Last minute thoughts

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
notaes
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Re: Last minute thoughts

Postby notaes » Sat May 30, 2020 5:15 pm

One thing I don’t think any woman can understand is how much emotional energy is required when having sex just to keep a good erection. With an implant All of that goes out the window. You will never have to be concerned about that again. You cannot imagine the difference when you get a bionic cock. Just pump it up and blastoff!
66 yr old male married 36 yrs use trimix four yrs, cilais and Viagra. trimix work well developed scarring on both sides had implant 1/9/2020 at UT Med Ctr, Knoxville, TN Dr. John Lacy.

Gt1956
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Re: Last minute thoughts

Postby Gt1956 » Sat May 30, 2020 5:27 pm

notaes wrote:One thing I don’t think any woman can understand is how much emotional energy is required when having sex just to keep a good erection.........

You're not kidding. Just worrying when the pill would wear off was so emotionally draining. Really, it's a self fulfilling fear.
Lots of women think an erection is an automatic thing. Little do they know.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

TANGERINE
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Re: Last minute thoughts

Postby TANGERINE » Sat May 30, 2020 7:07 pm

I have been thinking about you, and I remember a nice article that I have shared regarding facing major life decisions, the article is titled :
"How to Make Hard Life Decisions" by Scott H Young

and I have included the link at the bottom of this communication.

Based on that article, there are a couple of techniques:

Technique 1
A) "Simulate the decision" "Do your research"
For example, in the case of the penile implant, imagine what it would be like to shadow a bionic male and witness the bedroom sexual prowess/confidence/and bravado. That might be your future if all goes well.

In contrast, in the case of facing a life of erectile dysfunction. Imagine what it would be like to shadow an impotent male in the bedroom and feel the shame/insecurity/and depression.

Technique 2
B) "ASK YOUR FUTURE SELF IF THEY THINK THE DECISION WAS A GOOD ONE AND IF THEY WOULD REPEAT IT IF GIVEN THE CHANCE"

For me, and many of my bionic brothers, life as an impotent male was awful. But, now after surgery, life as a bionic male is awesome. Yes, I agree that being really amazing in bed is not everything in life. We are all different, and it is true that for some males , sexual prowess means more to one's identity than it does with others. So it is a personal decision. Of course, do remember that the usual troubles with life (losing a job, other health troubles, family turmoil, abusive relationships, etc) will not go away once you have conquered ED, but let me tell you man, those issues sure seem a lot easier to manage if you know that "when it matters in the bedroom, I can lay it down but good."

REFERENCE "How to make hard life decisions"
https://www.scotthyoung.com/blog/2019/01/25/make-hard-decisions/
"Strive to find the best surgeon--experience really matters"
(63 yo, Titan 22cm implant Feb 2017 by Dr Eid) I'm super pleased with my length/girth/implant performance. See my story at "The road to becoming a bionic male: Answers ..."


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