Acceptance Period

[barrosa]

Hi everyone,

It's time to schedule my surgery. It will be at the end of January or probably February.

What I feel right now is a tremendous fear and I have doubts if I am making a good decision.

I would like to ask everyone who is already enjoying sex a question. Does the implant require a period of personal acceptance? Is this period hard? I mean the fact of seeing something artificial in your body and seeing that your cock, even if it gets hard, does it manually.

Greetings

[WhiteCane]

Hey man… I’m also 32… If you have exhausted every other option, this thing is amazing! honestly for me, that’s better than a natural erection… It doesn’t go away and it’s always ready… I’m not the type to get humiliated because of something like this being in my body and being something I have to tell my lover about… I actually feel like I have an upper hand on other guys… my girlfriend and I try all kinds of crazy shit just because we can… Last night, we made and enjoyed tea while having sex….… The only part of it I was insecure about is my size right now… I was implanted back in October and when I was swollen, this thing was really really small… It’s getting a little bit better now but it still not where I was… that is all in due time… after a couple of weeks, you honestly don’t even realize this thing is in your pants… Oh, my best friend “also a woman“ wants to play around with this thing with me and my girlfriend… There’s another one who loves the idea… so yeah, that’s all I’ve got for now… LOL sorry if this is scattered, I use voice to text software on a blind people phone and my thoughts don’t come out as clearly as if I were typing them or speaking directly to your face… I check my inbox every now and then but not probably as often as I should… Shoot me a message if you have any questions… Nothing is off-limits my man…

[Happy Toy]

Having a hard dick when you want it is a wonderful thing. Having a much larger flaccid dick, as in my case, was a GREAT plus of having an implant, I'm a shower now! If the other alternatives don't work, or like in my case, stopped working, then a implant is a perfect solution. The only thing I had to get use to was having a bulge in my pants for the first time in my life, love it! After a year I am the same length and girth as I have always been before I started having ED problems. PM me if you have any question, concerns, or would like to see before and after pictures.
Andy

[Waynetho]

Take it from someone who on a good day could be 2" flaccid, and on a bad day, a turtle. I'm now just under 5" when deflated so I now have to keep in mind where to put it in my pants. It's thrilling to have a lump in my pants that I just know people can see (even if they don't really).

[Lost Sheep]

Acceptance is made a LOT easier by the fact that being able to have good sex again is so joyful!

[David_R]

I agree with everybody. Enjoy!

[oneperson]

Hey barrosa, glad to see you again here. Not so glad to see you still have doubts.

I understand your fears. We have talked by telephone several times. You know I am having a bad time with this, but last days things begin to go much better. I am almost ready for sex.

The only thing you will have to accept is that after healing, you will be able to have good sex. Something you have never had. There are two kind of people that afford an implant: men who never had good sex, and men that there was a time in which could enjoy a really good sex, but from some point they stopped being able to do it.

You belong to the firts group. I belong to the second. As a man of the second, I feel that ED made me lose something, and in fact, it did. I lost my capacity for have and give really good sex. The feeling I will know I will feel when I will be able to give it and have it again, will be the feeling of recover something I lost. In your case, will be slightly different, I guess: you will feel the feeling of having, for the first time in your life, something that you have never had.

When you have had nothing, you have not lost anything. I know is slightly different, but if you see the implant as a molar implant that will allow you to eat things you never were able to eat, it will be very easy to accept it. And believe me, it is not different in essence. I have both.

Take it easy. Everything will go well. And have a very happy Christmas. Next ones, you will get tired of fucking.

[jump.ship]

Hi everyone,

It's time to schedule my surgery. It will be at the end of January or probably February.

What I feel right now is a tremendous fear and I have doubts if I am making a good decision.

I would like to ask everyone who is already enjoying sex a question. Does the implant require a period of personal acceptance? Is this period hard? I mean the fact of seeing something artificial in your body and seeing that your cock, even if it gets hard, does it manually.

Greetings

Same situation as you. 35 years old and I am ready to schedule - just need to pick a date in the new year. Thinking about it makes my stomach sink and the colour to drain from my face though! I have to say i am terrified. It's just the travel, the pain and risk of complications that are worrying me though. That no one knows I am going makes it 10 times harder. I wish I had some support.

My doubts about it being the right thing are zero though. Fucked if I would choose what I have now over the freedom the implant will give me. On this note I have nothing but excitement for the future.

I am, however, very skeptical of all the positivity on here. I see the implant as a second rate dick filled with plastic that needs to be pumped up. Not terribly sexy in my mind. But a 100 times more attractive than a flaccid dick I can tell you.

Do not go into this if you have doubts about having a plastic dick. Why? Because you are about to have plastic put into your dick!!

Your ED should be bad enough that this plastic / artificial element is not a worry. Like I say, I don't think its very sexy, but I couldn't care less. It's a foot note compared to the freedom the implant will bring me.

If your ED is not bad enough, if enough relationships haven't been destroyed enough, if your frustration is not sufficient enough then hold off.

[gercoa]

I'm only on day 15 after my surgery and I can already tell the implant rocks! I'm pumped up 20-30% according to the doctor and have been the last 15 days, my cock is harder than it basically has ever been in my life. Imaging a 2-4 week hard on during recovery, while cumbersome and not allowing me to lay on my stomach cause the kickstand, seeing it function is exciting. Even my wife likes it already and can't wait to give it a trial ride Keep in mind, I have not been able to do woman on top in decades due to the leaking veins. So, it will be nice to be able to not rush, just relax, let her do the work and no worry that I'm going to go soft.

If it's an option open to you and the doctor and insurance are on board it's a no brainier.

[Agfa13]

Barrosa,

When healing, you will be miserable, like myself:), question if it was worth it (like myself), doubt your decision to do the deed (like myself), go stir crazy because you cannot go out (like myself- its cold outside), cuss under you breath about the Dr and if there was a conspiracy to make you miserable (like myself), and finally tell yourself to calm down fucker, you have to heal (like myself), lol. It helps to repeat 'patience, patience, patience...'!
Had a fuckup in August, so selfluv has taken the edge off, but I am pissed because, after all is said and done for me, I have had no sex for about 5 months. No sex has been forced on me! So being on this board and reading the positives has given me hope. I am living vicariously through my implant brothers on here, lol.

You made the right decision on this issue:)! After all is said and done, you will be glad.

I don't want to say it is like getting a breast implant or butt augmentation because it is not. Don't know if you are married, but only you or your closest companions, if you chose to let them know, will know you have an implant. The implant is not something you will see, just look at the pics others have posted on here. There are no telltale signs of getting the implant:), except maybe getting a firmer hardon!!!

Keep reading on the board about what others have said or done. I guarantee you will pick up questions, as well as answers, get ideas on what to get for the healing process, how we coped, etc.

Good luck!