Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby Lost Sheep » Thu Dec 19, 2019 10:24 pm

Robert51 wrote:My wife told me we are to old and only a submissive women would want sex when old and she will never be a submissive women. So o need to talk about it and act your age. Am 68

Suggest she be on top? :D

I don't mean to be insensitive, but I could not resist the straight line. I feel for your situation. Couples counseling might be worthwhile (and go alone if necessary). An opinion from a party without a vested interest is worth hearing.
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby Waynetho » Thu Dec 19, 2019 10:34 pm

I asked my wife hypothetically, how would she react if as a result of prostate surgery, that I dribbled urine while having intercourse. She said it wouldn't make any difference to her. She said she is not afraid of or grossed out by a little urine as it's "clean" and from me.
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby oneperson » Fri Dec 20, 2019 2:19 am

Robert51 wrote:My wife told me we are to old and only a submissive women would want sex when old


That is absolutely not true. There are old women who love sex.
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby mikestap » Fri Dec 20, 2019 4:21 am

Geez, guys. I have seen threads like this here on FrankTalk and other places for years, I guess. I would have to agree with Lost that couples in these circumstances could benefit from counseling...
In our case, we both enjoy the physical closeness surrounding sex... lying in bed together, holding each other, the kisses and touches, the whispers. It contributes to the closeness of our relationship. I am the one with the higher libido.
My wife knows how much I enjoy intercourse. I would think at worst case, she would respond to my needs if only because she loves me and wants to make me happy in life and in exclusive relationship with her. Nowadays, sometimes she initiates, most times I do. At a few years younger than me, she is still always very well and naturally lubricated when I enter her. She is multi-orgasmic.. She loves when I go down on her and I know how to drive her wild. I am very lucky to be hers.
It seems to me that it's just selfish for a woman to withhold sex knowing her husband wants it. Afterall, its only a portion out of her day. It does not take a long time. Left unsatisfied, sexual desire is not dissimilar to thirst or hunger; can grow to be omnipresent, consume us husbands and lead to resentment and the deterioration of the relationship. Sex and its impulses are designed by our Creator for us. That includes the contribution it makes to the relationship.
Both my wife and I believe these points to be true. When we decided on the implant, my wife came along to all the appointments and took care of me as I convalesced. We enjoy the spontaneity of the implant the most. I wish our good fortune for all my brothers here, if you also want it.
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby palace01 » Tue Dec 24, 2019 1:55 pm

andrew1959nj wrote:That really sucks. I'm kinda in the same situation, my partner looks hot and I have a lot of desire for her that I express often, but she has no interest in sex and has big dryness issues. She often responds jokingly that I need to find that elsewhere. At the same time, she is a very jealous woman. There are retail solutions to get your needs met, but that will diminish your relationship too. The misses might resent not being able to satisfy you and may resent you for your "needs". On the other hand, I'm living under a don't ask, don't tell, but I don't like it.

Sexual desire and love are two separate things. I love and adore my partner and we have a very strong and enjoyable relationship that is sexless. It is said the sex is only 5% of a relationship until there isn't any and then it becomes 95%.

My point is, try and work things out with the wife but if a sexual release can only be found outside of the home, find it discreetly.


My partner also had dryness problems but finds that treating herself with coconut oil just before we get together really helps to get her started
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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby Jack317 » Wed Dec 25, 2019 6:22 pm

Robert51 wrote:
oldbeek wrote:Don't know where to post this but my wife is getting weird in her old age. Doesn't want to kiss, hug or god no, fuck. She has decided my new implant is disgusting. I do leak urine at times but have learned to control that somewhat. Thinking that is turning her off, I said I would wear a condom. Problem there is with diminished feeling from the RP, I would probably take forever to come. She didn't even give me an answer on that suggestion. Browsing CityX Guide for hookers near by now. Fucking cancer sucks. We had good sex before the RP and I still got hard as long as I wanted it at 75. There are days with all the other pain I have when I wonder if it is all worth it.






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Re: Wife thinks my new dick is revolting

Postby Robert66 » Thu Dec 26, 2019 4:19 am

Jack317 wrote:
Robert51 wrote:
oldbeek wrote:Don't know where to post this but my wife is getting weird in her old age. Doesn't want to kiss, hug or god no, fuck. She has decided my new implant is disgusting. I do leak urine at times but have learned to control that somewhat. Thinking that is turning her off, I said I would wear a condom. Problem there is with diminished feeling from the RP, I would probably take forever to come. She didn't even give me an answer on that suggestion. Browsing CityX Guide for hookers near by now. Fucking cancer sucks. We had good sex before the RP and I still got hard as long as I wanted it at 75. There are days with all the other pain I have when I wonder if it is all worth it.





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Tell me about Asia I may have an opportunity to go there for work. Are you referring to hookers or just a plethora of women who like American men? I have also thought about hookers and used to consider it a victimless crime but I have read a lot of news stories about girls and women being forced into it. I would never consider that or an underage girl. I have a friend who lives in Belize he said I have to visit him there too it is a smorgasbord of willing women who love older American men. He is 60 and married to a beautiful 25 year old.
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