a Latin dance were you dance close, body to body, with a woman.

I do a weekly practising were you dance during the class with multiple partners from age 16 till 70 y/o.

Would the implant make close dancing still possible? I.e. so the woman don't feel anything strange or imagining a boner? Any tips for dance classes with an Implant, like how to 'wear' your implant?

It's a serious question, so please serious answers.

Thanx!!
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
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oldbeek
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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby oldbeek » Wed Sep 15, 2021 12:13 pm

Mine hangs natural when completely deflated.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

KenJ1947
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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby KenJ1947 » Wed Sep 15, 2021 12:29 pm

oldbeek wrote:Mine hangs natural when completely deflated.

When I hang, I hang as if just flaccid--but I'm very thankful that I don't hang "normally"...I had a terrible case of turtling that the implant cured! I'm not a "grower, but a shower" any more. That was the old description. I'm working on being a "shower and a grower"! LOL. :lol: 8-)
Married 50+ years, 75, ED for 10 years.

Dr Mark Allen, Plano, TX. Surgery at Baylor, Scott and White Frisco, TX. AMS 700 CX MS, 24 cm + 2 cm RTEs x 2.4 cm tubes, 100 ml reservoir.

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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby Gt1956 » Wed Sep 15, 2021 2:34 pm

Smphead, sorry but it seems to me that the situation that you contemplate is basically dry humping your 16 to 70 year old partner. That is some very accommodating dance partners IMHO. Just my opinion, if you can slide your open hand between the two dancers bodies you should be ok. If close contact is part of the dance? Rest assured that the women are going to feel men that don't have an implant also.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Sep 15, 2021 2:48 pm

smphead wrote:So, i'm practising Bachatta Sensual. For those not familiar with Bachatta, it's a Latin dance were you dance close, body to body, with a woman.

I do a weekly practising were you dance during the class with multiple partners from age 16 till 70 y/o.

Would the implant make close dancing still possible? I.e. so the woman don't feel anything strange or imagining a boner? Any tips for dance classes with an Implant, like how to 'wear' your implant?

It's a serious question, so please serious answers.

Thanx!!

As Gt1956 posted, women will feel a man's penis when their pelvis' are in contact, especially if the man becomes partially erect (as such dancing is likely to do in an "intact" man).
This is true in any man, implanted or not.

An implanted man (absent auto-erection, accidental erection or purposeful partial erection) is actually (my opinion) LESS likely to give his dance partner cause for concern. Implanted men's penises do not grow (in most patients) on their own unless the implant inflates.
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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby Time2Change » Wed Sep 15, 2021 6:09 pm

I'm going to have to disagree with the other guys on this one.

I'm nearly 11 months out from my implant surgery. My deflated state still has a stiffness to it that my natural flaccid state never had, even prior to my ED.

When I push my crotch against my wife fully clothed, she can feel my dick.

I don't think the girls and women you dance with will think you have a hard on. But, based on my experience, they'll know you have a package.
55; ED for 22+ years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby Bushpig » Fri Sep 24, 2021 6:38 pm

I do Bachata classes too and sometimes I feel mine against the female too so she would be feeling it.
Not too bad with the older ladies but I do have concerns about the younger ones feeling it.
I try to dance more off centre when i am behind my partner to try and avoid full on contact - not always possible when doing body rolls.
55 yo Aussie. E.D all my life. Used Viagra for years but. Went on to Injections which worked well but very inconvenient and didnt work sometimes. Implanted Jan'18 with Titan one touch 20cm/ 1.5RTE by Pro Chung in Brisbane.

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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby Surfshack » Fri Sep 24, 2021 6:42 pm

Time2Change wrote:I'm going to have to disagree with the other guys on this one.

I'm nearly 11 months out from my implant surgery. My deflated state still has a stiffness to it that my natural flaccid state never had, even prior to my ED.

When I push my crotch against my wife fully clothed, she can feel my dick.

I don't think the girls and women you dance with will think you have a hard on. But, based on my experience, they'll know you have a package.


And there's nothing wrong with that! :D
55 yrs old. Prostiva procedure (enlarged prostate surgery) June 2019. Also hard flaccid issues. Working thru it (massage/yoga/exercise) and getting better and more mentally positive. Still experiencing ED, hate pills but i'm gonna figure out a way.

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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby dg_moore » Fri Sep 24, 2021 10:02 pm

Re dancing - my father told me years ago that he never knew he couldn't dance until my mother told him so. I guess I took after him - I always hated dancing and avoided it as best I could. Now that walking has become challenging, expectations are lowered and the demands on me have diminished greatly, for which I remain eternally grateful.
Dave, 80, Maryland - Implant (Titan) 2008 by Dr. Andrew Kramer (failed Sept 2020) - never used due to a stroke that, among other things, ended my sex life.
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DaveKell
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Re: Close/sensual dancing with an Implant

Postby DaveKell » Tue Sep 28, 2021 12:22 pm

Funny but this reminded me of an episode over forty years ago. I was at a nightclub and got brave enough to ask a petite hottie to dance on a slow song. My dick was at her belly height. To my chagrin I got a raging hardon. I tried backing away some but she suddenly bolted to her friend at their table and they abruptly fled the club. She left her jacket behind. I ran out with it as their car was speeding off. I held it up and the driver slammed the brakes, rolled the window down, and snatched it from me without a word and sped away. I always thought she should’ve been flattered!
Became DaveKell 2.0 on July 18th with Dr. Allen Morey in Dallas, TX. AMS 700 CX implant. 18cm with 5.5 RTE's.


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