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Slavicguy123
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Blowjob

Postby Slavicguy123 » Mon Aug 05, 2019 11:08 am

Hello another specific question, before ed i could orgasm from blowjob easily, girl would slowly suck my penis and i would throb and throb and explode now i cant i need a clench pc muscles like craty to cum, what is case with implant, can you guys cum from taht slow build up blowjob?

Lost Sheep
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Re: Blowjob

Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Aug 05, 2019 12:04 pm

Every man is unique. Before ED, I could also orgasm easily. After ED I could still orgasm fairly easy with a partially erect, flaccid penis inside my lover's mouth, or with masturbation. By "partially erect, flaccid", I mean expanded (tumescent), but nowhere nearly rigid enough to penetrate a vagina. Barely stiff enough to stand up under its own weight. Maybe 40% erect. Probably more spongiosum tumescence than cavernosum.

After implant, it is more difficult to cum, I think because the nerves were traumatized by the surgery. No surgical error; such trauma is unavoidable. I am recovering my prior orgasmic function over time. Many men have written about this pheonomenon in past threads. I refer you to reading those threads.

If you will pardon an editorial comment (and I do not in any way fault you for being thorough in your thinking, investigation and concerns): These details you ask about are important, for sure. If they are more important than being able to get an erection (whether orgasmic or not), you may not be desperate enough for the drastic step of an implant. This is a personal observation that applies to me and may not be applicable to any other man on Earth. Being able to have coitus and be the instrument of my lover's orgasms by penis-in-vagina sex overwhelmed all other considerations, including being able to have my own orgasms, show an erection, nothing else mattered to me.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

Slavicguy123
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Re: Blowjob

Postby Slavicguy123 » Mon Aug 05, 2019 1:37 pm

Ey yeah its tough decision with trade offs, thanks for response,some people have same sensitivity before and after, and is your sensitivity improving?

mikestap
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Re: Blowjob

Postby mikestap » Mon Aug 05, 2019 1:40 pm

My doc's advice and my personal experience is that the more inflated I pump my dick, the longer I can last, or put another way, the harder it is to come. Prior to my implant, we engaged in a lot of oral for obvious reasons. I have found it is still pleasant with the implant, but I prefer only a little inflation. My Titan flaccid is more than a mouthful for my wife, and I like how I conform to her mouth and tongue.

A full inflation gives me a super hard erection; my staying power is amazing, and these circumstances are better for intercourse (which she absolutely loves) for us.

As Lost says, every man is unique. Enjoy learning what works for you.
64 Years. RALP 2013. Received 22cm Titan Dec 20, 2017 by Dr Hakky. See results at download/file.php?id=5320 and download/file.php?id=4754
Revision 3-25-21 24 cm XL No RTE

Lost Sheep
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Re: Blowjob

Postby Lost Sheep » Mon Aug 05, 2019 2:29 pm

Slavicguy123 wrote:Ey yeah its tough decision with trade offs, thanks for response,some people have same sensitivity before and after, and is your sensitivity improving?

Sensitivity was unchanged immediately post-op from what it was pre-op and has not changed in the 21 months since then. Ability to orgasm has changed. Immediately pre-op orgasm was easy. Immediately post-op, it was delayed considerably. in the 21 months since, orgasms have become easier and more frequent. Now, I orgasm almost every time we make love, though it still takes somewhat longer for me than it did pre-op. A happy outcome, since pre-op I very often orgasmed within a minute of insertion and now it can take as long as 5 or 10 minutes of of active coitus.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

Bandit
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Location: Rhode Island

Re: Blowjob

Postby Bandit » Mon Aug 05, 2019 2:51 pm

I agree with Mike. The harder my erection, the more difficult it is to cum. Blowjobs i dont always pump that hard but for intercourse i wanna be all i can be. So if i cant cum during intercourse, i let a little out and she finishes me off with some great head. Its kind of ironic that for years i couldnt get hard and now i get too hard !
Bandit
Born 1958, married. Prostate Cancer. RRP November/2014. PSA undetectable since. Implant May/2017 AMS700LGX 18 cm + 1.5 cm RTEs.

notaes
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Re: Blowjob

Postby notaes » Mon Aug 05, 2019 4:16 pm

I really do appreciate the frank an$ honest discussions here on Franktalk! I do not have an implant yet but am researching and trying to really make an informed decision when the time comes. Not doubt this forum is helping me do just that! I want to know everything from everybody who has had an implant. I saw my Urologist today and we touch on getting an implant when that time comes. I actually held both implants in my hands. I just want to thank everyone who has contributed in anyway to this forum as really helps guys like me who wants to know everything there is to know regarding getting an implant. I don’t think it’s possible to ask our doctors everything but this forum really fills in the gaps. Again thank you guys!
66 yr old male married 36 yrs use trimix four yrs, cilais and Viagra. trimix work well developed scarring on both sides had implant 1/9/2020 at UT Med Ctr, Knoxville, TN Dr. John Lacy.

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Re: Blowjob

Postby David_R » Mon Aug 05, 2019 10:05 pm

My orgasms -- the feeling as well as what "works" to bring me to that point -- are the same with an implant as they were before. My implant didn't change anything for me related to orgasm or sensitivity or anything. It just makes my dick hard. :D


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