Quester wrote:All this banter about hardness I had to retrace back to original post.
For my 2 cents worth and then I may just leave the forum forever, as I’m totally or mostly so fed up with the whole “my implant is better than your implant” mentality that seems to keep popping up
The degree of hardness is what was mentioned before what is comfortable for you and your partner.
It could be just firm enough to being able to punch holes in concrete.
There of my soap box now
Yeah, the original post was about hardness and partner preference.
I gave a pretty damn personal view on it, revealing myself and my wife's sex life, preferences etc. As always.
merrix wrote:In my case, and my wife's case, we enjoy both. Sometimes the totally unnatural hardness of a 70 pumps 100% full Titan and sometimes a more natural hardness, 40-50 pumps, with some flex in the base. And let me just clarify that those numbers are not full wall to wall from first to last pump. They are gradually more and more shallow pumps.
The preference depends on the type of sex.
Long lasting, creative, all positions available - natural hardness.
Quick, rough, hard, animalistic in and out from a pool of a few positions - the steel rod hardness.
For my wife, she can't take the full hardness for a grinding one hour session in all kinds of positions. That will be uncomfortable, and more so the longer we go on.
So if she is up for the longer lasting sex, being free to choose any position, then she prefers the natural hardness.
But her preference is a shorter, harder type of sex. She just says it feels great to be fucked by a dick with that (unnatural) hardness.
But as with all else in life, variation is king. So she wants a mix of both.
In my case, it is basically the same thing.
If I am in the mood for just fucking her hard, with a kind of animal/robot (or whatever) feeling, then I'll do it fully inflated. It just feels great to know that you give your woman a feeling and experience (in terms of hardness at least) that she guaranteed never had before with anybody else.
But then on the other hand, I can't go on for too long that way. It will give me a dull mild pain if I go on for too long. So this is for the fast and furious style of sex.
When I am in the mood for more traditional, long lasting, romantic, creative sex - then I prefer the natural hardness.
What exactly did you contribute with in this thread? Did you help the original poster? Did you even try to answer his question? Or did you just complain about those who actually tried?
Same with LS, he gave a pretty personal answer to the original question as well.
Lost Sheep wrote:I have yet to pump up to the point where my girlfriend wants less inflation/pressure.
My penis' shaft at (95% to 100%) is almost unbendable (any direction by hand pressure). Even at 90% there is precious little flex remaining. At 80%, penetration is still viable, but she does seem to like me pumped higher than that.
Sometimes I think she cannot tell the difference between 90% and 100% because she sometimes asks me if I am pumped all the way up. (This is concerning to me because I wonder if getting MORE rigid -though I cannot see how - or perhaps just longer or girthier would be more satisfying to her. Maybe it is just my insecurity talking, but how can a man tell where OPTIMAL is unless he goes past that point and she asks for less?)
And if someone feels he has to leave the forum just because me and LS happen to have an exchange where opinions may differ - while we very openly and revealingly answer the exact question put in the original post - then that's his loss. Probably nobody else's though.