First Time

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Pete5829
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First Time

Postby Pete5829 » Mon Nov 04, 2019 8:59 am

I’m curious to know what your first time having sex with your new implant was like? I’m 18 days post op. My scrotum is still pretty tender and swollen. When my doc has adjusted my inflation it’s very painful. I know he says wait 3-4 more weeks and it won’t be. I’m at about 25% inflation right now, down from 75% last week. Not really sure what 100% is going to look and feel like. I can feel the tip of the implant on both side of the soft head of my penis and can certainly feel the chambers on each side of the shaft. The whole thing feels pretty unnatural at this stage just looking for reassurance that it’s going to work as so many have described and that I’ll have enough rigidity for penetration. Also that pumping will be painless.
49 years old. Implanted 10/18/2019 AMS 700 Dr Daniel Rapaport, Vancouver BC Canada Activated 11/21/2019

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Happy Toy
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Re: First Time

Postby Happy Toy » Mon Nov 04, 2019 9:15 am

TIME!!!! Give it time. Your dick and balls have just gone through a VERY traumatic surgery! It will take about 2 months before things will be close to "normal". If you are like most of us bionic guys, you will be very happy with the results. For me, the first sex with my wife after my implant (about 8 weeks), was the first time we were able to have intercourse in over a year! Although I was not able to cum or climax, it felt so good. It took me another month before that happened. So hang in there and be patient, it WILL get better. Congrats on your implant and welcome to the brotherhood!
Andy
Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 76yrs., married 53 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.

mikestap
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Location: Atlanta, GA

Re: First Time

Postby mikestap » Mon Nov 04, 2019 9:45 am

Hi Pete!
Congrats on your implant.
Going to work? Yes!
Enough rigidity? Yes!
Painless pumping? Yes!

Andy is right. Time is what you need. 18 days is still early.

My best,
Mike
61 Years. RALP 2013. Received Titan Dec 20, 2017. See results at viewtopic.php?f=6&t=8524&start=540#p109131 and viewtopic.php?f=6&t=8524&start=580#p116244
22 cm No RTE

oneperson
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Re: First Time

Postby oneperson » Mon Nov 04, 2019 10:01 am

My two cents.

I am now at 7 and half weeks after surgery. It still aches. I cannot have sex, I tried last friday and screamed in pain. Of course, not able to cum. But I can cum without problem with gentle masturbation since more or less 3rd week. The fact that be a kind of erected when flaccid, facilitates the fact.

Regarding to pain when pumped, at 18 days I couldn't even pump. I started at 6th week. And without pain, I get my pennis much harder than my best viagra erections. I go to some pain because is what the dr has told me to do, in order to gain girth and lenght. If no pain, no gain.

I hope everybody here are in the truth, and with enough time, sex will be as good as it should to be, even better.
Implanted September 12nd 2019. Coloplast Titan OTR 20 cm + 1 cm RTE. Dr Cruz (Spain). Liver transplanted. Born in 1967. ED since 24 in different degrees. Pills stopped working in March 2019. Injections caused much pain.

zandro
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Re: First Time

Postby zandro » Mon Nov 04, 2019 3:38 pm

Try masturbation with a vibrating toy (the flip ev zero is really awesome) the vibration stimulates tissue growth and healing and when used with a menthol type lubricant (same company makes one called hole lube wild) actually numbs you a bit as well - I discovered all this quite by accident, 4 weeks post surgery and although I still have swelling I'm pretty much pain free normally and with intercourse
Implanted @ 36 on Oct 8th, '19 - Titan Touch 24cm (XL)

Smetro
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Re: First Time

Postby Smetro » Tue Nov 05, 2019 2:23 am

Fucking amazing is what it was BUT........ be patient and follow your doctor’s instructions :)
66, Titan Touch 22cm+1.5cm rte's op done in Melbourne Aust by Dr Chris Love-Feb 2017 Venous leakage over a 2 year period, did pills and Caverject. Length@ 3 1/2years is: 7+” erect, 6.5” flaccid and almost 6” girth. Normal orgasm ret 3 years post-op.

Agfa13
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Re: First Time

Postby Agfa13 » Sat Dec 07, 2019 5:50 am

Hmmm...thanks guys, I can let others know when they can start lining up to try the new me, lol.
Surgery is this Tuesday, 12/10, so calculating here and all goes well, that puts me in late January/early February time frame to start fucking around....again!
56, Maryland, revised with Titan on 3/2/20
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AMS cx at 24cm, now have Titan Classic 20 cm
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Greg1956
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Re: First Time

Postby Greg1956 » Sat Dec 07, 2019 6:33 am

Each of us recovers differently so don’t try to compare your healing to others. I had my first jack off experience at 3 weeks and it was great. My doc told me to wait a full five weeks for sex and we did it first thing that day. It took a few times before I no longer was bothered by the feel of the cylinder tips. Also, we both decided when I was fully pumped it was not as enjoyable as it is when I pump to about 75-80% which is still hard.

It took time, but my implant is part of me now. Yes, it is different, but man it is far superior to the limp dick I had to deal with for years. I am enjoying sex and masturbation again and I have all of my self-esteem and confidence back.
I am 64 and had ED from a VL. Implanted by Dr. Ronald Anglade in Atlanta on 9/18/17. I have an AMS700LGX 21 cm via a Penoscrotal incision. Very happy with results. 6" soft and 6 3/4” x 5 5/8” hard.

Agfa13
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Re: First Time

Postby Agfa13 » Sat Dec 07, 2019 7:24 am

Not comparing, but putting it in a timeframe:), besides, my situation is somewhat different, as I am getting a salvage, but did not use the 1st one. I know the recovery may be different, so I just hope this time around, according to what I have read, that this 2nd time around is shorter recovery.
56, Maryland, revised with Titan on 3/2/20
Document your current penile size: photos and written records
AMS cx at 24cm, now have Titan Classic 20 cm
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WhiteCane
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Re: First Time

Postby WhiteCane » Sat Dec 07, 2019 8:46 am

OK, I went into it after reading a bunch of posts on here… I had already been cycling for five days… we started out turtle slow… My junk is a lot shorter after implant so we were careful not to have any slippage issues… furthermore, everything was still super tender! anyway, she sat there rocking kind of getting some clitoral stimulation and still definitely pleasing me but nothing to ferocious for about the first 30 minutes… she came because of that grinding… I was in so much pain I didn’t think I was going to… She started getting just a little bit more aggressive after 30 minutes… at that point, I was kind of OK with everything going on and a lot more comfortable with the pain if that makes sense… A couple minutes after that I came… We made out for a little while and there was no more insertion for probably 10 minutes until everything calm down as far as sensitivity was concerned… After that, we went at it for a lot longer… It was just working our way through the sensitive stage at first… Things are getting a lot better now… The big issue has been slippage because of the size to be quite honest… That’s when it gets painful! yeah, that’s my two cents… Take your time… Same with cycling, don’t add more pumps until you are OK with the pain in the head of your penis… Basically incorporated that same idea…
Implanted October 2019 Dr. Kramer lgx 18 cm +2 rear tips. Preop at 6.75 post op 5.25... awaiting revision… Implanted for possibility of having our first child.


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