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What are guys hearing from sex partners regarding sucking a rock hard dick dick as opposed to very slightly deflated or almost fully deflated. This is a question regarding BJ's not fucking.

My wife and I prefer when we start totally deflated. She works on my cock with her mouth and hands. I have my hands on my balls and discreetly give it a pump or two at a time. Even prior to getting my implant I would tug on my balls while she went down on me so what we do now doesn’t seem different. I rarely ever fully inflate it for any sexual activity. She thinks it is more natural when I only pump to about 75% of its full potential and I orgasm more easily that way, too.

Greg1956 wrote:My wife and I prefer when we start totally deflated. She works on my cock with her mouth and hands. I have my hands on my balls and discreetly give it a pump or two at a time. Even prior to getting my implant I would tug on my balls while she went down on me so what we do now doesn’t seem different. I rarely ever fully inflate it for any sexual activity. She thinks it is more natural when I only pump to about 75% of its full potential and I orgasm more easily that way, too.

You are a lucky guy to have a wife that likes to suck your dick!

Greg. Thank you! That is a great way to go about it as naturally as possible.

For my wife, the harder the better. And now that she knows I can go all night, she is happy to let me finish during her BJ, before starting to work on her.

SeaCapt wrote:For my wife, the harder the better. And now that she knows I can go all night, she is happy to let me finish during her BJ, before starting to work on her.

That would be difficult for me. After I cum, my energy level falls off a cliff and desire diminishes, too. How do you do it?

Generally, I do oral on her until she has orgasmed several times and then either let her give me oral or we do coitus until I do, then either end the physical lovemaking to do afterplay or switch to a more relaxed position that requires less energy from me.

I wish I could keep up active thrusting in coitus for longer than I do. 60 minutes seems an unattainable duration at this time.

My testosterone levels were normal at last checkup.

Thank God for my implant that allows me to do what I am able to do now.

I too say you are lucky to gave a wife who likes to suck. Mine sucks my cock because she knows it’s gets me ready to fuck her really good. She focuses on the underside near frenulum and gets me good and hot then quits and we move on to fucking. I could enjoy it for quite a long time as most men really enjoy getting sucked.

My wife says no real difference. It is back to my old self prior to ed. If we were having sex I was always pretty much up and hard. When we get ready to have sex I just pump up and we do our thing. She likes it hard either way. Doing oral or inside her.

She will give me a blowjob and if I finish which she likes we just keep going on. Nice to not have to wait yo get hard again. We just keep going.

Miss D......loves sucking me for extended periods......we start out deflated but with a few pumps ‘in’ to avoid the feeling of the cylinders.
I reach down from time to time and squeeze the pump..... we both giggle at the wheezy little noise it makes. Gradually we get to maximum erection.....she loves to pause and hold me with 2 hands.....like a golf club and lick around the head.....teasingly. She loves me fully inflated-she knows what comes next

Vagabond127 wrote:Greg. Thank you! That is a great way to go about it as naturally as possible.

You are welcome. Give it a try. Love it.