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Gt1956
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Re: My Story

Postby Gt1956 » Tue Sep 15, 2020 1:02 pm

Time2Change wrote:Noteas,
Thank you for the encouragement.
One question I have is about relearning how to be sexual again. I'm not romantic anymore. I don't know how to flirt anymore.
What are people doing to change behavior now that they can follow through easily?

That is a really good question. I'm going to presume that there is a woman in your life in my advice. This isn't a one day process. As day to day life goes on. If you come into a room or your wife enters the room that you're in. If you see any semi erotic skin, even cleavage would work. Give her a compliment how nice it looks. This gets the idea out in the open & might help to start conditioning your mind. As this progresses, you can try a caressing soft touch in the spots. A kiss in the cleavage might be good. Running you hand over her butt works. Always be gentle. You're trying to change long time habits & behaviours that ED has forced onto both of you. Try spooning for a while at bedtime, great oppertunity to cup breasts. Don't forget to mention that her hair, eyes or some other feature looks nice today. Even if she didn't change a thing. Women like to be noticed. Compliments from the man in her life go a long ways. Remember that it's almost like early in your relationship. You're trying to seduce her. But this time both of you need a refresher course. Good luck, just remember that you now have a superior dick as compared to your youth. Lot's of women like confidence in a man. Be gentle with a purpose in everything sexual that you do with her. Just like leading in dancing. Steer her, show her that you know where to go & how to get there.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

Time2Change
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Re: My Story

Postby Time2Change » Wed Sep 16, 2020 5:30 am

Gentlemen,

Thank you for the ideas, information, and encouragement.

I want to clarify my question. Are people seeing counselors after surgery to help with learning how to regain their sense of selves? And if so, how is it going? What are you talking about and learning?

I have drifted so far from where I was as a young man. I'm talking to a counselor occasionally now. I'd like ideas on what to talk about now to get ready for a return to near normalcy come December (my recollection is a roughly six-week recovery).
55; ED for 22+ years; Coloplast Titan implant on 10/26/20; Dr. Martin Gross; Happy to share my experiences in private messages

Swankyswanks
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Re: My Story

Postby Swankyswanks » Fri Nov 13, 2020 10:54 am

I just had my Titan Coloplast 21cm installed on 10/28/20. I can kinda relate to how to get back into the swing of things. With romance, it really is like riding a bike... you never really forget you just have to get that repetitive cycle going again. Compliments are always great, but to really do it the rt way. I suggest get the book" the 5 languages of love" it can really break down on how to get to your certain mate! I mean you should know youre wife and by simply reading that book should explain which language your lady will fall into.
For example, my beautiful wife language, is soft touches, telling her with words I simply Love her, and gifts. There really is no wrong language, just gives you insight on how to hone in how to get your lady going!
I know for sure I lost it this last yr and some change as my sex anxiety was maxed out and i just couldn't beat it,, like austin powers .... i lost my mojo! But my sexy wife loves me and my cocker spaniel(wink) and she supported me with the implant. Me and her both cant freaking wait to use it! She let me give her oral the other nt and she and i both wanted to, but my bro wasnt ready!
Good luck with everything! Hope your healing is quickly done and you get back in the saddle in No time!
39 Yrs.old/ great health/ super active / PE/ ED/ T SHOTS/ VIAGRA/ CIALIS/ HYPNOSIS FROM SEX THERAPIST/ PROPIATUS SHOTS/ HCG injections/ could never do penis injections/ titan 21cm WITH no rte 10/28/20 installed


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