Wife is against me getting an implant

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smphead
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby smphead » Tue Mar 16, 2021 10:41 am

Good to hear bro.
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.

Bionic Richard
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby Bionic Richard » Tue Mar 16, 2021 11:50 am

Please be aware that a PSA test results will be offset incorrectly while on Finasteride. Your Urologist should know this.
1957 model, married 27yr first time 6 yr present,10/16 Retired,12/16 PSA 4.9, 1/17 Biopsy, 2/17 Gleason 4+3, 3/17 Robotic Prostatectomy, 4/17 PSA nondecetable, Penile therapy, pills/VED/Trimix, 5/25/18 AMS 700 LGX 21cm 3cm RTE.

Rawness1111
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby Rawness1111 » Tue Mar 16, 2021 11:57 am

Smh, this shouldn't even be a discussion. Be a man. Love yourself first and her second. I'm 33 I have loved and loss. Had a wife that cared deeply for me. Loss her to ed and other issues. Had a girlfriend that I cared for more than she cared for me. She was against me getting an implant. I kicked her to the curve. Had other gf since. One now that really loves me. Man I know and understand decision that you have to make but make it based upon how you feel and not upon how someone else feel . make yourself happy and every
Else in life will follow
32 yrs old. Newly developed ed with divorce and searching for solutions.

Biker60
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby Biker60 » Tue Mar 16, 2021 1:18 pm

Bionic Richard wrote:Please be aware that a PSA test results will be offset incorrectly while on Finasteride. Your Urologist should know this.


Double your psa number when on finasteride. That would be your true value. Give it take

LuisFernandez
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby LuisFernandez » Tue Mar 16, 2021 1:27 pm

Bionic Richard wrote:Please be aware that a PSA test results will be offset incorrectly while on Finasteride. Your Urologist should know this.


Thanks. Yeah unfortunately looks like i'll need to opt for a rectal exam more often because of this issue. >_<
Born 1986. ED. Peyronie's.
Considering an Implant. Consulting with Dr. Eid.
Using Cialis 10mg/day + 20mg for sex. Injections of PGE-1.
See my story: viewtopic.php?t=15016

Newstart2021
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby Newstart2021 » Wed Mar 17, 2021 9:58 am

Obviously, her intentions are selfish. She either fears that you will ask her more of sex or she fears that you will have a newly gained confidence in yourself and begin to stray. It may also be a combination of both.
67 year old. ED 25 years. pills don't work. Injections worked great for 3 years but last year they have continued a decline in effect. Also, 40 degree Peyronies curve to the left. No pain but a little awkward at times for intercourse.

ViaSwiss
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Re: Wife is against me getting an implant

Postby ViaSwiss » Wed Mar 17, 2021 10:47 am

Newstart2021 wrote:Obviously, her intentions are selfish. She either fears that you will ask her more of sex or she fears that you will have a newly gained confidence in yourself and begin to stray. It may also be a combination of both.


She was a very controlling wife, not in that she didn't like me hanging out with friends or anything like that - but more so in that she needed to have power in every little situation. I don't even know if she realizes that, because it is so ingrained into her daily life and her upbringing was her mother being the same way with her dad.

So I think you are right, me having ED and low-ish libido gave her control over the fear of me being able to seek other women (her ex-husband cheated on her a # of times) and leave her if I was ever unhappy. That does make her reason for being unsupportive very very selfish and not the type of person I want to spend my life with.
Age 35. Venous Leakage & Post Finasteride Syndrome (PFS) since age 18.
Original Implant | June 25, 2021 | 20cm Titan w 1.5cm & 1cm RTEs
Revision | November 16, 2021 | 26cm | Dr. Hakky


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