Would women tell if they realize that you have an implant?

[AST2123]

I read here many posts about implanted men who were able to not-disclose the fact of having an implant to their partners. Wives maybe excepted.
I can understand that in a one-night adventure, this may not be noticed, but in a long-term relationship, or frequently dating the same woman, it is difficult to hide.
My assumption is: a woman will not tell if they realized that you have an implant and she is happy with it.
In my opinion, if after the first or second date we both loved being together, I would be transparent and tell about my implant. I think it won't be a healthy relationship if one of us has something to hide, and most women will value and admire your honesty as well.
However, I do not think it is a good idea to tell about it upfront. No one will know the benefits of the bionic penis without testing it.
Let me know your attitude.

[Lost Sheep]

Some would. Some would not. Some would tell their friends. Some would tell EVERYONE (after an unhappy breakup)!

I know of one young woman who figured out that her lover was implanted on their second sexual encounter. She chose not to tell him. I contacted her in Private Messaging and she seemed to feel obliged to let him tell her in his own time (put another way, she let him believe he was successful in keeping his secret). So, your assumption is correct for at least one woman. She was very happy with sex with her young man. Of course, she had had her eye on him for a long time before they "got together", so there is that factor.

I posted on a dating site that I was functionally impotent and on the pathway to an implant and seeking a "lab partner" for sex both before and after the operation. Many women commented admiringly on my candor and courage. some of those volunteered to participate.

So, I believe hiding it successfully is difficult, but not impossible (men here have posted credibly of their success - though in the one example I cited above, the man might believe, wrongly, of his successful keeping of that secret).

Why would a man want to?

Older women are likely experienced with men with ED and would welcome a man with a penis that does not "cum and go limp".

Younger women are more likely to be open to "something different than the norm", especially if presented well. How a man conducts himself during the "reveal" (in my opinion) will make a big difference in her acceptance.

Of course, there are women who would object to the "unnatural" nature of a "dildo inside a dick". Such prejudice does not belong in a woman's heart (my opinion, again) and is likely to be overcome by her regard for the man to whom the penis is attached. In my experience, women make love with THE MAN, not THE PENIS.

Usually, a woman responds to a man who desires her (some women do put a lot of weight on the man's penile response to her, which an implanted penis does not give), respects and trusts her (here, telling the truth shows respect and trust) and with whom she feels safe.

I also believe a secret between intimate partners strains the relationship and the longer the secret is held, the harder it is to keep and the more damaging to the relationship it is when it is revealed (or worse, discovered). On the other hand, if one runs in circles where the knowledge that he is/was sexually dysfunctional would damage a man's reputation or standing among his peers, that might be enough reason to keep the secret lest the woman reveal that secret to others in their social circle. There is a thread on THAT subject on FrankTalk as well. viewtopic.php?f=11&t=15575

[Boatman678]

In my opinion, I think the age group that most men are in leads me to believe that the women they have sex with are probably in a similar age group and are probably kind of happy that someone wants to have sex with them. And are probably happy that you can keep going and keep it up. But there is no guarantee what they might say about you if you puss them off during a breakup. But I am kind of curious if women might want to see what it is like to have sex with an implanted guy. I would surely be interested in trying sex with a gal that had some kind of vibrating , surgically enhanced vagina. Lol.

[Lost Sheep]

In my opinion, I think the age group that most men are in leads me to believe that the women they have sex with are probably in a similar age group and are probably kind of happy that someone wants to have sex with them. And are probably happy that you can keep going and keep it up. But there is no guarantee what they might say about you if you puss them off during a breakup. But I am kind of curious if women might want to see what it is like to have sex with an implanted guy. I would surely be interested in trying sex with a gal that had some kind of vibrating , surgically enhanced vagina. Lol. (underlining added for focus)

Are you thinking of this question?

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7166

[SW0110]

My wife tells me pumped up fully is not the best for her. About 75 percent or so.

Pumped up you are going to be a lot harder than most dicks.

Watch some amateur porn. Those things are bending a lot. An implant dick does not bend as much.

[Macdawgg]

She could figure it out easily because with an implant you STAY hard and that's a dead give away. But I haven't had any complaints so far-LOL

[AST2123]

Thanks brothers for your inputs.
I think most of implanted men try to keep it a secret for the probability of an (unhappy breakup) as LS mentioned. But this could also happen if a woman discovered it on her own.