shiloh2218 wrote:Did you tell your kids that you have ED and getting a implant. They would have to know about the surgery if they are home for the six weeks.
Can you hide the surgery from your wife if she is away for few days?
You may be able to hide the surgery from your wife and if she likes surprises in bed that MIGHT be a good idea. (Scenario: She is away for two or three months and you want to surprise her with a viable erection.)
I say "MIGHT" because this has a zero.zero/zero/zero/one percent chance of being a good idea.
If you want to hide the surgery from your wife forever and you do not intend to ever have sex with her, you MIGHT be able to pull that off if she is away for a couple months.
If you want to hide the surgery from your wife until she comes home after a few days to find that you have done this without her knowledge, but you have discussed it with her beforehand and she was supportive and now you want to present her with a fait accompli, that has a slightly better chance of coming out well. SLIGHTLY.
If you think you can manage the after-surgery care without your wife or some other person to change your bandages, inspect your incision, bring you meals in bed, think again. A wife is usually the best person do do this, unless you have a caring mistress or someone else.
I admit, I have jumped to some conclusions about WHY you would want to hide this from your wife - your life's partner I suppose. So, some of this advice is tongue-in-cheek, but this is serious business. So, I have to ask, why would you want to hide it from your wife? Most women I have known would have negative reactions of various kinds if someone they had taken vows with would do this without their participation. As far as that goes, most women with whom I was sharing a bed (much less a household and children) would be insulted, dismayed and hurt even if our relationship was casual.
Hiding stuff from a wife is a recipe for disaster, my friend.