Need more girth. Sad days

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Pamen116
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Need more girth. Sad days

Postby Pamen116 » Thu Jul 29, 2021 2:44 pm

Now after a year of being implanted I can say although I’m thankful for a solid erection maybe I should have pursued different options before being implanted.

In my sexual engagements with women I have yet to make them orgasm with my dick alone whereas before I could - I have concluded that it has to be the lack of engorgement in the head, glands and overall penis. I think my next route is to see if I can get Cialis to help with this.

Idk how many boomers or Gen X folks we have here but times have changed and women do not JUST want to be satisfied with foreplay and oral nowadays idc how many of y’all think that, I’ve had plenty of conversations with women and they want a good dick to do that.


Anyways I still have a functioning dick but hope to be resized sooner or later. Currently I have a CX 18cm with 3 cm RTE. girth is at 5 inches but seems to get smaller during intercourse. Idk why. But looking for solutions now
30 yrs old. Current IPP failed in 2022. Waiting revision. No insurance. I’ve had both Titan & AMS.

Lost Sheep
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby Lost Sheep » Thu Jul 29, 2021 2:58 pm

Different positions can give the feeling of more "fullness" for the woman. One is a variation on the missionary position The variation being that the man's legs are outside the woman's. Less penetration but more "squeeze" on her vaginal walls. Consult the internet or a good sex manual for more positions that provide for a more girthy feel for her.

I have read that if she has a device (butt plug, dildo, etc) in her anus, she feels more filled, also.

Adapt and overcome.
Lost Sheep
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TANGERINE
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby TANGERINE » Thu Jul 29, 2021 3:24 pm

read my thread on "advanced techniques for bionics" It discusses techniques of having the woman rub her clit during sex. There is a site called OMGyes which is by woman for women (more advice on how to work with dildos and vibrators and fingers--but us implanted guys are like living dildos) and that site might give you some ideas. Remember, although your glans is maybe crap, your shaft is unequaled in hardness and stamina when compared to natural guys

yes, I agree that the glans is important to some women, a cock ring should help (though it is unnatural).

At the OMGyes site, one of the women admits that 99% of the time she needs direct clitoral stimulation to be able to cum. She seems super sexual (kate is her screen name) and maybe a bit of a freak. Yet, she says she needs the direct clitoral stimulation to cum.

My wife found it easier to come when my glans was big as was the case with injections -- that is why it is said that a natural erection is better than an implant erection.

But, you had terrible ED before surgery. The worthless, insecure, sexless ED man that you once were is now in a much much better place. When it comes to sex, your bionic dick places you in , at least, the top 20% of possible men. That is really good. You are not perfect, but hey, at least you have a working dick. It is a little like having an artificial knee...it is not as good as a real knee, but you are able to walk and hike, but maybe not do marathons or play contact sports.

In my opinion, based on experience and what I have read, only 20% of woman have penis in vagina orgasms. If your woman figures out exactly where the sliding rub works for her, then you might be able to get her there with penis in vagina; but, if not, you have lots and lots of company in the world. I do remember that one conversation, here on franktalk, was that women will want to orgasm from finger or cunnilingus, but then "they want dick". The penetration part is a connection of penetration that fulfills them, but for most, does not give them orgasm.

I have done a little information search, and here is what i have found:

There is a paper titled:
Differences in Orgasm Frequency Among Gay , Lesbian, Bisexual, and Heterosexual Men and Women in a US National Sample by David Frederick



The researchers found that straight, lesbian, and bisexual ladies who orgasmed almost every time they got down were all:
— Having more oral sex
— Enjoying sex sessions lasting more than 15 minutes
— Asking for what they want in bed
— Praising their partner’s moves in the bedroom
— Sending or receiving sexually suggestive messages via text or phone call
— Wearing sexy lingerie
— Trying new sex positions
— Experimenting with anal stimulation
— Expressing their sexual fantasies
— Engaging in dirty talk and verbally expressing their love during sex
— Experiencing more satisfaction with their relationship (duh)

READ MORE: What Should You Do If He Just Can’t Seem To Orgasm With You
Sounds like quite the fun fest—if you’re a multi-tasker. However, you’ll be relieved to know that for 80 percent of straight women, all it took was this trifecta to help them orgasm every time: oral sex, manual genital stimulation, and deep kissing.


I do feel your pain, having a woman tell you that she wants a bigger cock is a devastating deflating insult.
My advice: be grateful for what you have. Happiness happens when you "want what you get, rather than when you get what you want." Try to look at the "glass is half full" (ie, you are able to have sex for an hour straight, and 100% reliable), and try to not perseverate on the "glass is half empty" (ie, concerns about a glans that aint perfect)


BEOW IS A LINK TO THE PAPER:

http://link.springer.com/epdf/10.1007/s10508-017-0939-z?shared_access_token=h1A7ihJkFPqRR4PVZC1IH_e4RwlQNchNByi7wbcMAY7B1GB41-GL687UaTqgbcWLDoTtH-VWuxmvYk70fbuBl_4jx4y-qOCH6icU0W6lYXuvrjRx0WaBZ7okTyrwgWfnB1mSjOKzHcobn0DRtTSz2DDqeSiHRuL-kaa08kDhx-w=
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(63 yo, Titan 22cm implant Feb 2017 by Dr Eid) I'm super pleased with my length/girth/implant performance. See my story at "The road to becoming a bionic male: Answers ..."

LuisFernandez
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby LuisFernandez » Fri Jul 30, 2021 12:47 pm

For length use a traction device. This will allow you to get the titan xl cylinders which have greater girth. For girth use a VED or you can look into fat or HA injections.
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016

Pamen116
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby Pamen116 » Fri Jul 30, 2021 1:13 pm

LuisFernandez wrote:For length use a traction device. This will allow you to get the titan xl cylinders which have greater girth. For girth use a VED or you can look into fat or HA injections.




Luis a little late for some of that because I’m already one year in post implant bud
30 yrs old. Current IPP failed in 2022. Waiting revision. No insurance. I’ve had both Titan & AMS.

LuisFernandez
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby LuisFernandez » Fri Jul 30, 2021 9:10 pm

Pamen116 wrote:
LuisFernandez wrote:For length use a traction device. This will allow you to get the titan xl cylinders which have greater girth. For girth use a VED or you can look into fat or HA injections.




Luis a little late for some of that because I’m already one year in post implant bud


A little late for what? You can most certainly use traction devices post-implant:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21492409/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21091884/

Same for fat or HA injections, you can get these with an implant. Same for VED, you can use with an implant.
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016

wolfpacker
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby wolfpacker » Fri Jul 30, 2021 10:51 pm

LuisFernandez wrote:
Pamen116 wrote:
LuisFernandez wrote:For length use a traction device. This will allow you to get the titan xl cylinders which have greater girth. For girth use a VED or you can look into fat or HA injections.




Luis a little late for some of that because I’m already one year in post implant bud


A little late for what? You can most certainly use traction devices post-implant:
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21492409/
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21091884/

Same for fat or HA injections, you can get these with an implant. Same for VED, you can use with an implant.


The first link is specifically men who do NOT have an implant, and the second link is a case study of one single person who used a traction device on himself while he had an implant. Just wanted to point that out
Early 30s with ED for years from penis enlargement stretching and jelqing. Implant by Dr Eid on 24 June 2021 with a Titan 24cm with +1cm RTE on one side and -1cm cut off on the other side

My journal: viewtopic.php?t=17202

LuisFernandez
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Re: Need more girth. Sad days

Postby LuisFernandez » Fri Jul 30, 2021 10:58 pm

Indeed, using a traction device for many hours works.
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016


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