Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Dec 18, 2020 7:51 pm

midwest guy wrote:I think for the most part, those of us with Titan implants are satisfied with firmness at 100% inflated. And I think most who have AMS implants are satisfied with hardness of their implants at 100%.

So let me rephrase my original question. IRREGARDLESS of which INFLATABLE implant you might have, what percentage of inflation do you you prefer, and what level does your partner prefer?

I think I answered that in my first post in this thread. But since I am long-winded, the answer was probably obscured by other points. Sorry about that.

My girlfriend likes me inflated 100% for coitus. A bit less for fellatio, maybe 80%.
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby rdnkbiker » Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:13 pm

Merrix ill agree the LGX does give you a more natural look softer but as far as pumped im not sure how it would be any harder, I think i can drill cement what we are saying is feels a little better more sensation when its not rock hard maybe with a titan you don't have that choice not sure have seen both felt both fully pumped no difference hard is hard not sure where your info comes from but maybe find a guy over your way that has a LGX and check it out
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby stmfttr » Fri Dec 18, 2020 8:44 pm

Until there ain't any fluid left in the reservoir!....both of us.
Or to put it another way... if you can hang a damp bath towel on it, it's hard enough...not a wash cloth, and not a hand towel.... one of those "bath sheets"!!!
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby merrix » Sat Dec 19, 2020 2:56 am

Quester wrote:All this banter about hardness I had to retrace back to original post.

For my 2 cents worth and then I may just leave the forum forever, as I’m totally or mostly so fed up with the whole “my implant is better than your implant” mentality that seems to keep popping up

The degree of hardness is what was mentioned before what is comfortable for you and your partner.

It could be just firm enough to being able to punch holes in concrete.

There of my soap box now


Yeah, the original post was about hardness and partner preference.
I gave a pretty damn personal view on it, revealing myself and my wife's sex life, preferences etc. As always.
merrix wrote:In my case, and my wife's case, we enjoy both. Sometimes the totally unnatural hardness of a 70 pumps 100% full Titan and sometimes a more natural hardness, 40-50 pumps, with some flex in the base. And let me just clarify that those numbers are not full wall to wall from first to last pump. They are gradually more and more shallow pumps.
The preference depends on the type of sex.
Long lasting, creative, all positions available - natural hardness.
Quick, rough, hard, animalistic in and out from a pool of a few positions - the steel rod hardness.

For my wife, she can't take the full hardness for a grinding one hour session in all kinds of positions. That will be uncomfortable, and more so the longer we go on.
So if she is up for the longer lasting sex, being free to choose any position, then she prefers the natural hardness.
But her preference is a shorter, harder type of sex. She just says it feels great to be fucked by a dick with that (unnatural) hardness.
But as with all else in life, variation is king. So she wants a mix of both.

In my case, it is basically the same thing.
If I am in the mood for just fucking her hard, with a kind of animal/robot (or whatever) feeling, then I'll do it fully inflated. It just feels great to know that you give your woman a feeling and experience (in terms of hardness at least) that she guaranteed never had before with anybody else.
But then on the other hand, I can't go on for too long that way. It will give me a dull mild pain if I go on for too long. So this is for the fast and furious style of sex.
When I am in the mood for more traditional, long lasting, romantic, creative sex - then I prefer the natural hardness.


What exactly did you contribute with in this thread? Did you help the original poster? Did you even try to answer his question? Or did you just complain about those who actually tried?


Same with LS, he gave a pretty personal answer to the original question as well.
Lost Sheep wrote:I have yet to pump up to the point where my girlfriend wants less inflation/pressure.

My penis' shaft at (95% to 100%) is almost unbendable (any direction by hand pressure). Even at 90% there is precious little flex remaining. At 80%, penetration is still viable, but she does seem to like me pumped higher than that.

Sometimes I think she cannot tell the difference between 90% and 100% because she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up. (This is concerning to me because I wonder if getting MORE rigid -though I cannot see how - or perhaps just longer or girthier would be more satisfying to her. Maybe it is just my insecurity talking, but how can a man tell where OPTIMAL is unless he goes past that point and she asks for less?)


And if someone feels he has to leave the forum just because me and LS happen to have an exchange where opinions may differ - while we very openly and revealingly answer the exact question put in the original post - then that's his loss. Probably nobody else's though.
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby implant1959 » Sat Dec 19, 2020 3:12 am

This seems to have caused drama, so my question is Why does it matter what someone else prefers? Experiment and find what's best for ypu. This isn't a competition.
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby gjmjoe017 » Sat Dec 19, 2020 10:41 am

Wow!Some f you guys really get into the technical aspects of this a whole lot more than I will ever care to!And that’s fine,So far I love my Titan and the unbelievable Hardness it produces.My attitude is pump it to the point you like it and have great sex,that’s the ultimate goal for all of us and don’t sweat the small stuff!Have fun and enjoy the ride,I am!
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby Smetro » Sun Dec 20, 2020 3:29 am

midwest guy wrote:I think for the most part, those of us with Titan implants are satisfied with firmness at 100% inflated. And I think most who have AMS implants are satisfied with hardness of their implants at 100%.

So let me rephrase my original question. IRREGARDLESS of which INFLATABLE implant you might have, what percentage of inflation do you you prefer, and what level does your partner prefer?

Irregardless? No, it’s not a word
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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby Fran4524 » Wed Apr 14, 2021 1:13 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:I have yet to pump up to the point where my girlfriend wants less inflation/pressure.

My penis' shaft at (95% to 100%) is almost unbendable (any direction by hand pressure). Even at 90% there is precious little flex remaining. At 80%, penetration is still viable, but she does seem to like me pumped higher than that.

Sometimes I think she cannot tell the difference between 90% and 100% because she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up. (This is concerning to me because I wonder if getting MORE rigid -though I cannot see how - or perhaps just longer or girthier would be more satisfying to her. Maybe it is just my insecurity talking, but how can a man tell where OPTIMAL is unless he goes past that point and she asks for less?)


Sorry, partner. I am posting in several topics because I am doing an investigation about AMS LGX experiences. What you meaning with ''she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up''?. Are you meaning that she doesn't feel you hard or that she prefer more hardness? Sorry, I have to improve my reading english and it would be that I didn't understand you well.

Thank you so much!
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-I did jelqs and it is posible I injuried, but I hace to say that ED episodes began before I did jelq.
-Having sex with 30mg of tadalafilo

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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Apr 14, 2021 1:45 pm

Fran4524 wrote:
Lost Sheep wrote:I have yet to pump up to the point where my girlfriend wants less inflation/pressure.

My penis' shaft at (95% to 100%) is almost unbendable (any direction by hand pressure). Even at 90% there is precious little flex remaining. At 80%, penetration is still viable, but she does seem to like me pumped higher than that.

Sometimes I think she cannot tell the difference between 90% and 100% because she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up. (This is concerning to me because I wonder if getting MORE rigid -though I cannot see how - or perhaps just longer or girthier would be more satisfying to her. Maybe it is just my insecurity talking, but how can a man tell where OPTIMAL is unless he goes past that point and she asks for less?)


Sorry, partner. I am posting in several topics because I am doing an investigation about AMS LGX experiences. What you meaning with ''she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up''?. Are you meaning that she doesn't feel you hard or that she prefer more hardness? Sorry, I have to improve my reading english and it would be that I didn't understand you well.

Thank you so much!

It is unfortunately a fact that I am not sure what she means. I have asked her if she prefers more hardness/rigidity and she says, "no". I have also asked if she would prefer more length and she say's "no".

But in the back of my mind, both those conversations leave me asking myself what her response would be if I had more rigidity, girth or length. I suspect, since my size or rigidity is unlikely to increase any time soon, she answers, "no" because a "yes" would be pointless and unproductive to our relationship. Women are inscrutable in such ways.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

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Re: Preferred Degree of Hardness During Sex

Postby Fran4524 » Wed Apr 14, 2021 1:53 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:
Fran4524 wrote:
Lost Sheep wrote:I have yet to pump up to the point where my girlfriend wants less inflation/pressure.

My penis' shaft at (95% to 100%) is almost unbendable (any direction by hand pressure). Even at 90% there is precious little flex remaining. At 80%, penetration is still viable, but she does seem to like me pumped higher than that.

Sometimes I think she cannot tell the difference between 90% and 100% because she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up. (This is concerning to me because I wonder if getting MORE rigid -though I cannot see how - or perhaps just longer or girthier would be more satisfying to her. Maybe it is just my insecurity talking, but how can a man tell where OPTIMAL is unless he goes past that point and she asks for less?)


Sorry, partner. I am posting in several topics because I am doing an investigation about AMS LGX experiences. What you meaning with ''she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up''?. Are you meaning that she doesn't feel you hard or that she prefer more hardness? Sorry, I have to improve my reading english and it would be that I didn't understand you well.

Thank you so much!

It is unfortunately a fact that I am not sure what she means. I have asked her if she prefers more hardness/rigidity and she says, "no". I have also asked if she would prefer more length and she say's "no".

But in the back of my mind, both those conversations leave me asking myself what her response would be if I had more rigidity, girth or length. I suspect, since my size or rigidity is unlikely to increase any time soon, she answers, "no" because a "yes" would be pointless and unproductive to our relationship. Women are inscrutable in such ways.


I understand... In this case, thank you for the answer! I will keep searching answer!
-1993
-Erection problems since 4 years
-I did jelqs and it is posible I injuried, but I hace to say that ED episodes began before I did jelq.
-Having sex with 30mg of tadalafilo


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