Weird question about coming and staying hard

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ViaSwiss
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Weird question about coming and staying hard

Postby ViaSwiss » Wed Aug 19, 2020 2:12 pm

For those of you who had sex with a SO that did not know you had an implant: when you orgasms but then stayed hard but were able to keep going...how did your SO other react to that? Was she confused? How did you explain it to her?
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Hounds68
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Re: Weird question about coming and staying hard

Postby Hounds68 » Wed Aug 19, 2020 2:20 pm

She was surprised, thrilled, wanted me to keep going, and asked if it was as good for me as it was for her! No confusion, an easy learner, and a woman of incrdible good taste,

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Re: Weird question about coming and staying hard

Postby Gt1956 » Wed Aug 19, 2020 3:17 pm

Uh, I don't think that great sex is either surprising or confusing. In my younger days, if by chance I didn't orgasm for a while. My wife was not confused or surprised. She went with the flow & just kept fucking like her very life depended on it. My standard method was to do my very best to NOT orgasm before she had at least one orgasm. 3-5 were very common through PIV only. I admit, on the rare side of the female spectrum but certainly not the only one.
Many was a time when a new female friend of hers would figure this out. Finally leading to some gentle questioning or even outright blunt questions. After recieving the news that I just typed, many of these women NEVER brought up sexual talks again. Easy to tell that they had very limited, if any, orgasms.
ViaSwiss, if you are American. You should know the phrase to "never look a gift horse in the mouth". If you are not familar with it. It means that in the old days part of the value of a horse was it's age. A horses age can be estimated by the condition of it's teeth up to about 8 years old. If you are given a horse (orgasm) don't go questioning it. Just take it.
I watched an interesting YouTube video. A roving reporter asked younger looking men & women individually how long sex should last. Women consistantly gave times that were longer than the mens answers. Pretty solid evidence that women want sex to last longer. An implant at least gives you a chance to last longer. Sounds like a winning combination to me. Why would they question you when you have actually met their expectation? Hounds68 answer is what you'll most likely get in my opinion.
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Lost Sheep
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Re: Weird question about coming and staying hard

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Aug 19, 2020 3:27 pm

ViaSwiss wrote:For those of you who had sex with a SO that did not know you had an implant: when you orgasms but then stayed hard but were able to keep going...how did your SO other react to that? Was she confused? How did you explain it to her?

Not that weird a question at all. It has been touched on in Franktalk threads many times by guys interested in hiding the fact they are implanted, or how and when to bring up.

I once had sex with a woman who did not realize that I had orgasmed. No problem there.

There was a comment from a woman who realized her lover was implanted, but chose not to tell him she knew. She figured he would share that information when and if he wanted and it was not her place to confront him. It figures that she would not want to "rock the gravy boat" (to mix metaphors).

A lot depends on how much experience a woman has with coitus and how much experience and knowledge (which are separate things) she has about E.D.

Once a woman experiences a man who is NOT subject to E.D., especially if she has dealt with E.D. before, she is likely to be very accepting and even eager to know more about it. Confusion WILL give way to knowledge gained by experience!

In other words, for 95% of women, you have no concerns.

I have found that women are incredibly supportive if they feel trusted, respected and safe.

I believe in telling before the clothes are completely removed that I have a pleasant surprise, something she would like to know or might like to simply discover in time.

See this thread for subtle ways to "advertise" even before sex is imminent

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