this site is brutal for us smaller guys

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rufuswd
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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby rufuswd » Mon Feb 17, 2020 1:26 pm

Biker60. I like you a lot. LOL I ended up smaller after implant. 4" pumped. I'm disappointed but wife says she's cool with it. Love that woman!

andrew1959nj
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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby andrew1959nj » Mon Feb 17, 2020 1:40 pm

edwardl007 wrote:I am sure you guys sincerely wish to help neadsomehope. However, I think some may be unconsciously bragging and therefore not helping.
The guy says most guys here are very well-hung. Now look at the breakdown of only those who offered up details about their penis size. This does not include any reference in their profile at the bottom.
1- 7+ in.
1 – girth is far more important
1-- 8 in
1- 6 in
1- 7 x 6 in (and offers that he is not huge yet in everyday non porn star life THAT is huge)
1- 6.5 In.

Note the size of the poster is 4.5-5 in long. So everyone one of you told him your penis was bigger or far bigger than his. Though that was pre-ED, it still indicates how small he was/is compared to all of you on this site.

I personally have observed there seems to be a large number of guys on here who state their girth is 5.5 or more, which is far thicker that the average guy.

In my previous response I referred to my wife’s “former boyfriends”. Actually, that was not true. In the 70s we briefly engaged in swinging. At a party a guy propositioned my wife. He took her to a bedroom and I followed them. What happened then was unbelievable. He drove my wife absolutely crazy. She was like another person. And I saw that he was very large.

Afterward, I asked her about it. She said she did not want to hurt me but I insisted. She said she felt like she was fucked for the first time. She added that it was not even the same thing as doing it with me and now she knew why people fucked for hours. Needless to say, I was crushed and it affected me for a very long time.

I offer this story as an example of how truly difficult it can be for small-sized guys who become traumatized by their experiences and/or comments from women.

So please be careful when helping guys deal with this small-sized issue and do not offer what your penis size was/is.


With some women, size does matter and they really like it. I had a partner once who said the same thing about me and that my cock just hit places that were new to her. But that isn't the case with most women. Cock size is way more important to us than it is to women. The same can be said about all of our other physical attributes. I had a good size cock that as so problematic that I quick trying to have sex.
60 years old. MS and Severe ED 10+ years. Pills and injections never worked well. Implanted 5/16/2019 by Dr. Sadeghi. Titan 20cm + 2cm RTE.

oldbeek
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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby oldbeek » Mon Feb 17, 2020 2:13 pm

needsomehope wrote:
Waynetho wrote:It might appear that everyone you see here is over endowed but that's not the truth. I for one *WAS* about 7" in 1995 but that has long been lost to history. Before my implant surgery in late October I was at most 5" in length with a 4" girth. Today I'm around 6" and even that is amazing to me. That being said I'm functionally only 5" due to fat pad and the distal nature of my implant, which means that I only have use of 4.5 to 5.0 inches of length.

So, I'm sure I'm not the only one who may have at one time been the 7+ incher to which you refer but like some others here, I'm nowhere near that now.


at least you had that experience man. I've been stuck with this little fucked up 4.5-5 incher all my life. it's ruined my existence.
Your ruined existence is all in your head. Get a positive attitude and get out there and use it. As far as older married guys with a dissatisfied wife about your new size. There is a surgery SHE can get to tighten things up also. They can shrink that thing from a whole hand size to a 1 finger tight fit.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby Txagq8 » Mon Feb 17, 2020 3:09 pm

I’m the guy who claimed to have been 7x6 pre implant, but dismissed that as not huge. I’ll stand by that. A 7 incher is a big cock. A 9 incher is a huge cock.

That being said, I would never dismiss the concerns or try to gloss over the worries of smaller guys. Why? Because for years, I thought I was one of them. I know that sounds preposterous. But a lot of true things sound preposterous. Like the idea that bigger is not always better.

I took gym, played football, ran track, and spent 23 years in the Army. I’ve showered with a hell of a lot of guys. And i am a baby boomer. Modesty was considered sissified in my era. No shower curtains. No dividers. Modesty was for girls, not guys. Hell from age 7 thru 12 swimming lessons at the YMCA were conducted without benefit of swim trunks.

I might have been 7 (6.8, to be exact) erect but flaccid mine was about 3”. And about 4 1/2” in circumference. Something that short and that fat looks shorter than it is. Surrounded by guys with 5 and 6 inch swinging cocks I had massive inferiority. Add to that a delayed puberty. (Which didn’t do me much good at football but the team always needs tackling dummies) and you had someone convinced had a tiny cock. Even if it was roughly 6.8x6 when erect.

It took me 30 years to figure out otherwise. Who knew that not every guy doubles when he gets a hard on?

Then add the ED starting to rear it’s ugly Head. Without my ebullient optimism I would have been a psychological mess. But I understand what it’s like to feel inadequate, in more ways than one. While dating before I got married I used to apologize for my size. As a newlywed, if my wife wasn’t really into it, I’d tell her that she would probably be more sexually interested if I were only larger. It’s a miracle we are still married.

Now, after surgery, I’ve gone from having a big dick to having a more-or-less average dick. Sex with the average one is better than it ever was. My wife used to say length was irrelevant, girth was nice, but hardness was key and she wasn’t lying.

The bottom line here is a man is not defined by the size of the meat cylinder between his legs. If that’s a woman's method of judging then I might start looking around for different women I’m not sure I’d want to be saddled with anyone that shallow.

And even though I had really nice equipment (which is still okay, albeit a bit smaller but much harder and more reliable) over the years my tongue has done more good for Mrs. TxAg than penetration of my dick. For better or worse, that’s just how it is.

Nowadays, of a smallish guy asks if I think some woman will like him, I ask “I dunno, what’s the credit limit on your Visa?” Instead of asking questions about penile dimensions.

Do size queens exist? Of course. By the same token, there are guys who don’t want to date a girl unless she has EEE milk jugs attached to her chest. There’s no accounting for taste. Fortunately for all, these weirdos are a decided minority.
Robust, adolescent 65 year old. Venous leakage forever. Used shots, shots+pills 30+ years. Married to same wife ~35 yrs. Implanted 31Dec2019 in Austin Tx. AMS 700 LGX 18 cm with 5 cm RTE.

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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby LMCatman » Mon Feb 17, 2020 3:49 pm

My "original dick" was about six inches. A prostatectomy and three implants later, I'm just shy of 5" but I call it 5". I have fun!!! Good luck man!!!
73 Years old. RP Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami. Titan failure Feb 2017. Rev. by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017. Titan failure Nov 2020. New Titan January 2021

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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby stephen54 » Mon Feb 17, 2020 4:03 pm

Txagq8 wrote:I’m the guy who claimed to have been 7x6 pre implant, but dismissed that as not huge. I’ll stand by that. A 7 incher is a big cock. A 9 incher is a huge cock.

That being said, I would never dismiss the concerns or try to gloss over the worries of smaller guys. Why? Because for years, I thought I was one of them. I know that sounds preposterous. But a lot of true things sound preposterous. Like the idea that bigger is not always better...


Well said. Exactly. (the rest of it, too)
54 yrs. Blessed with highly sexual 52 yr old wife. Pills 10 years, then 9 yrs Trimix. 28 cm Titan Touch XL 2019, Laurence Levine, Rush Univ Med Ctr, Chicago. Implant = nonstop fun. Hypogonadal, so also 10+ years testosterone replacement.

stephen54
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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby stephen54 » Mon Feb 17, 2020 4:09 pm

oldbeek wrote: Your ruined existence is all in your head. Get a positive attitude and get out there and use it.


Difficult to say truer shit in fewer words.
54 yrs. Blessed with highly sexual 52 yr old wife. Pills 10 years, then 9 yrs Trimix. 28 cm Titan Touch XL 2019, Laurence Levine, Rush Univ Med Ctr, Chicago. Implant = nonstop fun. Hypogonadal, so also 10+ years testosterone replacement.

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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby gercoa » Mon Feb 17, 2020 8:33 pm

Look up Porno Dan. He is a best 3.5 to 4 inches, and one of the most prolific porn stars out there. I've known him for years. I've been around guys with 12" cocks that couldn't get hard because they would start feel faint. I've been around guys 10" that girls wouldn't even give a chance for fear they would get hurt. Not as many women can take over 7 comfortably as you might think. I've been around guys that almost seem super human as far a stamina, but women would be with them once, and say it was just too much work. Bonus Dan has was he could get hard, 2 finger cum stay hard and repeat, use his tongue, fingers toys etc, basically have fun and make sure they did too. Never saw a women complain.

Don't beat yourself up over size. everyone things the grass is greener and they need more or need less or need to stay hard longer or need to be able to get off easier and on and on. try and fined what pleasures you, and what pleasures your partner and just enjoy each other.

My issue even before ED was I last forever. it's almost impossible for me to cum with normal sex. I have maybe twice in my entire life. I envy guys that can fuck and cum in 10-15 minutes. Now with Robo cock, I go till I feel like we have both had enough, then go down and lick until she is wiggling all over then back in again (robo cock is awesome) then when she has finally hard enough she finished me off by licking With I masturbate. (works every time). Point is, everyone is different. Get the Robo cock if you need it, you will be happy with it no matter your size. It's just one less thing to worry about while your "performing" ;)
52 Been on every pill, done Trimix/Bimix In line for a Titan pump. Married, wife involved with this whole process. :) Implanted 12/9/19 Titan 20 with 1.6 rear tips.

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Re: this site is brutal for us smaller guys

Postby Skier123 » Mon Feb 17, 2020 9:45 pm

54 yr old single guy
Severe ED for over10 years; diagnosed with peyrones and venous leak
Implanted 12/23/19, Dr. Laurence Levine
Coloplast Titan w/ Genesis pump

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