Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

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Cigar56
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Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby Cigar56 » Tue Jul 27, 2021 7:25 pm

First, some background. Wifey and I are both in our sixties. She's older by a couple years. Wonderful wife and mother to our adult kids. Doting grandma. The only sticking point is she's very low drive sexually and I'm very high drive. We've gotten to the point to where she is ready to shut down (sexually) totally. So OK fine. It's a good thing I love to masturbate and I've got some of the best male sex toys. If she wants to pack it in, sexually, I'll still stay with her. Everything else about our relationship is wonderful. We have great kids, fantastic grandchildren, she's a super golfing partner -- the whole bit.

So I told her I was thinking about an implant and she said, "Fine. If that's what you want to do." We're both at peace with the fact that her drive is now pretty much non-existent, and mine is still growing! LOL. But now after choosing a surgeon I found out that the procedure could make it difficult for me to achieve orgasm, even with a toy?

Couldn't believe it. Checked around the site here. Yep! Found postings where guys reporting not being able to orgasm regularly with the implant.

I said to myself, "Oh fuck. This is torture."

Please tell me this can't be true.
I've tried everything -- pills, injections pumps -- and now I am at the final frontier.

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby wolfpacker » Tue Jul 27, 2021 8:04 pm

I'm sure it's possible to have problems achieving orgasm with the implant, but after I got my implant I masturbated for the first time at day 10 and easily had an excellent orgasm. Sex on day 21, again fantastic orgasm with no problems. Make sure you get a good surgeon who won't unnecessarily damage nerves when putting the implant in.
Early 30s with ED for years from penis enlargement stretching and jelqing. Implant by Dr Eid on 24 June 2021 with a Titan 24cm with +1cm RTE on one side and -1cm cut off on the other side

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby beachbum » Tue Jul 27, 2021 8:42 pm

Hey. I'm in a similar situation but my wife has lost ALL interest in any kind of sex. This happened 15 years ago. So my only relief has been j/o. A little over five years ago I decided to get an implant. I hoped it might help to change her mind but it didn't. But I have to say that the implant was one fo of the best decision I've ever made. As far as being able to orgasim, I'm still quite able to do so. Now it does take a little longer and I do at times, not always, need some outside stimulation to help do so. Internet is full of that 8-) So I guess what I'm saying is if you need one, want one, and your wife is for it, talk to your Dr. more about it and do it. I don't think the lack of organ is really that common though it does happen. I think you will find that many,many more here still have orgasims as compared to those who dont. Yes it's a risk, all surgery is a risk. But to me , the reward of having a working dick out weighted the risk. But then again, this is a decision you alone have to make. Get as much information as you can and then make your decision.
Just my 2 cents
71. ED for about 10+ years to one extent or another. Implanted 9/14/2016 AMS CX 18+3 Fl/ Ky

Cigar56
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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby Cigar56 » Tue Jul 27, 2021 9:04 pm

Thanks wolfpacker and beachbum. Sex at home is pretty much finished, but as I said, I'm not going anywhere. It helps/hurts to know that a couple of other friends of mine are in the same boat, which is why we take a few "boys" trips every year. And a good time was had by all! LOL.
I've tried everything -- pills, injections pumps -- and now I am at the final frontier.

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby newbie443 » Tue Jul 27, 2021 10:58 pm

Cigar56 wrote:First, some background. Wifey and I are both in our sixties. She's older by a couple years. Wonderful wife and mother to our adult kids. Doting grandma. The only sticking point is she's very low drive sexually and I'm very high drive. We've gotten to the point to where she is ready to shut down (sexually) totally. So OK fine. It's a good thing I love to masturbate and I've got some of the best male sex toys. If she wants to pack it in, sexually, I'll still stay with her. Everything else about our relationship is wonderful. We have great kids, fantastic grandchildren, she's a super golfing partner -- the whole bit.

So I told her I was thinking about an implant and she said, "Fine. If that's what you want to do." We're both at peace with the fact that her drive is now pretty much non-existent, and mine is still growing! LOL. But now after choosing a surgeon I found out that the procedure could make it difficult for me to achieve orgasm, even with a toy?

Couldn't believe it. Checked around the site here. Yep! Found postings where guys reporting not being able to orgasm regularly with the implant.

I said to myself, "Oh fuck. This is torture."

Please tell me this can't be true.


Right after surgery when I was released for sex I did have some trouble. It did take longer and I would just get tired of trying. This did improve and I can now orgasm with masturbation most every time. One thing you should also look at in those old post is that while it may (in some cases like mine) take longer the orgasm is more powerful. Another thing to remember is that women have a little pill now to help with sex. And if it is dryness that causes pain or even something else doctors can help with that also. But that is another subject. For me an very important part of me was gone and I wanted it back. Not so I could go and have sex all the time but to know I could if the opportunity was available. As was posted not all men have this and the ones that do it seems to me that it dose in most all cases improve.
Injections failed. Implanted 3-21-18 AMS 700 LGX 21 + 1 RTE 100 cc reservoir 6.5" L 5" G Dr. Kramer.

Proximal Perforation Sling Repair 4/13/21 Dr. Broghammer

66 years young.

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby Raycaba » Tue Jul 27, 2021 11:41 pm

I always had early orgasms so this implant helped and I can last a long time. I still orgasm but have to work the glan more!

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Postby cbinspok » Wed Jul 28, 2021 12:39 am

Im with Raycaba. And the feeling to have to hurry because you might lose your woodie is gone and for the first time in many years you can slow down and enjoy the moment. :)
67years,fighting ed for over twenty years. A sever break, vit E, pataba, Viagra, massage Ved cilas, and I'm tired- throwing in the towel, Op for implant Mar 18, 2021 AMS LGX 18 x12 + 1 3cm RTE, gained girth and length, very glad I took the hard step.

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby Txagq8 » Wed Jul 28, 2021 2:25 am

I’ve had a totally opposite experience.

During the ED days, even with shots or pills or both, I was trying to screw with an organ maybe 60-70% erect. Especially with the shots I could go on for hours at a 60-70% erect state but (a) going for that long, even with lube and only semi hard, will chafe a vagina and set up the mother of all yeast infections. Real convenient if you like being banished to couch and (b) even if it’s solid enough to penetrate a semi isn’t hard enough to maximize nerve stimulation for the male, and getting over the edge to a climax was like a 1-in-10 deal.

With the implant I get hard. I’m not tense. I don’t have to squeeze my pelvic floor muscles constantly to avoid losing my hard on. I can relax and feel my juices being pumped into the bulbous urethra in preparation for ejaculation. I can use my implanted cock to slide around and massage my wife’s erogenous zones. I don’t have to wear myself out with superhuman stimulation to try and get to orgasm. For the first time ever I can relax and enjoy sex instead of feeling like I’m engaging in a lost cause doomed from the hit-go.

Especially from oral. You can set a watch. A good blow job will have me shooting in 12 minutes or less.

I can’t say my anorhasmia/delayed ejaculation is totally gone-but it is 1000 times better with the implant than beforehand.
Robust, adolescent 65 year old. Venous leakage forever. Used shots, shots+pills 30+ years. Married to same wife ~35 yrs. Implanted 31Dec2019 in Austin Tx. AMS 700 LGX 18 cm with 5 cm RTE.

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby Masonjames » Wed Jul 28, 2021 7:04 am

.A lot of guys who are having problems with orgasms are like me. I was having problems before the implant and being able to stay hard as actually helped me. Before I would lose my erection before I could orgasm. Now I don't worry about that. I don't always reach an orgasm i t's not the implant itself.
Dr. Hakky did tell me that not inflating fully made it easier to orgasm.
70 year old, Married 53 years with two adult children.
Tried pills, herbs, and Trimix. Implanted by Dr. Hakky , in Atlanta, on the 1st, of September. Titan XL 24cm's with two 1.5cm"s RTE"s

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Re: Oh Well, The Thought of Getting an Implant Was Nice Until I learned This...

Postby Old Guy » Wed Jul 28, 2021 10:10 am

The implant won't kill your ability to orgasm. For the first few months it may be tougher to orgasm until the nerves heal. At week 4 after my implant I was so horny I had to masturbate. Got off real quick. Sex with the wife took longer the first several months for me to get off, now it's pretty much the same as pre-ED days. If it's been a week or so between sex I'll orgasm in minutes, if it's been less than 3-4 days I can fuck for a long, long time. The best part is even if I shoot off to quick I stay hard and can get the wife off once or twice more.
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