depressed please help me

[whatisthislife]

i am 29 and have a incomplete spinal cord injury in my neck for approximately 6 months. i have partial paralysis all over my body. i am looking into getting an implant. i live in brisbane australia. i am beyond depressed and i think of ending this daily. if anyone could help me at all in any way that would be good. i dont know what i am looking for but i a feel so lost and alone and scared. i feel broken and like everything is slowly being taken from me.

[confused95]

Hey mate.
An Italian buddy here ready to support you.
Feel free to pm me if you need!

[Txagq8]

Dear Whatisthislife:

PLEASE do me a favor, IMMEDIATELY.


Reach out to a professional. Suicide prevention, Psychologist, Priest or other clergy, Medical Doctor, someone.

As much as the guys on the board (like me) want to help we are faceless screen names on a message board and are ill prepared to deal effectively with suicide ideation. That’s serious stuff.

Once you’ve got the harming yourself issue conquered, then we will be happy to tell you our experiences in conquering ED and support you every step. The first step, though, is getting rid of the thought that checking out is a viable option. And as good as this board is, it’s not good enough to effectively address that topic. Except to urge you in strong terms to find the help you need. It is available.

[Quester]

I totally agree with Txagq8 we are nameless faceless people there may be some counselors in the group, but over all we are not the ones that can help you as much as we’d like to. We can’t understand what you are going through. I can tell you that I was at a point in my life that I thought suicide was a viable option I can tell you that when a friend sensed it he saved my life and he became my best friend. Years later we tackled ED together.

No shame in getting help it takes a strong man to ask for help

[gene308]

I wish I could help more. I would say get the implant. It is somthing positive in your life.having a magnificent bionic dick has to bring a smile

[ViaSwiss]

Here is a story on Reddit about a guy who had partial paralysis and got an implant. He seems very happy with it..

https://www.reddit.com/r/IAmA/comments/ ... at_ask_me/

[shrunken_dick]

i am 29 and have a incomplete spinal cord injury in my neck for approximately 6 months. i have partial paralysis all over my body. i am looking into getting an implant. i live in brisbane australia. i am beyond depressed and i think of ending this daily. if anyone could help me at all in any way that would be good. i dont know what i am looking for but i a feel so lost and alone and scared. i feel broken and like everything is slowly being taken from me.

Man, get the implant as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will lose length which would be another reason for depression. I have gone from 5.5” penis to 4”. I am counting on the sliding technique, and if I get glan necrosis, I will consider suicide.

[Lost Sheep]

Man, get the implant as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will lose length which would be another reason for depression. I have gone from 5.5” penis to 4”. I am counting on the sliding technique, and if I get glan necrosis, I will consider suicide.

Have you used Vacuum therapy to try to regain your lost size? Gentle suction to re-fill your cavernosum tissues and stretch the tunica has the potential to restore lost size if it was not too long ago. It takes time, and cannot be rushed (too much vacuum can damage the tissues your are trying to restore, as well as other penile tissues).

To whatisthislife, vacuum therapy can maintain tissue health and size while you wait to find a cure or treatment.

[confused95]

i am 29 and have a incomplete spinal cord injury in my neck for approximately 6 months. i have partial paralysis all over my body. i am looking into getting an implant. i live in brisbane australia. i am beyond depressed and i think of ending this daily. if anyone could help me at all in any way that would be good. i dont know what i am looking for but i a feel so lost and alone and scared. i feel broken and like everything is slowly being taken from me.

Man, get the implant as soon as possible. Otherwise, you will lose length which would be another reason for depression. I have gone from 5.5” penis to 4”. I am counting on the sliding technique, and if I get glan necrosis, I will consider suicide.

Why don’t you use vacuum ?

[KenJ1947]

Hey, Whatisthislife,

I definitely agree with Txagq8 and Quester. Get help to resolve your issues. This life is way more than having or not having an implant (I'm assuming) for sex. Find those other things and pursue them. You will be able to see clearly how to proceed with this life.

I lean towards religious counseling, but talk with friends, family and others about this life.

I will add you to my prayer list.

Ken J