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Tha day arrived, and not for good :-(

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 4:23 am
by oneperson
At last, yesterday my wife got ready for sex. So I started to aroused. She asked me: are you ready yet? I answered: I think so, I am not completely healthy, I have to go better, but it is supposed that I can have sex during the process. Let's try it, carefully because I have been told that the first times it is a little painful.

So I pumped till the point of pain and began with sex plays. Everything was perfect, until the moment of penetration. On the one hand, the size: she complained about the lose of size and told that with that small size it cannot penetrate well. No problem, with cycling that problem will be no big. But the pain in my inside face of the tip of the pennis when in missionary, was so terrible that I almost scream. After 2 minutes, I had to stop because it was unbearable. We then try to do it she over me, not avail: now not only the terrible pain in the tip, but in the base too.

It is absolutely impossible to have any kind of sex with this thing. Monday I wll call the Dr. Things are going terribly bad.

Re: Tha day arrived, and not for good :-(

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 7:09 am
by dg_moore
When was your surgery? It was 3 months before I was sufficiently healed.

Re: Tha day arrived, and not for good :-(

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 8:08 am
by oneperson
Surgery was 7 weeks and 2 days ago. Dr. told that in 6 weeks it should be possible to have sex and when activate me last week monday told me I could have sex already.

It is not the case. If you say 3 months can be needed it takes my nerves out a few. Anyway I will try to see the dr next week

Re: Tha day arrived, and not for good :-(

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 8:27 am
by dg_moore
oneperson wrote:Surgery was 7 weeks and 2 days ago. Dr. told that in 6 weeks it should be possible to have sex and when activate me last week monday told me I could have sex already.

It is not the case. If you say 3 months can be needed it takes my nerves out a few. Anyway I will try to see the dr next week


Yes, checking with your doctor is best. Everybody heals differently, and you may just need more time.

Re: Tha day arrived, and not for good :-(

Posted: Sat Nov 02, 2019 8:45 pm
by Toronto67
Hi,

You have to wait and give it more time, in my case the first time I had sex It was disappointing and super painful, but I have been cycling every day since I was activated and 5 months later it is almost as good as sex before the implant, or even better.

Check with you doctor but it may be a matter of time. My advise is to take it easy, donot rush it and cycle as often as you can.