Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

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smphead
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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby smphead » Sat Nov 21, 2020 3:56 pm

Gt1956 wrote:I believe that the only guarantee in your life is that if you have ED or peyronies. You will spend much of your life without a useable dick. Not a very good life to look forward to. I understand that it is hard to accept that your life will change in a way that you don't want if you do get an implant. I believe the alternative will be worse. No useable dick.


Well said. I can understand his fears, especially due his age
I think the fearing of his fears is much worser than the outcome in the feature.
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.

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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby Biker60 » Sat Nov 21, 2020 4:48 pm

hope794 wrote:Hello. Long story short, i thought that the penile girth with an implant was the same of what i had, in full erection, before the implant.
Today, i discovered that the implant only have 22cm diameter (the Titan) and so, the only girth you will have is the one from the implant itself or, at best, the one you had when you were flaccid before the surgery..

I'm doing my researches about this topic because, unfortunately, my stretched penile girth is ridicolous, like 9 cm (3.53"), and i've heard that these are the measurements which they take when they implant you.. and the ones you will have. I can't go from 15cm ( 5,90" ) girth now to 9 cm (3.53") after the implant, i would be too depressed and i wont accept it..

So i would like to know:

1) Which was your girth, in flaccid state, BEFORE the implant?
2) And how many inches is your girth now that you've been implanted?

Thank you everyone..


Don't know when you had your implant. But the Titan expands especially with regular cycling. In also 11 months, expansion makes the ring of a condom too tight for me . It's like using a cock ring. The Titan also did a great job on the remaining plaque in PD. Most men who have a Titan will also have a new flaccid as well.

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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby Gt1956 » Sat Nov 21, 2020 4:57 pm

smphead wrote:
Gt1956 wrote:I believe that the only guarantee in your life is that if you have ED or peyronies. You will spend much of your life without a useable dick. Not a very good life to look forward to. I understand that it is hard to accept that your life will change in a way that you don't want if you do get an implant. I believe the alternative will be worse. No useable dick.

Well said. I can understand his fears, especially due his age
I think the fearing of his fears is much worser than the outcome in the feature.

Thank you. I agree, the fear of fear is frequently worse than the actual fear
Smphead, nice to hear from you. My wife's parents emigrated from Rotterdam in the mid 1950's. She was the first child born in the USA. We've been to the Netherlands several times. But now all of the aunts & uncles are deceased. Sadly, we might not return.
65 HBP at 40 high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60

hope794
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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby hope794 » Sat Nov 21, 2020 5:20 pm

gjmjoe017 wrote:I’m eight days out after my surgery and had a large amount of swelling which has slowly gone down a bit,but I have right under 6 inches of girth flaccid at this point and had 5 inches erect before surgery so it looks very promising that the Titan is going to increase my girth quite a bit even when the swelling goes down more.


Wow, this looks really promising!!!! So you've earned 1 inch?? Wow! Please update me, even with a PM..
26 yo from Italy.Peyronie's disease probably since 2015.Since then,penis bends of about 20-25°. PD keeps progressing. Moderate ED since 4 years and things getting worse.From pornstar-like to depressed, but still fighting for a solution.

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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby hope794 » Sat Nov 21, 2020 5:21 pm

smphead wrote:
Gt1956 wrote:I believe that the only guarantee in your life is that if you have ED or peyronies. You will spend much of your life without a useable dick. Not a very good life to look forward to. I understand that it is hard to accept that your life will change in a way that you don't want if you do get an implant. I believe the alternative will be worse. No useable dick.


Well said. I can understand his fears, especially due his age
I think the fearing of his fears is much worser than the outcome in the feature.


A man have to admit his fears... I'm scared, for the first time in my life.
26 yo from Italy.Peyronie's disease probably since 2015.Since then,penis bends of about 20-25°. PD keeps progressing. Moderate ED since 4 years and things getting worse.From pornstar-like to depressed, but still fighting for a solution.

hope794
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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby hope794 » Sat Nov 21, 2020 5:22 pm

Biker60 wrote:
hope794 wrote:Hello. Long story short, i thought that the penile girth with an implant was the same of what i had, in full erection, before the implant.
Today, i discovered that the implant only have 22cm diameter (the Titan) and so, the only girth you will have is the one from the implant itself or, at best, the one you had when you were flaccid before the surgery..

I'm doing my researches about this topic because, unfortunately, my stretched penile girth is ridicolous, like 9 cm (3.53"), and i've heard that these are the measurements which they take when they implant you.. and the ones you will have. I can't go from 15cm ( 5,90" ) girth now to 9 cm (3.53") after the implant, i would be too depressed and i wont accept it..

So i would like to know:

1) Which was your girth, in flaccid state, BEFORE the implant?
2) And how many inches is your girth now that you've been implanted?

Thank you everyone..


Don't know when you had your implant. But the Titan expands especially with regular cycling. In also 11 months, expansion makes the ring of a condom too tight for me . It's like using a cock ring. The Titan also did a great job on the remaining plaque in PD. Most men who have a Titan will also have a new flaccid as well.


Ehy bro, i didn't have it yet. I'm considering it. I can achieve erections, just have serious issues in mantaining them and, at 26 years old, its depressing..
26 yo from Italy.Peyronie's disease probably since 2015.Since then,penis bends of about 20-25°. PD keeps progressing. Moderate ED since 4 years and things getting worse.From pornstar-like to depressed, but still fighting for a solution.

smphead
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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby smphead » Sat Nov 21, 2020 5:30 pm

Gt1956 wrote:
smphead wrote:
Gt1956 wrote:Smphead, nice to hear from you. My wife's parents emigrated from Rotterdam in the mid 1950's. She was the first child born in the USA. We've been to the Netherlands several times. But now all of the aunts & uncles are deceased. Sadly, we might not return.


Funny to hear your wife has 'Rotterdam.blood'
People from Rotterdam have a 'Big mouth' but a small hard.
Rotterdam is ' no words, but acts'
There is only one thing good about Amsterdam the train back to Rotterdam :D
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.

smphead
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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby smphead » Sat Nov 21, 2020 5:36 pm

hope794 wrote:
A man have to admit his fears... I'm scared, for the first time in my life.


I totally understand, but fhings will gonna be allright.
Did you use things like drugs/anti-depressants/hairlossmeds/Accutane?
1978, male Netherlands. ED due Propecia use. Currently using cialis.
Thinking about Penile Implant.

hope794
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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby hope794 » Sat Nov 21, 2020 5:57 pm

smphead wrote:
hope794 wrote:
A man have to admit his fears... I'm scared, for the first time in my life.


I totally understand, but fhings will gonna be allright.
Did you use things like drugs/anti-depressants/hairlossmeds/Accutane?


Never! I think my Peyronie's comes from genetic, since my mom have had issues with a fibrotic disease .
26 yo from Italy.Peyronie's disease probably since 2015.Since then,penis bends of about 20-25°. PD keeps progressing. Moderate ED since 4 years and things getting worse.From pornstar-like to depressed, but still fighting for a solution.

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Re: Really depressed about the girth. Please help me

Postby Waynetho » Sat Nov 21, 2020 6:28 pm

Biker60 wrote:Don't know when you had your implant. But the Titan expands especially with regular cycling. In also 11 months, expansion makes the ring of a condom too tight for me . It's like using a cock ring. The Titan also did a great job on the remaining plaque in PD. Most men who have a Titan will also have a new flaccid as well.


Biker, funny you should say that about the condom... I can't wear condoms reliably because I'm semi-conical in shape now. The coroporotomies are at the base and I'm thicker there (5.5") than I am in the middle of my shaft (5.0") so the condom rolls down about mid-shaft everytime I roll it to the base. They need "Over the nuts" condoms so they stay in place, or maybe a condom-keeper that clips over the base so it won't roll down on those that aren't symmetrical down the length of their shaft.
59 yo, married 39 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19 Dr. Mark Allen, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0


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