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35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 2:06 am
by Tomtomtom28
Considering an implant as I hate how sex anxiety makes me feel
I’m reaching out for help and advice please, I’m here in the uk
I’ve tried with too girls lately.
The latest one I was successful with but because I’ve had 1 failure my body has shut down with her. Can’t believe it
I’ve had lots of different therapies
I get morning wood but the pressure when it comes to sex over takes everything in my body
My body goes super hot from anxiety and I can’t Relax.
Reslly affects my mental health

Has any one here had an implant all down to psychological impotence it’s the only thing in my life that is bad.
Only the sex situation that causes all this anxiety/depression

Hope there is someone out there I can chat with.

Thank you
Tom

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 7:32 am
by frwmw1
Have you tried Viagra, Cialis, and then if that fails try injection therapy?

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 8:30 am
by Tomtomtom28
No not tried injections
Never with a girl long enough to try anything as my mental state starts really going low

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 9:33 am
by Tortão
Would your anxiety get better with an implant? Is it just the pressure of holding an erection that makes you anxious?

I'd try different kinds of drugs and psychological approaches before going for an implant.

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 10:37 am
by Fran4524
You can try with cialis 10/20mg each day. it should work with your anxiety.

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 11:06 am
by Tomtomtom28
Thanks for your advice people

I’m trying psychological sexual therapy at the minute
It’s only once every 3 weeks though

If I could have sex and didn’t have to worry about it that’s when all my anxiety would go.
My only anxiety is about having a normal healthy sex life
I’m worried I’ll always be like this
Been like it from 16
It’s weird I can get erect, don’t really enjoy masturbating now though.
I’ve stopped porn ages ago as I know this might be damaging

I’d be content if I could just have a normal ace life
I don’t need fancy things or anything? Just normality

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 2:45 pm
by mikestap
Don't get an implant that you don't need.
Have you thought about working to get over your anxiety with help from a professional lady?

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sat Apr 10, 2021 3:22 pm
by Tomtomtom28
I’ve tried working through it mate. Not worked.
And I’m speaking with a sex therapist too

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2021 6:44 am
by irishguy
It sounds like you need to find the money to go to your therapist once a week which is the norm.. maybe try meditation and or yoga. How long have you been seeing your therapist?

Re: 35 severe anxiety around sex, may get implant in uk

Posted: Sun Apr 11, 2021 7:03 am
by Tomtomtom28
Well I’ve been going to therapists since I can remember
Like I say I’ve never been right with this problem. Since age 17
Do I keep going like I am wasting more time ?