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needsomehope wrote:

Waynetho wrote:It might appear that everyone you see here is over endowed but that's not the truth. I for one *WAS* about 7" in 1995 but that has long been lost to history. Before my implant surgery in late October I was at most 5" in length with a 4" girth. Today I'm around 6" and even that is amazing to me. That being said I'm functionally only 5" due to fat pad and the distal nature of my implant, which means that I only have use of 4.5 to 5.0 inches of length.

So, I'm sure I'm not the only one who may have at one time been the 7+ incher to which you refer but like some others here, I'm nowhere near that now.

at least you had that experience man. I've been stuck with this little fucked up 4.5-5 incher all my life. it's ruined my existence.

Your ruined existence is all in your head. Get a positive attitude and get out there and use it. As far as older married guys with a dissatisfied wife about your new size. There is a surgery SHE can get to tighten things up also. They can shrink that thing from a whole hand size to a 1 finger tight fit.

I’m the guy who claimed to have been 7x6 pre implant, but dismissed that as not huge. I’ll stand by that. A 7 incher is a big cock. A 9 incher is a huge cock.

That being said, I would never dismiss the concerns or try to gloss over the worries of smaller guys. Why? Because for years, I thought I was one of them. I know that sounds preposterous. But a lot of true things sound preposterous. Like the idea that bigger is not always better.

I took gym, played football, ran track, and spent 23 years in the Army. I’ve showered with a hell of a lot of guys. And i am a baby boomer. Modesty was considered sissified in my era. No shower curtains. No dividers. Modesty was for girls, not guys. Hell from age 7 thru 12 swimming lessons at the YMCA were conducted without benefit of swim trunks.

I might have been 7 (6.8, to be exact) erect but flaccid mine was about 3”. And about 4 1/2” in circumference. Something that short and that fat looks shorter than it is. Surrounded by guys with 5 and 6 inch swinging cocks I had massive inferiority. Add to that a delayed puberty. (Which didn’t do me much good at football but the team always needs tackling dummies) and you had someone convinced had a tiny cock. Even if it was roughly 6.8x6 when erect.

It took me 30 years to figure out otherwise. Who knew that not every guy doubles when he gets a hard on?

Then add the ED starting to rear it’s ugly Head. Without my ebullient optimism I would have been a psychological mess. But I understand what it’s like to feel inadequate, in more ways than one. While dating before I got married I used to apologize for my size. As a newlywed, if my wife wasn’t really into it, I’d tell her that she would probably be more sexually interested if I were only larger. It’s a miracle we are still married.

Now, after surgery, I’ve gone from having a big dick to having a more-or-less average dick. Sex with the average one is better than it ever was. My wife used to say length was irrelevant, girth was nice, but hardness was key and she wasn’t lying.

The bottom line here is a man is not defined by the size of the meat cylinder between his legs. If that’s a woman's method of judging then I might start looking around for different women I’m not sure I’d want to be saddled with anyone that shallow.

And even though I had really nice equipment (which is still okay, albeit a bit smaller but much harder and more reliable) over the years my tongue has done more good for Mrs. TxAg than penetration of my dick. For better or worse, that’s just how it is.

Nowadays, of a smallish guy asks if I think some woman will like him, I ask “I dunno, what’s the credit limit on your Visa?” Instead of asking questions about penile dimensions.

Do size queens exist? Of course. By the same token, there are guys who don’t want to date a girl unless she has EEE milk jugs attached to her chest. There’s no accounting for taste. Fortunately for all, these weirdos are a decided minority.

My "original dick" was about six inches. A prostatectomy and three implants later, I'm just shy of 5" but I call it 5". I have fun!!! Good luck man!!!

Txagq8 wrote:I’m the guy who claimed to have been 7x6 pre implant, but dismissed that as not huge. I’ll stand by that. A 7 incher is a big cock. A 9 incher is a huge cock.

That being said, I would never dismiss the concerns or try to gloss over the worries of smaller guys. Why? Because for years, I thought I was one of them. I know that sounds preposterous. But a lot of true things sound preposterous. Like the idea that bigger is not always better...

Well said. Exactly. (the rest of it, too)

oldbeek wrote: Your ruined existence is all in your head. Get a positive attitude and get out there and use it.

Difficult to say truer shit in fewer words.

Look up Porno Dan. He is a best 3.5 to 4 inches, and one of the most prolific porn stars out there. I've known him for years. I've been around guys with 12" cocks that couldn't get hard because they would start feel faint. I've been around guys 10" that girls wouldn't even give a chance for fear they would get hurt. Not as many women can take over 7 comfortably as you might think. I've been around guys that almost seem super human as far a stamina, but women would be with them once, and say it was just too much work. Bonus Dan has was he could get hard, 2 finger cum stay hard and repeat, use his tongue, fingers toys etc, basically have fun and make sure they did too. Never saw a women complain.

Don't beat yourself up over size. everyone things the grass is greener and they need more or need less or need to stay hard longer or need to be able to get off easier and on and on. try and fined what pleasures you, and what pleasures your partner and just enjoy each other.

My issue even before ED was I last forever. it's almost impossible for me to cum with normal sex. I have maybe twice in my entire life. I envy guys that can fuck and cum in 10-15 minutes. Now with Robo cock, I go till I feel like we have both had enough, then go down and lick until she is wiggling all over then back in again (robo cock is awesome) then when she has finally hard enough she finished me off by licking With I masturbate. (works every time). Point is, everyone is different. Get the Robo cock if you need it, you will be happy with it no matter your size. It's just one less thing to worry about while your "performing"

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FMLFML85 wrote: I know it’s not all her fault and that I am less passionate and am not interested in the explorative and inventive sex we used to have.

It IS her. But not a fault. It is her feature.

Every woman has a different set of response patterns. It falls to her lover to discover them (and for her to teach - but getting a woman to guide her lover is tough. All the women I have known seem to feel that I should be able to intuit her needs and response patterns.)

So, if you want your woman to squirm with delight, follow her cues/clues. You mention she responds to breast play. Find sex positions that allow that. There are plenty web sites that detail different positions.

As far as coital orgasms (penis in vagina-PIV), something like (as I recall) 75% of women are unable to orgasm from PIV alone. And the most common (in western culture), the "missionary" position, is one of the least productive positions known.

Enlist her aid (and interest) if she is willing. Go through a couple of sex manuals together (on-line or from a bookstore) and try reaching for the stars. Make it an adventure - an exploration. Don't let her be satisfied with pedestrian sex when you have a rocket in your pocket. You just have to learn HER ignition points. That is not easy. But the liftoff is terrific!

"Over all countries the average size of a penis is about 14.09 cm (5.54"). https://www.worlddata.info/average-penissize.php

For 36 years I was 6" erect. didn't impress my first wife. She did enjoy a good Vag Fisting. she was 5'0", thin. I miss her.

My third wife is 5' 9". thick Irish Stock and my 5" dick, back in my injection days, would bang her Cervix. My tongue was/is her favorite toy.

Different Strokes, Different Folks.

Get your Dick fixed, find someone compatible and hopefully, one day, You Go Cuming. Great way to die.

LU