How often do you have sex

[Dave52]

For all the implanted guys realizing that age may or may not be a factor. How often do you pump up and not have sex? How often do you use your implanted penis for sex?
Dave

[dg_moore]

I got my Titan in 2008. I have never used it for sex, and only inflate it briefly, every couple of months or so, to keep things stretched and healthy, as advised by Dr. Kramer. As it turns out, my decision to get it was a mistake.

[tomas1]

I realize the novelty will wear off but I pump up almost every morning.
We have sex 5 to 6 times a week.

It won't continue, but it won't be my call.
My wife says "we can't do this every morning" but it usually happens.
I don't force it.

[Smetro]

Maybe 3 mornings and 5 nights each week in the pussy.
Sometimes I pump up just to tease my GF and see what transpires

[DaveKell]

DEFINITELY A HELLUVA LOT MORE TIMES THAN MOST 66 YEAR OLD MEN.

[Lost Sheep]

Maybe 3 mornings and 5 nights each week in the pussy.
Sometimes I pump up just to tease my GF and see what transpires

I wonder what the duration is (and this is not just directed at you, Smetro) for these 8 times a week. If I initiated sex on a weekday morning, I would probably lose my job for being late to work.

We never do "quickies". (I had enough of those, which left my woman unsatisfied, when my recalcitrant penis would call a halt prematurely.) I am reluctant to start anything unless we have at least 45 minutes to do a "proper job".

So, number of times (O.P. How often do you have sex?) leaves one vital statistic out, "How many minutes of foreplay, actual coitus and afterplay do you have per week?

Every man, it seems, wants to know how he "stands up" to others, I guess, and I am not different except for being more detail-oriented in my curiosity.

Afterplay is not something I can tell easily because I often fall asleep during afterplay. Coitus is something I like to keep track of, but don't want my lover to see me watching the clock. Disrupts the mood. Foreplay is hard to track because it often starts before sex is even on my mind. But those are my best estimates. But the actual coitus, she would NEVER want to stop (lucky me!!!), but when my body runs out of energy, she accepts the closure (again, lucky me.)

We sometimes change positions for variety or if one body part (arm, hip, shoulder or leg) gets uncomfortable. And after I cum, sometimes we will switch to an "X" position where there is little energy from either of us involved. The implant makes this possible. If I were in a normal (unimplanted man) refractory period with no erection, this would not be possible. BIG advantage for an implant erection over a natural erection.

To answer the question:
One to three times a week since my girlfriend and I live some distance apart and only see each other on weekends. But it is every weekend. 20-40 minutes foreplay. 15-30 minutes coitus (I keep trying to delay my orgasms, but they are insistent and my energy levels fall off a cliff afterwards) and 20-40 minutes afterplay.

Pump up NOT for sex? Once or twice a day. Often go to sleep pumped and wake up about 90 minutes later with a bit of an ache. I release pressure at that time, but don't usually squeeze down at that time. Then pump up again while I hit the "snooze" button on my alarm clock. That gives me another 20-30 minutes of maximum pump time. No sex those days as I am sleeping alone during the week.

So, I guess the ratio of time spent erect and fucking to erect and not fucking is about the same as it was when I was in my 20s. The difference is that now, I know sex will happen and in my 20s I NEVER knew.

[tomas1]

Good point.
Every morning is a seduction for us.
Lots of foreplay involved.
The actual act varies from 8 to 12 minutes
It's not my call, but I have to take what I can get.

[DonDon]

Well, you guys, as you will see I have nothing to brag about. So I am not going to impress anyone here. This is just the way it is for two busy people. As we both have jobs, we have to schedule our sex because of meetings at night bring us each home whipped out and to tired for sex more often.

Our plan is: Wednesday is date night, that means eat out or catch a movie, and sex later at night. Then we try to schedule at least one of the weekend nights. I have to make a reservation. Find a not-busy night and schedule it on the calendar. She really enjoys her orgasms, they last long with many contractions and repeat about 5 to 8 times. It is a joke between us that she says "enough", I say "just one more", and she says "o-o-ok", with resigned feigned reluctance. Recently, she has mentioned returning to quickies in the morning, which we stopped when all this prostate cancer ED stuff raised its head. Maybe we will get back to them again, she seems to want it (or senses that I want it,) (she has never said no to sex.) Of course if we miss a night, we try to reschedule for the next night. Vacations are different and the schedule gets better, no work, no meetings, sleep late.

Count me in for twice a week. Not very spontaneous, but always satisfying fun.

Other than that I inflate every morning for about 2 hours. As my bladder has shrunk by half, I get up around 2am and again around 6am. After the 6am pee trip I pump up about 10 times and go back to bed. While I am inflated, my penis is nicknamed Pokey because I poke out, otherwise his name is Richard. After shower and breakfast I pump down. I work from home so clothing is optional.