Sexual fantasy and implant

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Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby Slavicguy123 » Sat Feb 15, 2020 2:41 pm

Ever since i developed ed it seems that my sexual fantasys are broken just like my dick, there is no feedbaco from my cock but before ed i had strong sexual urges , those urges drove me and telling me what to do and i would get lost in fantasy, now with ed dick its like constant struggle and fantasys are fragmantional, did your fantasys came back after ipp?

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby St1pan2019 » Sat Feb 15, 2020 2:51 pm

Have you been tested for low testosterone? During my ED I had low testosterone as well and had low energy, low libido etc but once I got on testosterone shots that all changed. I still had ED and a penis that did not work and and my penis barely responded to anything sexual.. but I was horny as hell and would take every opportunity to let and show my wife that I wanted some sexual intimacy. I had a very high sexual libido but a penis I could not use . It was torture! Then I discovered penis pumps and cock rings and that helped for a few years but ultimately had to get an implant once I discovered FrankTalk! Thanks guys!!
40 yrs old, ED from Scleroderma since 2010, married since 2004, was using VED/rings for sex as injections/pills didn't work, Also on Testosterone injection therapy
Implanted 1/9/2020
Dr. Eid, Titan Touch 20+1cm rte
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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby Strutter » Sat Feb 15, 2020 3:44 pm

I know very well what you mean. For years I thought I had low libido. At some point I realized it is the dick not working not my brain.
It is weird how you can confuse the two, but this is exactly what I feel. And it is exacerbated by every unsuccessful sex. You fail few times and you just lose desire to keep trying. You stop thinking about sex.

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby Waynetho » Sat Feb 15, 2020 3:55 pm

Actually, that *IS* your brain. I went through it. I was asexual and non-intimate for 20 years with my wife due to ED/PD combination. I couldn't, so I wouldn't think about it. My wife would confront me about not being the same romantic man she married years earlier and I tried to explain that I couldn't think about it because nothing worked.

On the rare occasion that I got aroused, usually it was porn and a self-luv handjob that would bring it to a conclusion. On the occasions that I had morning wood, I fought to resolve it as quickly as possible because of the pain from PD plaques in the base when it occurred. Usually the resolution came from something I have more recently discovered was causing more damage: pressing DOWN on the base of my cock until I felt/heard a "POP", after which the erection subsided almost immediately. That was doing major damage to my proximal erectile bodies every time I did it.

Fast forward to post surgery - My libido and desire for sex has gone through the roof and my wife almost has to cry "UNCLE" at times to get a rest. This, in my case, was a classic psychological case where I didn't think of sex or romance because it was emotionally painful that I couldn't perform. I think it might be a sort of performance anxiety...
60yo, married 39 yrs. Urolift (x4) 8/12/19. AMS 700CX 15cm (no RTE) penoscrotal 10/28/19 Dr. Mark Allen, Frisco, TX. PD 1995/ED 2011. Cialis helped but hinged. (1995)L:6/G:5.5+, (2019)Pre-op L:5/G:4.5, (2/2020)L:6.0/G:5.0

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby indusvalley » Sat Feb 15, 2020 6:11 pm

This is such an interesting discussion. I believe that ED and low Libido are inter connected. Since I developed ED, my libido has gone down too. I am hoping after the implant, once I start using it, my libido will recover and I will once again become more horny and sexual fantasies would return.

Is there anyone else who have an implant willing to share their story related to their libido pre and post implant?
A young guy in his early 30s from South Asia. Implanted Titan 22cm by Dr. Tariq Hakky in Atlanta (Dec 2020). Amazing doctor! No pain during recovery. My size is 5.75” x 4.6” which is better than pre-OP size of 5.6” x 4.5”. Hoping to gain more in future.

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby Slavicguy123 » Sat Feb 15, 2020 7:05 pm

Hey indusvalley im looking forward to your experience when comes time with your ipp, keep your chin up bro...

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby FMLFML85 » Sat Feb 15, 2020 8:46 pm

The implant is not a cure but when you are feeling in the mood it feels great to have a erection. I can cycle/pump up just for the sake of having a erection and it can feel artificial. But if I’m crushing on a girl or actress and fantasizing about them my erection feels a lot more sensitive and I get more engorgment of my shaft and head. I think your right about the link between libedo and ED. Because we aren’t able to have those hard natural erections we need extra mental stimulation. I know Other members here will say that their 10+ year relationship partner is the only person that turns them on but I feel if your single and confident and having sex with new partners you will have more fantasy and a greater need for sex. But if you have been in the same secure relationship for years it’s just matinence sex to keep your relationship on track and you will not be as stimulated.

Basically new eager partners can increase your drive and your sensitivity compared to the same old sex with a not so enthusiastic partner.

One more thing. Hormonal imbalances and stress can have a huge effect on me even after implanted. Once I started testosterone therapy and began working again my confidence and desire for attractive women has increased a lot.
autistic 34 yo. Implant 26cm titan no rte. Dr Eid 8/16/19. Suffered ED 2.5 years. Made decision when injections started to fail.

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby Slavicguy123 » Sat Feb 15, 2020 10:42 pm

Thnks guys for respons, so fml you are saying that you can get equally horny and lost in act same as with natural erection or?

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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby TANGERINE » Sat Feb 15, 2020 11:37 pm

Slavicguy123 wrote:Thnks guys for respons, so fml you are saying that you can get equally horny and lost in act same as with natural erection or?

My answer: absolutely, YES. I am three years out and have completly accepted my implant as being part of me. In fact, Although I remember what it was like to have natural erections, I like the implant erection better because it will never go away and because I can keep thrusting after one orgasm.

Regarding dreams, I now have sex dreams with hot girls and I just pump it up in the dream and then pound that girl like crazy. There is never the nightmares of being impotent.

Regarding libido: yes I agree that libido is in large part a reflection of your testostorone level. So have your testorone checked.
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Re: Sexual fantasy and implant

Postby Slavicguy123 » Sat Feb 15, 2020 11:45 pm

Funny enough(sarcastic) i often have dreams as stsrting something sexual but im always aware of my ed and my limping dick and it became nightmare, so you also tangerine had those dreams before implant and now you are having real erotic dreams like normal?

Btw this fucking shit is all connected dick, brain , libido so i have fear that if i go with implant i will still dont have those crazy horny moments as before ed, but now im leaning more on the side that implant can fix that and that ed is playing games on my mind, is it true?

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