Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

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Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby smphead » Sat Dec 05, 2020 3:11 pm

Hi Bro's,

I have a green light from the insuarance to go for an implant (Titan cause of length and curvature).

But still in doubt to take the final step.
My biggest concern is the bulge/semi-erect. I know some of you will say it's great woman staring at your crotch. But in my job it could give problems. Also having a daughter of 14 who would be very embarrassed if her friends are over and daddy has a semi erect/bulge. I don't wanna do that to her.

So looking for solutions i came across jockstrap underwear.
Any brothers who wear these on a daily basis?
Does it conceal enough so you don't have the look of a semi-erect?
Do you 'wear' your penis up- or downwards?
Can you wear a jockstrap and tight fitting jeans?

Thank.you
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.

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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby LMCatman » Sat Dec 05, 2020 4:40 pm

I used Fruit of the Loom jockeys one size smaller than my usual size. Mine wants to uncomfortably curl up down and to the left. The "size smaller" let me dress up and to the right. I eventually moved back into my regular size and still wear them.... Good Luck Man!!!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby rdnkbiker » Sat Dec 05, 2020 4:53 pm

personally don't worry about it if they want to look let them look lots of guys with no implant are very well endowed just part of life don't think they care to much whatever feels comfortable i would say
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HBP since my 20s Full ED i was 55 when i received my implant January 17th 2017 sever scare tissue through corpora cavernosa clear to the glands (no blood flow) complete revision new equipment july 10th 2023 AMS CX 21cm by DR.William Brant very happy

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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby 544kenmatt » Sat Dec 05, 2020 7:54 pm

I would recommend getting bikini style underwear in one size smaller than you usually wear. I dont think its as big a deal as you might think.
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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby smphead » Sun Dec 06, 2020 12:41 am

LMCatman wrote:I used Fruit of the Loom jockeys one size smaller than my usual size. Mine wants to uncomfortably curl up down and to the left. The "size smaller" let me dress up and to the right. I eventually moved back into my regular size and still wear them.... Good Luck Man!!!


And that way no semi-erect in jeans?
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.

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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby Masonjames » Sun Dec 06, 2020 6:04 am

I really don't understand the accession with the bulge. As long as it's not obscene what's the problem. All men have dicks and bulges are apart of that fact. Women have breast and no one suggest they strap them down. Just as a woman dresses like a lady a man knows how to dress like a gentleman. As long as you are not purposely trying to display yourself it shouldn't be a problem. Men who are naturally well endowed don't hide that nor should we.
If someone is looking at your crotch that closely they are the one with the problem
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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby smphead » Sun Dec 06, 2020 10:10 am

Masonjames wrote:I really don't understand the accession with the bulge. As long as it's not obscene what's the problem. All men have dicks and bulges are apart of that fact. Women have breast and no one suggest they strap them down. Just as a woman dresses like a lady a man knows how to dress like a gentleman. As long as you are not purposely trying to display yourself it shouldn't be a problem. Men who are naturally well endowed don't hide that nor should we.
If someone is looking at your crotch that closely they are the one with the problem


Thanx for the reply!

I think.there is a difference between an well-endowed male with a bulge or a male with a semi-erect implant.

The last one can be very emberrassing. People can think.you're aroused.
Think about it when you are in the present of children and showing a semi erect.

Btw does double underwear works for hiding a semi-erect?
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby Quester » Sun Dec 06, 2020 11:16 am

I was worried all be it funny after years of trying to enhance the bulge I was a grower.
To thinking the same thing, I wear scrubs I was we especially worried before I was activate and the first deflate as my doctor sent me home 50% or so inflated. If anything it was more me being self conscious than actual I never noticed anyone checking out the crotch bulge. Mostly now I wear the same underwear as before bikini, jocks but just for fun every now and then either commando or boxers under my scrubs, unless I partially inflate the bulge isn’t really that noticeable.
ED 20 years, Peyroine's Disease diagnosed in 2018, at 57 years I was implanted September 3rd 2019 at the Salt Lake City VA Medical Center, AMS700 CX 21cm + 2cm RTE

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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby Masonjames » Sun Dec 06, 2020 9:37 pm

smphead wrote:
Masonjames wrote:I really don't understand the accession with the bulge. As long as it's not obscene what's the problem. All men have dicks and bulges are apart of that fact. Women have breast and no one suggest they strap them down. Just as a woman dresses like a lady a man knows how to dress like a gentleman. As long as you are not purposely trying to display yourself it shouldn't be a problem. Men who are naturally well endowed don't hide that nor should we.
If someone is looking at your crotch that closely they are the one with the problem


Thanx for the reply!

I think.there is a difference between an well-endowed male with a bulge or a male with a semi-erect implant.

The last one can be very emberrassing. People can think.you're aroused.
Think about it when you are in the present of children and showing a semi erect.

Btw does double underwear works for hiding a semi-erect?


I couldn't tell you. I never tried double underwear. The penis with an implant doesn't look like a semi erect penis
70 year old, Married 53 years with two adult children.
Tried pills, herbs, and Trimix. Implanted by Dr. Hakky , in Atlanta, on the 1st, of September. Titan XL 24cm's with two 1.5cm"s RTE"s

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Re: Wearing a jockstrap underwear to conceal

Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Dec 07, 2020 1:04 am

smphead wrote:Hi Bro's,

I have a green light from the insuarance to go for an implant (Titan cause of length and curvature).

But still in doubt to take the final step.
My biggest concern is the bulge/semi-erect. I know some of you will say it's great woman staring at your crotch. But in my job it could give problems. Also having a daughter of 14 who would be very embarrassed if her friends are over and daddy has a semi erect/bulge. I don't wanna do that to her.

So looking for solutions i came across jockstrap underwear.
Any brothers who wear these on a daily basis?
Does it conceal enough so you don't have the look of a semi-erect?
Do you 'wear' your penis up- or downwards?
Can you wear a jockstrap and tight fitting jeans?

Thank.you

First of all, I commend you for caring for the feelings of your daughter. You are a good man.

Does your daughter know anything about the implant? Does she know anything about sex and the male penis? Knowledge in that area will make a difference to her understanding and acceptance. I do not recommend one way or the other to tell her some, all or nothing about your surgery, just commenting that what she knows about anatomy should color how you approach the inevitable questions (even if she does not ask out loud or directly).

She, and her friends, may indeed notice that your pants have more of a bulge than before the operation. Especially in the couple of week after the operation. I was very tender and had 70-75% inflation and no possibility of concealing that I was visibly erect.

This might make it harder to explain or it may make it easier, depending on how you approach it. She will certainly know that a surgery took place and the bulge/erection can be explained as swelling and bandaging. The explanation you choose can affect her understanding of your (changed) appearance as you return to normal clothes and activities. Or she may just accept the new you.

I imagine your greatest concern is that her friends may notice and tease her about "Your Daddy is strange/weird." (or permutations thereof). This can be painfully embarrassing to a teenage girl - just as embarrassing as her growing breasts (which is traumatic enough for some that they take to wearing bulky sweaters and slouching to hide them).

The way I would handle it (and keep in mind that I have not raised any daughters in any sense) is to be frank about it. "Daddy has had an operation on his private parts and will be swollen and tender for a while and even after a month or two will LOOK just a little different for the rest of his life but Daddy will not be any different towards you in any way. You can ask me any questions you have and I will tell you the truth because Daddy loves you and trusts you."

How you answer any questions she has in how much detail must be carefully thought out so you don't give her more information than she can understand or handle,. but the trust you have with her will guide you and the trust you build with her for the rest of her life will be affected by how you handle this phase or her growth ... and yours and growth of your relationship with her.

How much her mother or any mother figure (Aunt, favorite teacher, counselor, or even her doctor) can be relied on to help explain is up to you, but remember, they are resources you can bring in and many are bound by privilege keep secret any facts you divulge to them. They are there for the benefit of your Daughter. Let them help.

As far as her friends are concerned, the better she understands the truth, the better she will be able to handle her friends and any questions they bring to her.

I don't think I can add any advice to the many threads (past and current) on the subject of underwear that are on FranTalk.
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