Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

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LMCatman
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Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LMCatman » Sat Jun 13, 2020 4:09 pm

I was going to add to the "aggressive sex" thread but then decided to post this on it's own......

Any suggestions are appreciated...!!!

My three Titans have seen LOTS OF ACTION!!!

I'm 69 years old (I ask my favorite girls 'do you know how old I am' and they immediately switch ends to 69), so my aggressive sex is probably tamer than your aggressive sex! Having said that....

My first Titan was replaced after one year due to a lying asshole surgeon: 'I do those all the time, I did 3 last week'....

Dr Perito did my first revision (second implant) and IT WAS GREAT!!!!! With it, I learned about the "non-stop post RP cowgirl orgasm".....once I started coming, I'd continue coming about as long as the girl kept moving. Oh man!!!! It was like three continuous orgasms!

With #2, I started having threesomes. My agent/girl would keep my cowgirl fucking me as I came and came and came. I called them "Three Stooges Orgasms" because of the sounds I'd make while I was coming! I also had a several "foursomes", and a couple of "fivesomes". My Birthday Party four or five years ago turned into a "six-some" (it was a two hour "five-some". Another girl showed up early and my agent/girl said 'you wanna fuck her too? Only another hundred'). Their business was slow and the whole party cost me 9c. I love it when their business is slow.... 'sure you don't want to add "Jane"? It's only another hundred and she'll just be sitting in the car for an hour anyway'. So threesomes became foursomes....

But damn, it went flat after 3 years - the tubing coiled and pulled loose. Dr P teased me that 'it was all that cowgirl' but then said 'not really'.

My third Titan has been in 3 years and 3 months. It functions very well! However, after three surgeries, I have lost some feeling in part of my dick. The first surgeon nicked the little vein at the top of my dick right behind the head. I've had "cold head" since the first implant. When I use my vacuum device, my dick gets red up to the head and red on the bottom side of the head. It gets "less gray" at the top of the head but never pink. I now often (hell - never) can't reach orgasm with a girl. I orgasm about half the time when watching porn while laying on my belly "fucking the sheets".

I went several months with no orgasms at all. Dr P then prescribed testosterone shots, which I've been taking about three months. I've had more orgasms (by myself) and even a couple of the "continuous post RP orgasms" that were so frequent with my second Titan, but still by myself. With girls, oral or fucking, I'll get "there" but can't quite get "over".

With the C-19 virus, I stayed home for two months. About 3 weeks ago I couldn't stand it any longer and started seeing "my Asian Ferrari" again but no other girls. She is such a "total experience" that, orgasm or not, she is an hour of ecstasy! She laughs about how much harder I make her work than other guys! I only wish I could come with her!

Anyway.... worry, pain, failures, lack of orgasm....it was all worth it!

This rambled quite a bit, I see....oh well!

Good luck to you all and....happy fucking....!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

1Roofer
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby 1Roofer » Sat Jun 13, 2020 4:25 pm

LMCatman wrote:I was going to add to the "aggressive sex" thread but then decided to post this on it's own......

Any suggestions are appreciated...!!!

My three Titans have seen LOTS OF ACTION!!!

I'm 69 years old (I ask my favorite girls 'do you know how old I am' and they immediately switch ends to 69), so my aggressive sex is probably tamer than your aggressive sex! Having said that....

My first Titan was replaced after one year due to a lying asshole surgeon: 'I do those all the time, I did 3 last week'....

Dr Perito did my first revision (second implant) and IT WAS GREAT!!!!! With it, I learned about the "non-stop post RP cowgirl orgasm".....once I started coming, I'd continue coming about as long as the girl kept moving. Oh man!!!! It was like three continuous orgasms!

With #2, I started having threesomes. My agent/girl would keep my cowgirl fucking me as I came and came and came. I called them "Three Stooges Orgasms" because of the sounds I'd make while I was coming! I also had a several "foursomes", and a couple of "fivesomes". My Birthday Party four or five years ago turned into a "six-some" (it was a two hour "five-some". Another girl showed up early and my agent/girl said 'you wanna fuck her too? Only another hundred'). Their business was slow and the whole party cost me 9c. I love it when their business is slow.... 'sure you don't want to add "Jane"? It's only another hundred and she'll just be sitting in the car for an hour anyway'. So threesomes became foursomes....

But damn, it went flat after 3 years - the tubing coiled and pulled loose. Dr P teased me that 'it was all that cowgirl' but then said 'not really'.

My third Titan has been in 3 years and 3 months. It functions very well! However, after three surgeries, I have lost some feeling in part of my dick. The first surgeon nicked the little vein at the top of my dick right behind the head. I've had "cold head" since the first implant. When I use my vacuum device, my dick gets red up to the head and red on the bottom side of the head. It gets "less gray" at the top of the head but never pink. I now often (hell - never) can't reach orgasm with a girl. I orgasm about half the time when watching porn while laying on my belly "fucking the sheets".

I went several months with no orgasms at all. Dr P then prescribed testosterone shots, which I've been taking about three months. I've had more orgasms (by myself) and even a couple of the "continuous post RP orgasms" that were so frequent with my second Titan, but still by myself. With girls, oral or fucking, I'll get "there" but can't quite get "over".

With the C-19 virus, I stayed home for two months. About 3 weeks ago I couldn't stand it any longer and started seeing "my Asian Ferrari" again but no other girls. She is such a "total experience" that, orgasm or not, she is an hour of ecstasy! She laughs about how much harder I make her work than other guys! I only wish I could come with her!

Anyway.... worry, pain, failures, lack of orgasm....it was all worth it!

This rambled quite a bit, I see....oh well!

Good luck to you all and....happy fucking....!



Wow what an incredible tale! I’m curious did you lose feeling because of the numerous surgeries or because the inexperienced surgeon Nicking the vein?

How often are you using this 3rd implant a week?
Implanted by Dr. Hakky on August 6th, 2018 Coloplast 22 cm. Genesis pump failure 8/17/19. Revision 9/10/2019. Genesis pump failed 2/27/2020 while having sex. Second revision scheduled 4/7/2020 with new Titan One Touch pump instead of Genesis

TANGERINE
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby TANGERINE » Sat Jun 13, 2020 6:50 pm

yes catman....you truly have a great life.

It is one thing to have the guts to get an implant.

It is a better thing to have the fortitude to keep going under the knife to get things just right (three attempts -- wow !)

It is a truly admirable thing to pursue the beautiful women that you have bedded.

At your age of 69, you are an example to us all how life can, for some, indeed get better (or stay just as good) even though we are getting older.

I salute you ! and I will never forget one of your really fine quotes about the psychology of the implant:

lmcatman stated on octo 29, 2017

sexual self-confidence....being able to perform puts your head in a whole different place....KNOWING....'I CAN fuck her'........(will she let me is a whole other thing))))...)


Well done ,friend !

PS: sorry to hear about the orgasm troubles, I speculate that maybe the orgasm troubles are related to some combination of factors all adding up (includes the radical prostatectomy, the three surgeries -- first of which may have had complcations, the infrpubic approach, etc etc); and yet, Lmcatman, you just keep smiling in a fashion as if you had a bumper sticker on your florida surfer van which states: "if this van's a rockin, don't bother knockin"
"Strive to find the best surgeon--experience really matters"
(63 yo, Titan 22cm implant Feb 2017 by Dr Eid) I'm super pleased with my length/girth/implant performance. See my story at "The road to becoming a bionic male: Answers ..."

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby oldbeek » Sun Jun 14, 2020 12:13 am

LMCatman, Perito says lack of orgasm is sometimes from keeping the implant inflated all the time. I had the same problem. Also liked to keep cock partial pumped up most of the time. I started deflating it to flat. Did this just recently but next sexual encounter I could orgasm.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby 1Roofer » Sun Jun 14, 2020 12:51 am

oldbeek wrote:LMCatman, Perito says lack of orgasm is sometimes from keeping the implant inflated all the time. I had the same problem. Also liked to keep cock partial pumped up most of the time. I started deflating it to flat. Did this just recently but next sexual encounter I could orgasm.



I’ve used this tactic to help minimize the me mechanical usage of my implant. My 2 failures were hopefully because of the “lemon” Genesis pump. I wouldnt fully deflate it so that next time I’d use it I wouldn’t have to work it as much.

I wonder if this tactic would be a bad idea with the One Touch pump & the sticky valve situation.

Thoughts?
Implanted by Dr. Hakky on August 6th, 2018 Coloplast 22 cm. Genesis pump failure 8/17/19. Revision 9/10/2019. Genesis pump failed 2/27/2020 while having sex. Second revision scheduled 4/7/2020 with new Titan One Touch pump instead of Genesis

LMCatman
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LMCatman » Sun Jun 14, 2020 8:38 am

No guts, no fortitude...... just horny! And thanks for the kind words anyway....
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby Gt1956 » Sun Jun 14, 2020 10:49 am

oldbeek wrote:LMCatman, Perito says lack of orgasm is sometimes from keeping the implant inflated all the time. I had the same problem. Also liked to keep cock partial pumped up most of the time. I started deflating it to flat. Did this just recently but next sexual encounter I could orgasm.

As I recall, Perito's comment was in context to men that kept their implant inflated to nearly max most of the time. Guessing that it might be a thing on nude beaches in Florida.
Just how I remember his comment. It wasn't very long of a comment & he was talking fast as I recall.
Oldbeek, glad it worked for you & reporting your results is what newer members need. Thanks for your contributions.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

indusvalley
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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby indusvalley » Sun Jun 14, 2020 11:00 am

This is why I prefer penoscotral surgery for implant because I am terrified of some nerve getting nicked when surgery is done via infrapubic approach. I am not taking that risk!
A young guy in his early 30s from South Asia. Implanted Titan 22cm by Dr. Tariq Hakky in Atlanta (Dec 2020). Amazing doctor! No pain during recovery. My size is 5.75” x 4.6” which is better than pre-OP size of 5.6” x 4.5”. Hoping to gain more in future.

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby medhatg » Sun Jun 14, 2020 10:47 pm

indusvalley wrote:This is why I prefer penoscotral surgery for implant because I am terrified of some nerve getting nicked when surgery is done via infrapubic approach. I am not taking that risk!

It depends on the surgeon, your anatomy and a bit of luck. I had the Pentecostal surgery as my original implant and the bottom part of my cock was numb for 6 months. Now, I had the infrapubic for the revision, and the sensation is fine.

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Re: Cannot orgasm with a girl.....

Postby LMCatman » Sun Jun 14, 2020 11:31 pm

My first was penoscrotal, second and third infrapubic.....
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021


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