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Another issue

I am 3 weeks this week -

My bulge is too obvious - especially in suit pants

Has a slight curve left and 5oclock

How can I wear swimsuit around kids and wear suit normally again ?

Pls don’t say “That’s great”. Their are practical issues as discussed that’s not great. Not always in bed or with women who drool - lol

Advice pls...

Craig,

If you read some of my posts from just after surgery I had the same concerns as you and asked the same questions. The bulge felt too prominent and too erect, which it was because of the swelling and bruising just a few weeks out. You are still swollen, there is excess fluid in the penis, and the implant can't be made completely flaccid yet because you can't squeeze the shaft hard enough due to pain. You need to be patient and give things time to settle down and your body recover.

I can tell you that I have a perfectly acceptable flaccid now, hangs down about 5:30, and no issues wearing whatever clothing or swimsuits I want.
If you really need to be discreet you can use these swimmer's jockstraps that can fit under other clothing or swimsuits. https://smile.amazon.com/dp/B06XXY9W2P/ref=cm_sw_em_r_mt_dp_U_w7xeDbVRYTQFD

yes, agree with warren, now that i have become really good at fully deflating, i have a flacid that hangs down nicely, and suit pants are just not a problem.

Being the oldest and boldest teenager around where I live, I revel in having a prominent flaccid in my skinnies. I swim train 3 times a week and it’s pointless trying to hide the fact I have a fat, 6.5” soft cock tucked down and slightly left.
Some guys are born with big cocks and some of us are fortunate to be able to remedy having a dead dick by being implanted .......time to celebrate - no shame from where I stand

Craigg,
I am almost 10 months post implant and I still have a same problem.
My bone dry deflated implant does not go down past 4:30 and still sticking out way more the I would ever want. It is hard to hide it especially while wearing scrubs, suits, swimming shorts etc.
I like my implant but I hate how it looks flaccid. Now, after 10 months, I don’t expect any more improvement to happen especially in flaccid being more flaccid. I had Titan and Titan cylinders are made from strong material and are extremely hard to break then in.
MK

craig45nj wrote:Another issue

I am 3 weeks this week -

My bulge is too obvious - especially in suit pants

Has a slight curve left and 5oclock

How can I wear swimsuit around kids and wear suit normally again ?

Pls don’t say “That’s great”. Their are practical issues as discussed that’s not great. Not always in bed or with women who drool - lol

Advice pls...

Craig, I get your concern. I was a grower not a shower prior to my implant. I'm also a dentist so yeah the change was a big concern. It took time for the swelling to go down and for my mind to realize that the only people who may thin differently (ie that guy has a semi hard on) are those who knew you before the implant. I was so worried about it the show difference because it was SO NEW TO ME. It will take time but yes, your new normal becomes NORMAL, and those that you first meet just think damn that guy has a big dick. My wife and I went out about 3 weeks after my surgery and I had on my old Levis and yeah my bulge showed and my wife noticed others looking at it. That gave us opportunity to communicate and talk. Now those old Levis have been replaced for Duluth Trading ball room jeans because they are just WAY MORE comfortable. The swimsuit issue is very similar thou can't speak much to it as a nudist but there is a whole new discussion. LOL. It will get better the longer you are away from the surgical date. Don't fret what others think because you can't control their thoughts only yours.
Bumble

What’s the problem?
Let them think you are hung like a race horse?
Hope you are happy with implant.
Best wishes
Bond

I am not implanted and get told quit often by my GF that you can see my penis through my pants. She likes it but she doesnt like that all the girls I work with can tell too. If only the thing would work!

Eventually you will stop caring, and even get to a point where you like that it looks so big. If not, just make sure to where tighter compression underwear - find some under armour ones or something.

craig45nj wrote:Another issue

I am 3 weeks this week -

My bulge is too obvious - especially in suit pants

Has a slight curve left and 5oclock

How can I wear swimsuit around kids and wear suit normally again ?

Pls don’t say “That’s great”. Their are practical issues as discussed that’s not great. Not always in bed or with women who drool - lol

Advice pls...

What are your dimensions? If your penis is not too long to wear pointed up, briefs that keep you there should work. Athletic supporter (jock strap) worked for me for about a month until the excess fluid was mostly gone (though, in the early days I had gauze padding that presented its own bulge, but I wasn't going out at that time).

Do a search on this forum for the words "underwear" or "bulge" and find some threads wherein many suggestions can be found.

Many men have found that it takes a year or two for the Titan to get loose enough to hang (more or less) naturally (or maybe they just get used to their "new normal").

Take heart. This too, shall pass.


edited to add links to just a few of the threads that suggest solutions
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=12098
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7178
viewtopic.php?f=6&t=11766

If you're like me and have teen aged daughters and their friends around, you don't want to look creepy all of a sudden. I use a Speedo swim brief under my trunks and that helps tame my now bigger flaccid while at the pool. It's still gonna be more noticeable but the Speedo keeps everything under control. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000Y ... UTF8&psc=1