Thank you for the encouragement.
One question I have is about relearning how to be sexual again. I'm not romantic anymore. I don't know how to flirt anymore.
What are people doing to change behavior now that they can follow through easily?
That is a really good question. I'm going to presume that there is a woman in your life in my advice. This isn't a one day process. As day to day life goes on. If you come into a room or your wife enters the room that you're in. If you see any semi erotic skin, even cleavage would work. Give her a compliment how nice it looks. This gets the idea out in the open & might help to start conditioning your mind. As this progresses, you can try a caressing soft touch in the spots. A kiss in the cleavage might be good. Running you hand over her butt works. Always be gentle. You're trying to change long time habits & behaviours that ED has forced onto both of you. Try spooning for a while at bedtime, great oppertunity to cup breasts. Don't forget to mention that her hair, eyes or some other feature looks nice today. Even if she didn't change a thing. Women like to be noticed. Compliments from the man in her life go a long ways. Remember that it's almost like early in your relationship. You're trying to seduce her. But this time both of you need a refresher course. Good luck, just remember that you now have a superior dick as compared to your youth. Lot's of women like confidence in a man. Be gentle with a purpose in everything sexual that you do with her. Just like leading in dancing. Steer her, show her that you know where to go & how to get there.