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You mean these past 4 months of no fucking was not rest??? Self luv is not resting? Damn, you are ruff !
Got a blowjob yesterday, it was wonderful! I did not cum, but damn, this is a milestone for me in recovery, lol.
Too afraid to fuck right now, but will try it at end of month.
Laying off dick...maybe during the week, when I am working. Weekend...not!

I have gone from 20 pumps to 24 pumps. The for several minutes, I get that pain of stretching (I guess), and want to deflate ASAP! Going longer than the 10 min, but the 10 min. is minimum.

Hang in there Agfa... I came this Friday while having PIV intercourse, first time since my surgery 8 months ago and before surgery my last PIV was something like 12-15 years go. (PIV = Penis in Vagina).

Maybe you'll get some PIA going before long that can last long enough to get off...

Mine took me a while, about 3-4 separate sessions with repositions periodically, several breaks for toy use alongside PIV and toy use on my wife alone for her benefit. Finally I felt it could happen while having probably my third ride of the day and worked it hard to "get up the hill to the peak"... Once I could see the peak, it was about a minute of "slow steady steps" until I was over the top and I finally reached that long sought after goal.

(I know, a lot of metaphorical speak there - I like colourful descriptions rather than the crude ones).

Hehehe...you know, you can say 'fuck' on here:)!
Doing my therapy as I type this.
Have a question about my pumping. When I initially pump, about 25 pumps now up from 20, the 1st few minutes are hurting. Like enough so I want to deflate ASAP!
Tried to get my mind off of the hurt, but it is hard, no pun.
Q: Is this the stretching pain inside?

2nd Q (to guys who have Titan Legacy): When I depress valve, how long do I have to hold it down? Why do difficult to hold it down? Buttons are not easy.

Agfa13 wrote:Hehehe...you know, you can say 'fuck' on here:)!
Doing my therapy as I type this.
Have a question about my pumping. When I initially pump, about 25 pumps now up from 20, the 1st few minutes are hurting. Like enough so I want to deflate ASAP!
Tried to get my mind off of the hurt, but it is hard, no pun.
Q: Is this the stretching pain inside?

2nd Q (to guys who have Titan Legacy): When I depress valve, how long do I have to hold it down? Why do difficult to hold it down? Buttons are not easy.

Suggestion - don't pump to max right away. Get it to 75-80% and wait a minute or two, then go up to about 95% and then wait again. Finally after a total of 3-4 minutes you should be at maximum and it shouldn't be so uncomfortable to get there as you're allowing things to stretch out a little bit slower. Once you've reached maximum then start the timer.

As to your Titan pump (going from what I've heard here), I think with the TItan you have to hold the deflate button to release the fluid. Squeezing it out while holding the deflate button is what most reports here say to do, if I'm not mistaken.

75%- 80%??? Shit, I have been doing this too aggressively, but hey, I want this ASAP!
Will try this, then report back. Tks for the feedback.

Hey guys, I have been out of commission since last Wednesday. Had a slight fever among some other stuff.
Feel better today, but had to write Dr. that I feel I was sliding back because I am feeling like I did back in August '19.
My balls hurts and the skin, esp. when I lie down to go to sleep, feels like it is 'sticking' to my thighs and also feels 'dry'. I am having mysterious pangs in my dick. I thought this would be remedied by my VED, but that is broken.
I ate some bad meat this past Wednesday, and I think this was the matchstick that started the whole thing...IMHO
My surgery last August, my perineum was the problem for about 4 days, I could not sit normally, I had to sit on the back part of my ass. Today, its not my perineum, but my actual ass! I am irritable, and my bestie is putting up with my crap this weekend. I do what I can, but standing for prolonged periods is not in the cards. Even ironing a shirt is a battle.

I got a blow job 2 weeks ago, and it felt great. He gave me some extra ball work, and was sucking the pump, lol, but aside from this, I can't think of anything that would make me feel the way I am feeling right now. I have not pumped for 4 days now.

Ajfa
Relax my brother.
Give yourself some time.
When I shower I pump till I'm hard then wait for about 10 min.
Then give it another few pumps till bulb is hard.
after drying off I wait about a bit then give it as many pumps as I can,
the last few are only half pumps.
Yes, it's uncomfortable almost painful.
I keep it inflated while I shave and finish cleaning up.
After about 35-45 min total I deflate.
To deflate I squeeze the bars with my right hand
and squeeze my dick with my left.
I reset the bulb with two quick pumps after I am totally deflated to
reset the pump, otherwise I seem to auto inflate to a size that,
while looking and feeling great is hard to hide.

Coby

Writing Dr. as I write this.
Q: How long does it take to get used to your ball sac being sore from pumping? I have not pumped now for over 6 days, and it is because my ball sac is sore.
I wrote the Dr. on Friday about my ass. He thinks it is not related, but I told him that I beg to differ, as the only relief was lying down with legs on pillows, like I did when I had my 1st surgery. Also, have never had constipation this bad where I could not sit or stand to eat or even iron a shirt.

Agfa13 wrote:Writing Dr. as I write this.
Q: How long does it take to get used to your ball sac being sore from pumping? I have not pumped now for over 6 days, and it is because my ball sac is sore.
I wrote the Dr. on Friday about my ass. He thinks it is not related, but I told him that I beg to differ, as the only relief was lying down with legs on pillows, like I did when I had my 1st surgery. Also, have never had constipation this bad where I could not sit or stand to ear or even iron a shirt.

Two things may help your last comment (constipation). Enemas and fiber. I used an enema bulb for several weeks after my surgery in October. I would sit and lightly push and if nothing readily evacuated, I would resort to irrigating with warm water. The added liquid lubrication and pressure from 8-9 oz of warm water was always enough to help things along.

Taking fiber (Metamucil) and plenty of water will also help you in that respect.

Details, details, details...forgot to mention. I am OK now. My ass feels better, and I can actually sit and stand for long periods. I even went to the gym yesterday:)! But that was 3 days of pain in ass. Go figure...Wednesday, when it all started, I had a fever, so teleworked. Thursday, fever gone, but fortunately, telework was on the schedule. Went in Friday, no fever (they check you at door before letting you go to your work area), Just felt the twinges of uncomfortableness. Did not panic, drank my water. But by Friday night, I was in pain!
Was at buddy's place, even had him do a late night run to CVS to get some Prep H to help. Drank more water next day, but little relief (Saturday). Sunday, with Prep H and water, felt better, but still could not sit or stand for long periods because ASS was hurting. I have to say, when I say ass hurting, I am not just talking about constipation, I am talking whole ass, as in area!
Side note, when Dr. responded to me, he put Ass in quotes "ass". What is medical terminology? When you are in pain, medical terminology goes out the window, lol.
Another overnight of healing, I was good to go by Tuesday.
Better today, have drunk little water, but solving that right now.