How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

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Smetro
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How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby Smetro » Wed Aug 07, 2019 1:22 am

My GF had never seen, let alone had sex with an implanted guy......pretty normal I would imagine.
She says she isn’t the same woman she was beforehand. She is happy to enjoy sex night and morning most days.
Has anyone else experienced a similar transition?
66, Titan Touch 22cm+1.5cm rte's op done in Melbourne Aust by Dr Chris Love-Feb 2017 Venous leakage over a 2 year period, did pills and Caverject. Length@ 3 1/2years is: 7.5” erect, 6.5” flaccid and almost 6” girth. Normal orgasm ret 3 years post-op.

Robert1966
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby Robert1966 » Wed Aug 07, 2019 4:15 am

My partner had not experienced an implanted penis before, but REALLY likes the implanted one that I now have... mainly for the restorative effect it has for me, but also for the enjoyment it provides to her... she really does get off on it and the inflation capabilities of an implant.. dial the hardness.... it has allowed us to reboot our sexuality.. and she is really into implant technology...
Born 1958, ED issues following prostatectomy in 2009 for PCa. Used Cialis and prostaglandin but ultimately unworkable. Implanted 2/6/2018, 20cm Titan no RTE

Lost Sheep
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Aug 07, 2019 1:32 pm

Smetro wrote:How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Like a duck to water.

No, not quite.

Like a duck after migrating over the Sahara Desert to water. :D :D :oops: :D :D :shock: :lol: :D
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017 Dr Shaw.
READ OLD THREADS to ask better questions and better understand answers.
Make yourself part of your medical team.
Document your current penile size: photos and written records.
Pre-op V.E.D. therapy helps.

andrew1959nj
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby andrew1959nj » Wed Aug 07, 2019 1:49 pm

I had a sex date with a woman who I had told weeks previously that I went bionic. We went at it four times that night and left a sizable wet spot on the bed. Pussies don't lie! LOL The day after she said that she wanted to ride it again, but knew that my new equipment was on a shakedown cruise. Neither the thought or the action was a concern for her. Unlike my partner, she has a very strong libido and gets wet.
60 years old. MS and Severe ED 10+ years. Pills and injections never worked well. Implanted 5/16/2019 by Dr. Sadeghi. Titan 20cm + 2cm RTE.

oldbeek
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby oldbeek » Wed Aug 07, 2019 2:19 pm

Well, I had prostate cancer to get me this way. She likes it hard doesn't like the urine leakage. Nothing spontaneous. Get out a towel to absorb the leakage. Go piss and beat it on the counter to get every last drop out and now you are ready. Hope you guys never get pc.
78, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .08 11/18,.07 1/19,.05 4/19, .06 2/20 Pain with trimix, implant 4-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6 x 4.5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

Lost Sheep
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Aug 07, 2019 2:36 pm

oldbeek wrote:Well, I had prostate cancer to get me this way. She likes it hard doesn't like the urine leakage. Nothing spontaneous. Get out a towel to absorb the leakage. Go piss and beat it on the counter to get every last drop out and now you are ready. Hope you guys never get pc.

Well, you can EMULATE spontaneity, can't you?

Just as an implant lets a man emulate a spontaneous erection (more or less), you could empty and dry your bladder and then approach your wife and let her FEEL as spontaneous as she can.

Always looking on the bright side.

Lost Sheep
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017 Dr Shaw.
READ OLD THREADS to ask better questions and better understand answers.
Make yourself part of your medical team.
Document your current penile size: photos and written records.
Pre-op V.E.D. therapy helps.

gene308
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby gene308 » Wed Aug 07, 2019 3:03 pm

Suffering with ED.. and all other options failed My wife says I was awful to be around. Worst case of "Manopause" she ever did see. She tells me it was wonderful to get her husband back.. and the sex is good too. I have much to be greatful for, including the support of this community
Gene308 married 43 years AMS 700 CX 21cm+2cm Implanted 10/04/2018 Dr James Hotaling (surgeon) and Mariah McCafferty, (Surgical Nurse and AMS rep) , University of Utah

oldbeek
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby oldbeek » Wed Aug 07, 2019 3:18 pm

Lost Sheep wrote:
oldbeek wrote:Well, I had prostate cancer to get me this way. She likes it hard doesn't like the urine leakage. Nothing spontaneous. Get out a towel to absorb the leakage. Go piss and beat it on the counter to get every last drop out and now you are ready. Hope you guys never get pc.

Well, you can EMULATE spontaneity, can't you?

Just as an implant lets a man emulate a spontaneous erection (more or less), you could empty and dry your bladder and then approach your wife and let her FEEL as spontaneous as she can.

Always looking on the bright side.

Lost Sheep
Just pisses me off! We had a great sex life before RP. Had I been informed as I am now, I would have just left the cancer alone. Would have probably out lived it. Definitely wouldn't have had an RP.
78, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .08 11/18,.07 1/19,.05 4/19, .06 2/20 Pain with trimix, implant 4-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6 x 4.5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby tomas1 » Wed Aug 07, 2019 3:57 pm

My wife isn't very communicative about sex at all. Now, my driving is a different story but I digress.
I pump up every morning before she wakes up and when she feels it she says we can't do this every morning.
Somehow, she has done me 11 of the last 12 mornings. She claims to not like me to exert myself on golf days, but made an exception yesterday.
She has little staying power, but I hope that improves. She is only mini-orgasmic, but I can tell when it hits the spot.
So far I think the implant's a winner.
82 years
Inject testosterone weekly.
Got implant on 1/22/19 by Dr Avila.
Scrotal, horizontal incision just over 1"
18cm AMS 700 CX, 3.5cm RTE 100cc reservoir
Diagnosed with Gleason 6 prostate cancer. Monitoring it for now.

notaes
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Re: How well has your partner adapted to sex with your implant?

Postby notaes » Wed Aug 07, 2019 5:30 pm

I am 66 years old and beginning to experience some problems to the point I can see eventually not being able to have sex with my wife. I have read for years the benefits of having sex and what happens when you stop having intercourse. Sex has always been important to both of us. We are very sexual beings. My wife acts like she could do without sex and always says it’s not the most important thing. I agree it’s not the most important thing in a relationship but I can see what can happen when that closeness comes to an end. I have thought a lot about getting an implant when the time comes because I think it would help maintain our intimacy for years to come. Being able to fuck my wife just gives me something that I cannot get anywhere else...whereas not being able to fuck my wife doesn’t paint a very pretty picture for me. Honestly, I don’t think I would be a very happy or pleasant person to be around if I could not have sex. I need sex both physically and psychologically. I’m just being honest with myself and trying to see how I will react when I can’t get an erection an longer. My dad went through through this and I felt sorry for him. He just said that sex was longer an option for him. I understood what he was saying. I would really like to hear from anY guys who went through these feelings. I just think I would live a happier and longer life the longer I could fuck my wife. She is in much better shape than I am and loves sex. I want to fill her up as long as I possibly can!
66 yr old male married 36 yrs use trimix four yrs, cilais and Viagra. trimix work well developed scarring on both sides had implant 1/9/2020 at UT Med Ctr, Knoxville, TN Dr. John Lacy.


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