First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

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tomas1
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby tomas1 » Sat Jul 20, 2019 4:59 pm

jump.ship wrote:You mention you have a 15cm implant but don't mention RTEs. If you are experiencing lack of rigidity at the base I am going to assume you have a long RTE?


That's my problem. My wife doesn't quite understand it.
I tell her it only has one eye and it's usually closed.
85 years
Inject testosterone weekly.
Implant on 1/22/19 by Dr Avila.
Scrotal, hor. incision just over 1"
18cm AMS 700 CX, 3.5cm RTE 100cc res
Gleason 6 prostate cancer. Monitoring it for now.
Update: On my last biopsies the cancer wasn't found.

Evinrude
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby Evinrude » Sat Jul 20, 2019 6:04 pm

OMG.... this afternoon more sex, this time in the boat at anchor.. Pumped it more...helped with the problem...hurt a little with her on top, didn't hurt at all with me standing, her laying at edge of bed...orgasm's all around...this is going to be so great !! Esp when all pain is gone....thanks guys ! :mrgreen:

As an aside, is the penile implant the greatest invention for "man" kind or what ?? :idea:
Last edited by Evinrude on Sat Jul 20, 2019 6:08 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Age 68, widower in 2017, remarried 2019. Viagra worked at first but less and less so as time went on. Never tried injections. AMS 700 LGX 15cm (2cm RTE) Implant 6/19/19 Broderick @ Mayo C. JAX.

gene308
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby gene308 » Sat Jul 20, 2019 6:07 pm

I have also encountered this issue. The geometry is different. Before the implant I pointed upwards, now I point straight out at 3:00. This seems to change the angle of entry and the upward or downward pressure the penis exerts in the vagina. It is even more noticeable when my wife is on top.

We are trying different approaches. One that seems to help is to not pump up the implant as hard as we have been. We are experimenting with changing the geometry such as using a pillow between us to change the angle of our bodies. In some ways it is similar to being newly married, We are experimenting like teenagers. My only worry is my body is not as flexible as I once was, I found our copy of the Kama Sutra,,, there has to be at least one position that doesn't twist us like a pretzel :lol:
Gene308 married 43 years AMS 700 CX 21cm+2cm Implanted 10/04/2018 Dr James Hotaling (surgeon) and Mariah McCafferty, (Surgical Nurse and AMS rep) , University of Utah

Gt1956
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby Gt1956 » Sat Jul 20, 2019 6:19 pm

Evinrude wrote:OMG.... this afternoon more sex, this time in the boat at anchor.. Pumped it more...helped with the problem...hurt a little with her on top, didn't hurt at all with me standing, her laying at edge of bed...orgasm's all around...this is going to be so great !! Esp when all pain is gone....thanks guys ! :mrgreen:

As an aside, is the penile implant the greatest invention for "man" kind or what ?? :idea:

Quiet or everyone will want one. :D
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby oldbeek » Sun Jul 21, 2019 1:48 am

jump.ship wrote:
oldbeek wrote:Pump it till it feels hard and does not buckle. RTEs,, Talk here about RTEs not being stable. (bullshit) The rte snaps onto the implant and is very stable. I have a deep cruse. 3 inch deep. It is filled with a 5cm of RTEs. I stick straight out at 2;30 position and can hange a bath towel on it.


If that is your experience, then great!

But the reality is, RTEs do reduce rigidity:

https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/29884443

That is a study of a Coloplast implant. Not an AMS 700lgx
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20

merrix
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby merrix » Sun Jul 21, 2019 2:24 am

oldbeek wrote: That is a study of a Coloplast implant. Not an AMS 700lgx



And if it was AMS it would probably be an even worse outcome.
It loses rigidity not because the RTEs themselves bend. But because the RTEs have a looser fit in the cruse. And AMS RTEs are thinner than Titan RTEs.
So if Titan loses rigidity with RTEs, it is fair to assume AMS loses even more.
Another reason is that the weak link, where the implant tends to kink, is at the junction between the fixed and the inflatable parts. And with RTEs, this point is pushed further out and that makes it easier to bend.

An experienced surgeon will always minimize usage of RTEs. Of course there can be issues with an individual which requires its usage. But in principal, with all else being equal, the more the RTEs the worse the erection. Especially a few years down the road after surgery.

On the other hand, minimizing RTEs is optimizing. Getting an implant in the first place is replacing. And replacing a limp dick with a hard dick, replacing no sex with sex whenever you want, is a hell of a bigger accomplishment than having a bit more hardness and low-flex at the base than something that already works great.
43 yo, ED forever from VL
Fit and active
Implanted December 2015
Titan XL 24 cm, no RTEs
Dr. Eid
Activated day 13
Sex after 3 weeks
Gained length and girth
So far It works perfectly
Only one advice: Find a world class surgeon

SW0110
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby SW0110 » Sun Jul 21, 2019 9:52 am

Most definitely agree. Sex anytime, anywhere, and now pretty much any position since this thing is softening up a bit and can maneuver it better now.

There might be some downsides to an implant, but when I pump up and we get naked, i could not remember one of them. And this would be without having any bourbon before. Although tequila makes her crazy sexy. After the last time in pool we just decided to be more careful imbibing and pumping up. Neither of us want to damage this thing. And is nice to remember what you did.

But hey at 58, we can still go at it for hours and hours. The soreness after just seems to last longer.
18 cm plus 1 rte titan installed March 2019. Revision March 2020 by Dr. Andrew Todd, Richmond KY. He replaced the titan with an AMS 700 LGX 18 cm cylinder plus 2 rte for 20 cm total length.

Gt1956
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby Gt1956 » Sun Jul 21, 2019 12:47 pm

As for RTE's. My guess is that the body will gradually fill in any potential loose ares. In essence gripping the RTE's.
68yo, HBP at 40, high triglycerides at 45. Phimosis at 57. Type 2 at 60. Dr. William Brant May 1, 2023 CX 21cm w/no rte's penoscrotal 6" girth @ 6 months

oldbeek
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Re: First sex since implant... unexpected problem...

Postby oldbeek » Sun Jul 21, 2019 8:47 pm

Gt1956 wrote:As for RTE's. My guess is that the body will gradually fill in any potential loose ares. In essence gripping the RTE's.
Agree. My surgeon has been installing implants for 30 years and was high volume. He was the go to guy in LA when you got a screw up. He used RTEs. We will see in a few years I guess.
82, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .07 1/19,.05 4/19, .03 11-21, .04 11-23, implanted 4-1-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd and Dr Loh Doyle 6.5 x 5, 800 AUS 7-21-20


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