So scared to do implant surgery

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
LBC2020
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby LBC2020 » Thu Jul 30, 2020 10:06 pm

will1948 wrote:Had my implant May 11 this year. My wife and I have had sex 5 or 6 times since then.Doc said no sex for 6 weeks so we just got started.Each time we have sex it gets better. My anxiety about getting an erection is completely gone and it’s a wonderful feeling.

I had the same butterflies before surgery but I can tell you that I’m extremely happy with my decision. A little short term discomfort will give way to long term happiness.

Relax it will be worth it.


Thank you Will

I’m not quite 40 and people say that’s young but at what point is it just worth it
It scares me but can’t be worse than how I feel right now
Finasteride 2005-11
Terrible
Side effects

Been having ED since 2011 with penile shrinkage...was totally impotent for a few months and penis changed
Low libido
Low T
Had kids along the way and recovered some
Function

Implanted w dr Eid June 10 2021

Vinny21
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby Vinny21 » Thu Jul 30, 2020 11:34 pm

I’m younger than you and planning on seeing Eid. I’m not worried about the surgery itself, I just hate seeing how many people here need to get replacements after only like 2 years so I’m hoping something like that nitinol implant prototype comes out in the near future

OregonStrong
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby OregonStrong » Fri Jul 31, 2020 10:41 am

Vinny21 wrote:I’m younger than you and planning on seeing Eid. I’m not worried about the surgery itself, I just hate seeing how many people here need to get replacements after only like 2 years so I’m hoping something like that nitinol implant prototype comes out in the near future


Realize though vast majority of satisfied customers never post anything at all, you mostly only see those that had some sort of problem and often seek out FrankTalk to find a community that can help them find answers to their problems. Gives you a skewed sense of the actual incidence of complications.
50 yrs old. E.D. issues started around age 35, combo venous leak/testicular failure. Bilateral testicular implants for severely atrophic testes. Implanted 6/11/20 Dr. Kramer LGX 21cm + 1.

Charlie2019
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby Charlie2019 » Fri Jul 31, 2020 11:46 am

Vinny21 wrote:I’m younger than you and planning on seeing Eid. I’m not worried about the surgery itself, I just hate seeing how many people here need to get replacements after only like 2 years so I’m hoping something like that nitinol implant prototype comes out in the near future



Yes but there are a few guys who have had their implant for more than 20 years.
53 years old. 3 botched circumcisions starting at 3 years old. 2 botched reconstructive attempts, finally got the AMS LGX on Dec 14, 2017 in London Ontario by Dr. Gerry Brock. Great Dr. Love my implant

Lost Sheep
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Jul 31, 2020 1:03 pm

Vinny21 wrote:I’m younger than you and planning on seeing Eid. I’m not worried about the surgery itself, I just hate seeing how many people here need to get replacements after only like 2 years so I’m hoping something like that nitinol implant prototype comes out in the near future

How "near future" do you consider "near"?
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby LMCatman » Fri Jul 31, 2020 2:48 pm

We were all scared....I think we were even more scared immediately after surgery (what the hell did I do to my dick!?!?!?!?)..... IT'S WORTH IT!!! Good luck, man!!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

Lost Sheep
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Jul 31, 2020 3:34 pm

LMCatman wrote:We were all scared....I think we were even more scared immediately after surgery (what the hell did I do to my dick!?!?!?!?)..... IT'S WORTH IT!!! Good luck, man!!

Knowledge dispels fear. I know of at least one who did not have that "What did I DO to myself?" moment. Not bragging. Just saying.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby Waynetho » Fri Jul 31, 2020 3:59 pm

And I for one never had any of the common emotions: anticipatory fear or worry, post-op "What'd I do" thoughs, nothing.

I knew going in before I even sought out a urologist that I was through living with a limp bent dick (and getting more limp all the time) and decided to myself that what I had wasn't of use so I had nothing to lose except a cosmetic affectation if things didn't go to plan. I had done all my homework, watched many videos including degloves, plaque excisions and grafts. Knew what to expect and didn't have a single fear right up to the time the drugs kicked in on the table. Coming out of it I was just as resolute, with no concerns or regrets, only the will to get done with the waiting so I could FUCK again. Then came the job of convincing my wife to let me. It wasn't easy to get her receptive, but she came around and WOW, she's had O's in the hundreds since then and she is very happy.
62yo, married 41 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0

LeRoastBeef
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby LeRoastBeef » Fri Jul 31, 2020 4:26 pm

Hi,

I'm 32, and although I'm nervous about being operated on (because it certainly natural!) I have no doubt that I need it done and accept that it's going to happen.
There are so many happy stories out there. Those guys will be having better sex (or sex at all) than us. You have Eid too, there are probably surgeons who are just as good, but I would doubt any would be better.

If things don't work anymore then that's it. Get it done, it doesn't matter what age you are. I don't want to waste any more time.
Stay strong and be brave! You will be able to do it, and you will be glad you did.
Implanted with AMS 700 lgx, 2021.
30's
UK

LBC2020
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Re: So scared to do implant surgery

Postby LBC2020 » Fri Jul 31, 2020 5:15 pm

LeRoastBeef wrote:Hi,

I'm 32, and although I'm nervous about being operated on (because it certainly natural!) I have no doubt that I need it done and accept that it's going to happen.
There are so many happy stories out there. Those guys will be having better sex (or sex at all) than us. You have Eid too, there are probably surgeons who are just as good, but I would doubt any would be better.

If things don't work anymore then that's it. Get it done, it doesn't matter what age you are. I don't want to waste any more time.
Stay strong and be brave! You will be able to do it, and you will be glad you did.



So
You still have some erectile capability I take
It
I do
Too it just doesn’t stay...unpredictable and now it’s too distressing to even attempt
Finasteride 2005-11
Terrible
Side effects

Been having ED since 2011 with penile shrinkage...was totally impotent for a few months and penis changed
Low libido
Low T
Had kids along the way and recovered some
Function

Implanted w dr Eid June 10 2021


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