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Hi again.

I am 9 days to 6 months after surgery. At last, my wife has begun to take advantage of my implant. This weekend we have had best sex in last year. Not perfect, but about 20-30 minutes of intercourse, and though I had some bearable pain during the thing, she finnaly could have an orgasm. Not me. I was with all my attention put in her and in trying to keep the pain under control and in tolerable limits.

Next day, she told me 'you are better down there'.

I am very happy, although I have much road ahead to improve. But things are better now, and hope is here finnaly.

Is is being very, very hard.

oneperson wrote:Next day, she told me 'you are better down there'. ... hope is here finally.

I'm so happy for you, brother! I hope every day is easier than the day before.

oneperson wrote:Hi again.

I am 9 days to 6 months after surgery. At last, my wife has begun to take advantage of my implant. This weekend we have had best sex in last year. Not perfect, but about 20-30 minutes of intercourse, and though I had some bearable pain during the thing, she finnaly could have an orgasm. Not me. I was with all my attention put in her and in trying to keep the pain under control and in tolerable limits.

Next day, she told me 'you are better down there'.

I am very happy, although I have much road ahead to improve. But things are better now, and hope is here finnaly.

Is is being very, very hard.

Your post gives me hope. I am at month four and Im still not ready for serious penetration. The longer I wait , the more insecure I become. Its tough to hear about other guys who are ready to go at 4 weeks. I know I have to push myself. So glad that you are doing better and I wish you the best!

Hold on 544. I understand you pretty well. When I went out of hospital 24 hours after the surgery, the doctor gave me some docs. In one of them, I could read 'you can restart your sexual life between 4th and 6th week after surgery'. When I was at 7th week and I was not even able to pump, my nerves went to horror. When 3 months after surgery I tried to have sex with my wife and I feel so much pain that after a few minutes I had to stop crying in tears because of the high sharp pain, I begun to think there was something bad. When almost 5 months after surgery I could have sex with almost no pain, but my wife told me my dick was not enough big to give her enough pleasure to reach orgasm, my hopes begun to vanish. That time I really begun to think this hell was not going to work with me.

But yes, things go better with time. For some of us it takes more time than for others, but if there are no complications such as infections or device malfunctions, nature makes its work and body heals. Now I am far from perfect, but I am pretty sure that in six months from now I will be much better than today, and so my sex and mi wife satisfaction.

Congratulations and keep us posted. Those of us who are still in the planning stage appreciate all of the feedback and input everyone gives.

oneperson wrote:Hold on 544. I understand you pretty well. When I went out of hospital 24 hours after the surgery, the doctor gave me some docs. In one of them, I could read 'you can restart your sexual life between 4th and 6th week after surgery'. When I was at 7th week and I was not even able to pump, my nerves went to horror. When 3 months after surgery I tried to have sex with my wife and I feel so much pain that after a few minutes I had to stop crying in tears because of the high sharp pain, I begun to think there was something bad. When almost 5 months after surgery I could have sex with almost no pain, but my wife told me my dick was not enough big to give her enough pleasure to reach orgasm, my hopes begun to vanish. That time I really begun to think this hell was not going to work with me.

But yes, things go better with time. For some of us it takes more time than for others, but if there are no complications such as infections or device malfunctions, nature makes its work and body heals. Now I am far from perfect, but I am pretty sure that in six months from now I will be much better than today, and so my sex and mi wife satisfaction.

Do you cycle your implant daily nowadays?

Of course, twice or three times a day.