Implant and dating

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ft8790
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Implant and dating

Postby ft8790 » Tue Sep 17, 2019 4:44 pm

Are there members here that have implants and currently dating? When do you mention the implant? Is there women that are turned off by it and will not go forward?

How is the size of the implant determined if you can no longer achieve full erections?
53 years old, tumors both sides of prostate treated with HIFU May 2019 current ED using cialis and viagra not very effective, recently divorced concerned on trying to move forward with ED issue

Gt1956
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Re: Implant and dating

Postby Gt1956 » Tue Sep 17, 2019 5:52 pm

ft8790 wrote:Are there members here that have implants and currently dating? When do you mention the implant? Is there women that are turned off by it and will not go forward?

How is the size of the implant determined if you can no longer achieve full erections?

In your current dating life. When do you tell a prospective partner that you have erection problems? You'll have a lot easier time telling her that you can make love all night than telling her you might not even be able to penetrate her.
Check my recent post history. I describe the measuring process quite well. Your doctor will measure Mr. LIMP while your unconscious. Go watch Dr. Kramer's videos on YouTube. Beware, it is graffic, but well worth watching.
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Lost Sheep
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Re: Implant and dating

Postby Lost Sheep » Tue Sep 17, 2019 6:06 pm

ft8790 wrote:Are there members here that have implants and currently dating? When do you mention the implant? Is there women that are turned off by it and will not go forward?

How is the size of the implant determined if you can no longer achieve full erections?

The ONLY determining measurement is taken on the inside of your penis DURING the operation. All other methods (as good as some of them are) are only estimates.

I told everyone I dated I was impotent before we even met (Using a dating site, advertising for a woman to accompany me on my journey from impotence to implant - sort of a "lab partner") I got a lot of positive feedback. Women are incredibly supportive if they feel trusted, respected and safe. They also respect a man who is able to admit a weakness rather than simply deny it.

Do not neglect the other ways sexual satisfaction may be achieved without a working penis, and some women like those techniques better anyway. I get a lot of joy from my partner's orgasms achieved by hands, tongue and toys in addition to coitus with my penis. (My girlfriend does not like toys, so if she reads this, I put this caveat in here, but many women do like them.)

Life is too short to miss the joys of sex and too long to endure its absence.
Lost Sheep
Born 1948 AMS LGX 18+3 implant Nov 6, 2017 by Dr Tavis Shaw. Spent 14 months researching in effort to optimize outcome. After 30 yrs of progressive unrecognized ED I will do this RIGHT; no second chance with one's first.
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Smetro
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Re: Implant and dating

Postby Smetro » Wed Sep 18, 2019 5:40 am

On my second date with the delectable and delicious Miss D we went for a drive in the country. We had a nice lunch and talked at length about life and all it’s twists and turns.
As we drove home I was subconsciously deciding whether to tell her about my Titan....or not .....when out of the blue, the words, “I have a condition called ED” just seemed to fall out of my mouth. Miss D looked at me..... and asked me to explain what that meant.
So I explained how my cock had become limp over the previous few years, how possibly my late father may have been the same ................and how much I love sex and women.
She was fascinated and genuinely interested .......and much later said how impressed she was that I was prepared to discuss it openly. Women are wonderful.
So after some further discussion about Viagra, Cialis and Caverject (she didn’t know injections even existed and thought me very brave to have used them) I finally said, “but I don’t need any of those anymore”.....”how so?” she asked.
I then explained the process of having a Titan implanted and described the surgery and the essentials of how it works.
Seriously.....she was fascinated.
I could really sense a connection forming as we approached her home. She invited me in for a cup of tea and our easy, free flowing conversation continued....to put it mildly D is a very attractive woman and really lovely company.
It was then that I lost my mind: “do you want to see it?” I said. Without skipping a beat she replied, “absolutely.”
Unhesitatingly I quickly dropped my skinnies and jocks to the floor.....she was sitting on a bar stool at the kitchen bench....right on cue my 6.5 inch flaccid gave a little twitch as I stared down Miss D’s ample cleavage....she smiled......in the nicest possible way.
I then asked “would you like to squeeze it?”.....I remember quite clearly she reached out quickly and decisively to “weigh” my slowly fattening semi -erection in her warm and gentle hand. We both smiled. It was funny, personal and upon reflection-very, very sexy!
What a moment! What a woman. She let my cock slip out of her hand and at the same time said, “do you want to see mine?” Meaning her breasts.
“Sure” I said....”I would love to”......she lifted her top over her head and removed her bra...”boom” perfect beautifully suntanned breasts with erect pink nipples staring straight at me....and they were on hi beam!
What did I do? I did exactly what you would do, I leaned forward and took first the left and then in turn, the right nipple between my lips....I sucked firmly for a second or two and then circled each of them with my tongue.
True heaven!
What did she do?
Well, as she re-clothed herself she giggled like a teenager and said something like; “did we really just do that?” :lol:
We have been all but inseparable since that gorgeous February day.
It sure was one unique way of breaking down the barriers and beginning an amazing relationship that has great sex at its core.
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65, Titan Touch 22cm+1.5cm rte's op done in Melbourne, Australia Feb 2017 Venous leakage over a previous 2 year period, did pills and Caverject. Length 2 years+ post-op is 7.5” erect, 6.5” flaccid and almost 6” girth

merrix
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Re: Implant and dating

Postby merrix » Wed Sep 18, 2019 6:39 am

Gt1956 wrote:In your current dating life. When do you tell a prospective partner that you have erection problems? You'll have a lot easier time telling her that you can make love all night than telling her you might not even be able to penetrate her.


Amen to that.
Even though I understand the question, I often answer something similar as Gt does.
It is funny that men who cannot get an erection, at least not a good enough one to have good sex, seem to think it would be so extremely embarassing to have an implant.
I have had mine for four years, and every time I have sex I am just happy I don't have to go through the heavy embarassment of a failing erection.

But to answer the question - Do it whenever it feels right. If you are as open as e.g. Smetro and Lost Sheep, then do it in advance. If you don't want to do that, then pump it up in the bathroom, come out with a hard dick, do your thing and only tell her if she notices. And then you can just tell her that you had some surgery and prefer to talk about it later or not at all.
Endless options.
All better than jerking off by yourself with a limp dick.
Last edited by merrix on Wed Sep 18, 2019 7:23 am, edited 1 time in total.
43 yo, ED forever from VL
Fit and active
Implanted 151215
Titan XL 24 cm, no RTEs
Dr. Eid
Activated day 13
Sex after 3 weeks
Gained length and girth
So far It works perfectly
Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon

Evinrude
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Re: Implant and dating

Postby Evinrude » Wed Sep 18, 2019 6:57 am

Gt1956 wrote:You'll have a lot easier time telling her that you can make love all night than telling her you might not even be able to penetrate her

+ :!:

Also.. Smetro, nice story :)
Age 66, widower in 2017, remarried 2019. ED symptoms just 3 years ago, Viagra worked at first but less and less so as time went on. Never tried injections. AMS 700 LGX 15cm (2cm RTE) Implant 6/19/19 Broderick @ Mayo C. JAX.


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