Some Progress Some Problems
Some Progress Some Problems
The pump is slowly softening but I have a new problem. My wife and I both gained weight and had knee replacements since we last had sex. We're not as agile as we once were and are having a difficult time finding a position that works. I think another issue that may be making this difficult is that it's only been 5 weeks and I don't have full sensitivity back and I don't realize I'm as far in. She says she feels penetration but it doesn't seem as much to me. She has given me blow jobs and I could feel them. I was over 6.5 in before hard and measure 5.5 now . Looking at it with my big gut it looks so small now .
Last edited by chonky on Tue May 14, 2019 10:39 pm, edited 1 time in total.
65 Periodic ED since 20's due to venous leakage. Pills stopped working . Implanted 3/2012 removed 6/2012 in a"WTF Moment" after several complications. Re-implanted 4/5/19 AMS 700CX
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Re: Some Progres Some Problems
I had a girlfriend once who claimed that sex was good exercise for losing weight.
She was skinny as a rail. The rest of the story is not pretty.
Having said that, we (not the same girlfriend as above, but my current squeeze) found one position that puts no strain on knees or back.
She has knee and weight issues, as well that limit our choices of positions.
She lays on her back, with knees up in the air and slightly spread. (her spine parallel to the centerline of the bed)
I lay on my side at 90 degrees to her with my hips/penis against her bottom. (my spine at 80 to 90 degrees to the centerline of the bed)
My downside leg straight, my up-side leg between her legs, my knee bent. My knee up near her breastbone where she can wrap her arms around my knee/thigh for leverage.
Her legs can drape over my hip and down-side leg and be quite relaxed and comfortable.
My penis, of course, is inside her vagina. We cannot kiss in this position, but I can stimulate her breasts, one arm and her belly.
We can maintain that position indefinitely (or at least until my hip begins to feel too much pressure from the bed).
We have even drifted off to sleep joined in that fashion, to continue coitus as we awaken. Afterplay blending into foreplay over and over.
Good luck.
She was skinny as a rail. The rest of the story is not pretty.
Having said that, we (not the same girlfriend as above, but my current squeeze) found one position that puts no strain on knees or back.
She has knee and weight issues, as well that limit our choices of positions.
She lays on her back, with knees up in the air and slightly spread. (her spine parallel to the centerline of the bed)
I lay on my side at 90 degrees to her with my hips/penis against her bottom. (my spine at 80 to 90 degrees to the centerline of the bed)
My downside leg straight, my up-side leg between her legs, my knee bent. My knee up near her breastbone where she can wrap her arms around my knee/thigh for leverage.
Her legs can drape over my hip and down-side leg and be quite relaxed and comfortable.
My penis, of course, is inside her vagina. We cannot kiss in this position, but I can stimulate her breasts, one arm and her belly.
We can maintain that position indefinitely (or at least until my hip begins to feel too much pressure from the bed).
We have even drifted off to sleep joined in that fashion, to continue coitus as we awaken. Afterplay blending into foreplay over and over.
Good luck.
Lost Sheep
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Re: Some Progres Some Problems
Lost Sheep, sounds complicated - what about some photos of you and your lady in action?
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Living in Freiburg, Germany
08/2015 Titan Zero Degree 22 cm + 3 cm RTE
Dr. Leiber, Freiburg, Germany
6.5" x 5.7" - Very happy with implant
Living in Freiburg, Germany
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strongagain wrote:Lost Sheep, sounds complicated - what about some photos of you and your lady in action?
Sorry, I cannot hold the camera still with all that squirming going on.
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter
Re: Some Progress Some Problems
iPhone has delay setting......put it on a chair, smile and let nature take its course.......
68,Titan Touch 22cm+1.5cm rte's op done in Melbourne Aust by Dr Chris Love-Feb 2017 Venous leakage over a 2 year period, did pills and Caverject. Length@ 3 1/2years is: 7+” erect, 6.5” flaccid and almost 6” girth. REZUM Feb 21 ejaculation now normal.
Re: Some Progress Some Problems
chonky wrote:The pump is slowly softening but I have a new problem. My wife and I both gained weight and had knee replacements since we last had sex. We're not as agile as we once were and are having a difficult time finding a position that works. I think another issue that may be making this difficult is that it's only been 5 weeks and I don't have full sensitivity back and I don't realize I'm as far in. She says she feels penetration but it doesn't seem as much to me. She has given me blow jobs and I could feel them. I was over 6.5 in before hard and measure 5.5 now . Looking at it with my big gut it looks so small now .
OK, try this... you stand on the floor and have your wife bring her butt right to the edge of the bed. Now, you can put her legs one on each shoulder or you can hold them our or a combination. Who was your doctor.
Larry
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Re: Some Progress Some Problems
Try crossing her legs in front of your chest hold her legs push back and you will get a hell of lot more penetration
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Re: Some Progress Some Problems
[quote][/quote]OK, try this... you stand on the floor and have your wife bring her butt right to the edge of the bed. Now, you can put her legs one on each shoulder or you can hold them our or a combination. Who was your doctor.
Dr. Rosilko in Pittsburgh did it, Dr. Jaffe did the first. We did that position with penitration. I think my lack of sensitivity was the problem there ,it didn't feel like I was in very far but my wife said I was .
Dr. Rosilko in Pittsburgh did it, Dr. Jaffe did the first. We did that position with penitration. I think my lack of sensitivity was the problem there ,it didn't feel like I was in very far but my wife said I was .
65 Periodic ED since 20's due to venous leakage. Pills stopped working . Implanted 3/2012 removed 6/2012 in a"WTF Moment" after several complications. Re-implanted 4/5/19 AMS 700CX
Re: Some Progress Some Problems
chonky wrote:OK, try this... you stand on the floor and have your wife bring her butt right to the edge of the bed. Now, you can put her legs one on each shoulder or you can hold them our or a combination. Who was your doctor.
Dr. Rosilko in Pittsburgh did it, Dr. Jaffe did the first. We did that position with penitration. I think my lack of sensitivity was the problem there ,it didn't feel like I was in very far but my wife said I was .
How long had you had the implant when you tried that position. I had the same problem at first but a few months later, I had some nerve rejuvenation and it was better. Ya, know, strange as it may seem, try google.com... they have everything there. Just don't be too detailed in your search.
Latty
Re: Some Progress Some Problems
chonky wrote:OK, try this... you stand on the floor and have your wife bring her butt right to the edge of the bed. Now, you can put her legs one on each shoulder or you can hold them our or a combination. Who was your doctor.
Dr. Rosilko in Pittsburgh did it, Dr. Jaffe did the first. We did that position with penitration. I think my lack of sensitivity was the problem there ,it didn't feel like I was in very far but my wife said I was .
How long had you had the implant when you tried that position. I had the same problem at first but a few months later, I had some nerve rejuvenation and it was better. Ya, know, strange as it may seem, try google.com... they have everything there. Just don't be too detailed in your search. I just tried sex positions for fat people and got this. (Don't take offence, I am rather fluffy myself and if I try to be too politically sensitive in my search, I won't get much.
Larry
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