Implants and masturbating.

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Bizzmann
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Implants and masturbating.

Postby Bizzmann » Tue Oct 29, 2019 6:42 pm

I have always had a high libido. Unfortunately my wife, after menopause, lost hers. I would masturbate several times a week for years for relief. She would do the occasional obligatory sex but my main satisfaction was my imagination and right hand. After prostatectomy, no longer have erections.

Recently started injections and get a good erection and have great orgasms (major climacturia). My problem is that I feel as if I walk around with “blue balls” and don’t want to inject several times a week just to “Jack off”.

My question is how is masturbation with an implant. I know it’s insane to think about an implant when “real sex” is infrequent. Hope someone can help as I’m losing my mind.

Thanks.
Diagnosed Gleason 7 12/18 at Mayo Jacksonville. Due to prior abdominal surgery, was referred to MUSC Charleston for perineal prostatectomy 2/19. Residual cancer in bladder stem. 40 radiation treatments and 6 month Lupron at Mayo. PSA undetectable 6/19

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Oct 29, 2019 7:05 pm

Bizzmann wrote:I have always had a high libido. Unfortunately my wife, after menopause, lost hers. I would masturbate several times a week for years for relief. She would do the occasional obligatory sex but my main satisfaction was my imagination and right hand. After prostatectomy, no longer have erections.

Recently started injections and get a good erection and have great orgasms (major climacturia). My problem is that I feel as if I walk around with “blue balls” and don’t want to inject several times a week just to “Jack off”.

My question is how is masturbation with an implant. I know it’s insane to think about an implant when “real sex” is infrequent. Hope someone can help as I’m losing my mind.

Thanks.

Have you tried partial erection masturbation? I found a "semi-hard" ejaculation quite easy to attain. Oral meds may give you enough - or penile suppository. A LOT less invasive than injections or surgery.

If your wife is willing to explore restoration of her libido, discussion with her gynecologist (Hormone Replacement Therapy) could be fruitful and bring back the enjoyment you both once had, climacturia notwithstanding.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017 Dr Shaw.
READ OLD THREADS to ask better questions and better understand answers.
Make yourself part of your medical team.
Document your current penile size: photos and written records.
Pre-op V.E.D. therapy helps.

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby David_R » Tue Oct 29, 2019 8:58 pm

Bizzmann wrote:My question is how is masturbation with an implant.

I would say the same way that I did it before I had ED (meaning, when hardness was natural for me). And it feels just as good if not better, since it can stay hard forever. :D
Age 70. Prostatectomy in 2000. My urologist (for over 20 yrs) has been Dr. Marc Siegelbaum of Chesapeake Urology in Baltimore, and Chief of Uro. at Univ. of Md. St. Joseph Medical Center. I have LGX, and have regained my original length. (Not an ad, btw)

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby oldbeek » Wed Oct 30, 2019 12:01 am

I had an implant for myself. Wife may give me some once a month. I J/O 4-5 times a week while pumped 1/2. Still can enjoy orgasims with my computer porn.
78, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .08 11/18,.07 1/19,.05 4/19, Pain with trimix, implant 4-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Lo Doyle 6 x 4.5

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby Greg1956 » Wed Oct 30, 2019 6:32 am

I am 63 and still as horny as I was as a teenager. I have had my implant for two years and in addition to se. with my wife several times a week I masturbate every day unless I am extremely tired or sick. After years of doing it with a soft or only partially hard dick, it feels so great to do it with a really hard shaft again. All of the sensations are the same as they were before the implant.
I am 63 and had ED from a VL. Implanted by Dr. Ronald Anglade in Atlanta on 9/18/17. I have an AMS700LGX 21 cm via a Penoscrotal incision. Very happy with results. 5 3/4” soft and 6 3/4” x 5 5/8” hard.

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby andrew1959nj » Wed Oct 30, 2019 8:39 am

I know your pain all too well. I had to use pills and injections just to masturbate. My ED was so bad, that I had stopped trying to have intercourse. My partner has a VERY hot body but no drive and the few times we have tried hurt her before we could even get much penetration. So I'm still a DIY kind of guy between an occasional girlfriend or a retail girl. The funny thing is in the beginning, I was have trouble with the inflation/deflation process and was able to JO without pumping him up. Even deflated he is hard enough to climates. I have gotten much better at the inflation process and masturbate once a day. My libido is still very strong its nice to have the option to act on it whenever the mood or opportunity presents itself.
60 years old. MS and Severe ED 10+ years. Pills and injections never worked well. Implanted 5/16/2019 by Dr. Sadeghi. Titan 20cm + 2cm RTE.

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby WhiteCane » Wed Oct 30, 2019 11:08 am

My man! I’ve been dealing with this for a while with a partner who has equal sexual desire as I do… she found us a toy… Does not at all require an erection!... basically has a vibrator sort of thing and these arms that wrap around your penis “I prefer at the frenulum“. there are a variety of these… The one she found was a model with a cool little clip stimulation vibrator built into the other side so we can grind our bodies against each other and it’s pretty great for solo or partner play… If someone can confirm that I’m allowed to say product names, I gladly well… It was a great solution to me but there’s no toy that’s perfect for everyone… We will definitely continue using this thing in a couple of weeks when I am all fixed up! Oh, it’s rechargeable! Doesn’t take long and has a bunch of different settings on it so yeah… I’m getting all excitable

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby postra7777 » Wed Oct 30, 2019 11:20 am

You can say product names.
Suffered with ED for most of my life. Viagra then to Trimix then implanted 3/8/2018 with AMX 700 CX 21cm with 1cm RTE. 50 years old Urolift procedure performed 30 day prior to my implant surgery.

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby WhiteCane » Wed Oct 30, 2019 11:34 am

Ha ha, OK! This particular one is called the hot octopus pulse duo…. From what I understand, there are cheaper varieties of this on Amazon and things… I really happen to like this one a lot… If you find one, you will more than likely find a bunch of products like it in that same listing…

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Re: Implants and masturbating.

Postby Happy Toy » Wed Oct 30, 2019 11:46 am

Bizzmann wrote:I have always had a high libido. Unfortunately my wife, after menopause, lost hers. I would masturbate several times a week for years for relief. She would do the occasional obligatory sex but my main satisfaction was my imagination and right hand. After prostatectomy, no longer have erections.

Recently started injections and get a good erection and have great orgasms (major climacturia). My problem is that I feel as if I walk around with “blue balls” and don’t want to inject several times a week just to “Jack off”.

My question is how is masturbation with an implant. I know it’s insane to think about an implant when “real sex” is infrequent. Hope someone can help as I’m losing my mind.

Thanks.


I've had my implant for nearly a year and a half, love the thing. Masturbation is great with it because you can make it as hard as you want and it stays that way until you let it down, even after you climax. I'm 75 so it does take a little longer unless it's been a while since I last climaxed. I'm very good at edging so can cum 2 or 3 times in one session.
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Implanted 6/26/2018, Coloplast Titan 20cm, no RTE'S, infra pubic, Dr. Rhee, Kaiser :o 8-) 75yrs., married 52 yrs. ED for over 20 yrs.


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