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Having had ED for so long & couldn’t get erection my wife’s gotten extremely tight over the last several years. Any of you guys had a similar experience? Tried various lubricants, but they don’t help expand the vagina. She talked to her doctor and they said they might help with a procedure that isn’t covered by insurance. Have thought about trying the silicone dialators I saw on Amazon prior to the procedure the doctor suggested. Any ideas would be appreciated.

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Just a thought. It would seem to me that you are packing a variable dialator in your pants. Could you just inflate enough to allow penetration? Have sex a few weeks with a soft semi. As her comfort level improves, add a few pumps. Playing doctor using this method might be fun & accomplish her expansion. Almost like being teenagers again.

My wife has used novelty dildos in varying sizes in the past with some success. A set of "trainers" would probably work even better.

I found an abstract of an artivle that may be of some interest: Women’s experiences of using vaginal trainers (dilators) to treat vaginal penetration difficulties diagnosed as vaginismus: a qualitative interview study https://bmcwomenshealth.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12905-015-0201-6

Another site and article that may be of interest: Vaginal dilation: When it’s indicated and tips on teaching it: https://www.mdedge.com/obgyn/article/64957/menopause/vaginal-dilation-when-its-indicated-and-tips-teaching-it

Some options:

Medical (Maybe)

https://vaginismus.com/products/vaginal-trainer-set/?gclid=CjwKCAjw7O_pBRA3EiwA_lmtfgzgpp4iPsJTBlugm7HW-o-S3dQzRGAxCFxULY-yUdM-ZCGe3WrGnBoCAgAQAvD_BwE

https://biomoimedical.com/products/

Novelty

Well a bazillion on Amazon and found on Google.

I'm sorry I don't really have any good advice.
Good luck, I wish you both great success and happiness.

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