Why I Can't Be Trusted: Deflated Sex Day 20 Post-Op

[stephen54]

Just curious if others have gone this route (and any negative consequences?)...

Was implanted with Titan on 11/18. Really good experience recovering. Almost no pain to speak of. Even the soreness/discomfort was really brief. Back by and large to normal activities very quickly. My new version of flaccid is now about 4.5" (was less prior to surgery, only maybe 2-2.5" flaccid) and now it's doing what seems to be typical of Titans from what I read here, ie, it's a semi-hardon all the time. I would call it something like...I don't know...70% of the way to full rigidity? Maybe.

So...I've had nonstop semen production, obviously, since just prior to surgery, a little over 3 weeks of unreleased semen. To the point where I could very clearly feel the telltale tingle in my sac and at the base of my penis while just walking around. The feeling that I was about to come. Not orgasm-like. Just the unmistakable feeling that the tank was really full to the brim and the stuff was clamoring to get out. Have not gone 3 weeks without coming in a decade. Bizarre feeling. Anyway...

My wife is a woman on the edge, she's patient but also beside herself to play, and she's also understandably worried about what the hell is going on down there. What can she touch, how firmly, will she accidently inflate me etc. So with encouragement I tell her listen, let's explore...I'll let you know if anything is uncomfortable. I'm thinking ok this would be lovely to just get slowly jerked off. Well it's not uncomfortable at all, so of course on thing leads to another. I can't fucking help it. She wants it. I slide carefully and gently into her. I'm at 70% firmness (I'm fully deflated...my surgeon's protocol is fully deflated until the 4 week post-op check in with him). I just slide slowly and easily into her. We make love for 15-20 minutes close and slow and easy. Semen build up now, um...entirely resolved. It felt absolutely fucking AWESOME. I would say a majority of my pre-op sensation is very familiar and is there. Maybe 80% of it, and I realize it will return over time. Orgasm? Easy when I was ready and also awesome.

Doctor didn't tell me NOT to. He just said no messing with inflation yet. Was surprised to learn how easy it was to have vaginal sex while fully deflated. I think the curiosity and question I'm getting at really is just...have others done this and have you experienced anything negative in doing so? With the ice being broken here, I don't see us stopping. Truly cannot be trusted

[Greg1956]

I was told to wait five weeks for sex to be entirely sure the incision was fully closed and healed because you can develop an infection. I didn’t want to risk it. Hacking off was OK’d at 3 weeks.

[stephen54]

I was told to wait five weeks for sex to be entirely sure the incision was fully closed and healed because you can develop an infection. I didn’t want to risk it. Hacking off was OK’d at 3 weeks.

Gotcha. I got in there and showered after and lathered up with that Hibiclens antibacterial sudsy wash the doctor made me prep with pre-op. Hmm...

[oneperson]

Something doesn't much. I am a Titan, and I can tell you that by no way my dick is hard enough deflated to penetrate a vagina. I need at least 15 pumps to be enough hard to do it.

By the way, I can only feel envy of you: implanted since 12th September and still not able to have sex because of pain.

[stephen54]

Something doesn't much. I am a Titan, and I can tell you that by no way my dick is hard enough deflated to penetrate a vagina. I need at least 15 pumps to be enough hard to do it.

By the way, I can only feel envy of you: implanted since 12th September and still not able to have sex because of pain.

I'm sorry you still experience pain as you are describing at 3 months. I hope you have relief very very soon...

I guess Titans are fairly rigid at the beginning, immediately after surgery, but then they begin to become more flexible in time over several months? Seems to be what some guys say.

[Waynetho]

700CX here. No penetrative sex here (inflated or deflated) but a lot (A LOT) of self luv...

Tomorrow night (Monday) though, all bets are off! Day 42!! Woo Hoo!

[stephen54]

700CX here. No penetrative sex here (inflated or deflated) but a lot (A LOT) of self luv...

Tomorrow night (Monday) though, all bets are off! Day 42!! Woo Hoo!

Damn right, WOO HOO !! That's awesome, man. Congrats. Hope to hear an update after! You 2 have FUN!!

[stephen54]

And this, again, is truly why I cannot be trusted.

Have now had vaginal sex with wife 2x more since our day 20 experiments. Still just very very gentle, easy, not pushing anything. I see my surgeon in 3 more days for my 4 week post-implant follow up appointment (this will be hopefully first full inflation and a green light to proceed any way we want...I hope). But now we've had penetrative sex 3x with what I am still made to understand is in fact a totally non-inflated Titan. Again I would describe what my dick is doing right now as something like 70% semi-firm. When I ask, they tell me don't worry, Titans are like that at the onset, it will become more pliable and hang more naturally with time etc. I certainly hope that's right. Also just fascinated that we are able to do this with a non-inflated implant. At the risk of being graphic...she's very tight so we used a fair amount of lube...getting in was slightly challenging...but once in...no problem at all. Totally different sex from what we're used to, as my length and girth and degree of harness are totally different non-inflated...and this is obviously just a stop-gap desperate measure...but a fun as hell one...

[Waynetho]

Damn right, WOO HOO !! That's awesome, man. Congrats. Hope to hear an update after! You 2 have FUN!!

Until reading your most recent update, I had forgotten your "update" comment listed above...

As my wife is very obese (4'10" 270 lb), her parts are pretty well difficult to get to, on top of that my fat pad above mine adds about an inch of challenge. With my 5.25" (effectively 5" to the pubic bone without glans engorgement), I was able to get about 1" or maybe a fraction more, of vaginal penetration this past Monday. Mostly it was more of a sliding up and down and letting things go where they would, rather than an in & out. The best and most effective position due to her weight and mobility issues was "doggy-style" rear entry.

Still, I didn't cum and really didn't expect to. Everything is still a bit numb and feelings aren't quite there yet, and not enough penetration to get things to full attention (no spongiosum tumescence yet). I finished myself off later with some video assistance.

But now we've had penetrative sex 3x with what I am still made to understand is in fact a totally non-inflated Titan. Again I would describe what my dick is doing right now as something like 70% semi-firm. When I ask, they tell me don't worry, Titans are like that at the onset, it will become more pliable and hang more naturally with time etc.

Congratulations on #3. Looking forward to hearing you've been cleared and you are plowing that field regularly .

As to hang, I too with my 700 CX have a bit of hang oddness. Due to insufficient proximal rear-tip penetration I get some hinging and only hang at about 4 o'clock (30 degrees lower than horizontal) when inflated, but when deflated there is only about 30 degrees less hang, or about 5 o'clock, 60 degrees from horizontal. I suspect my 30 degree difference between inflated and deflated may be partly because of the lower than horizontal hang when inflated and because my implant is only 15 cm (5.9") and the operational portion between the tips is only about 7 cm or 2.76", so it's not as flexible as perhaps 9 or 10 cm of expandable area could be. Perhaps it still has to break in though. I know after I deflate, the initial loose hang and flaccid feel starts to firm up a bit over the next 20 minutes or so as the void left by the liquid allows my penis to shrink in length a little which i believe causes the cylinder to fold up inside a bit (it feels kind of like modeling clay, the lumps can be molded.) Also I still firmly believe I have some viable cavernosal tissue and it's being compressed when inflated and then expands to re-fill the void when deflated.

Once again congrats and keep on keeping on...

[stephen54]

Damn right, WOO HOO !! That's awesome, man. Congrats. Hope to hear an update after! You 2 have FUN!!

Until reading your most recent update, I had forgotten your "update" comment listed above...

As my wife is very obese (4'10" 270 lb), her parts are pretty well difficult to get to, on top of that my fat pad above mine adds about an inch of challenge. With my 5.25" (effectively 5" to the pubic bone without glans engorgement), I was able to get about 1" or maybe a fraction more, of vaginal penetration this past Monday. Mostly it was more of a sliding up and down and letting things go where they would, rather than an in & out. The best and most effective position due to her weight and mobility issues was "doggy-style" rear entry.

Still, I didn't cum and really didn't expect to. Everything is still a bit numb and feelings aren't quite there yet, and not enough penetration to get things to full attention (no spongiosum tumescence yet). I finished myself off later with some video assistance.

But now we've had penetrative sex 3x with what I am still made to understand is in fact a totally non-inflated Titan. Again I would describe what my dick is doing right now as something like 70% semi-firm. When I ask, they tell me don't worry, Titans are like that at the onset, it will become more pliable and hang more naturally with time etc.

Congratulations on #3. Looking forward to hearing you've been cleared and you are plowing that field regularly .

As to hang, I too with my 700 CX have a bit of hang oddness. Due to insufficient proximal rear-tip penetration I get some hinging and only hang at about 4 o'clock (30 degrees lower than horizontal) when inflated, but when deflated there is only about 30 degrees less hang, or about 5 o'clock, 60 degrees from horizontal. I suspect my 30 degree difference between inflated and deflated may be partly because of the lower than horizontal hang when inflated and because my implant is only 15 cm (5.9") and the operational portion between the tips is only about 7 cm or 2.76", so it's not as flexible as perhaps 9 or 10 cm of expandable area could be. Perhaps it still has to break in though. I know after I deflate, the initial loose hang and flaccid feel starts to firm up a bit over the next 20 minutes or so as the void left by the liquid allows my penis to shrink in length a little which i believe causes the cylinder to fold up inside a bit (it feels kind of like modeling clay, the lumps can be molded.) Also I still firmly believe I have some viable cavernosal tissue and it's being compressed when inflated and then expands to re-fill the void when deflated.

Once again congrats and keep on keeping on...

Interesting explanation of your experience with the angles and hang, etc...I agree on the viable cavernosal tissue at this point in time at least...it's fairly obvious, I can feel and see some differences with increased "chubbing". Not dramatic, but real...