Staying Focused after Implant

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clayton2526
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Staying Focused after Implant

Postby clayton2526 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 11:00 am

Bionic Brothers,
Just a note hear, it's like women can sense your confidence. I'm 9 weeks out and getting all these flirtatious offers! I am not a handy man, but all of a sudden women asking if I can assist with little broken things around the house: doorbells, leaks, sinks, etc, This is very hard! Yes, I am married, but this is difficult to fight! And I'm not at full potential, yet!!!

Any suggestions Brothers?
63 years old. Implanted 12/04/2018 by Dr. Aaron Lentz at Duke Raleigh Hospital with Coloplast Titan 22 cm. ED for over 30 years. Used Viagra and Cialis, later injections, THEN Gainswave: ineffective.

Lost Sheep
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby Lost Sheep » Thu Feb 14, 2019 1:38 pm

As one who has seldom ever attracted the attentions of women, I can advise you to do what I have figured out is my "wall". Maintain a professional attitude of aloofness. Insulating oneself against temptation makes one's home life a lot more comfortable and easier for you (and for your wife).

As one who has successfully avoided the institution of marriage for over 50 years, I feel qualified now to give advice to anyone on the subject. ;)
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

clayton2526
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby clayton2526 » Thu Feb 14, 2019 5:31 pm

Thanks Lost Sheep! I needed that!
63 years old. Implanted 12/04/2018 by Dr. Aaron Lentz at Duke Raleigh Hospital with Coloplast Titan 22 cm. ED for over 30 years. Used Viagra and Cialis, later injections, THEN Gainswave: ineffective.

3rd-Nut
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby 3rd-Nut » Fri Feb 15, 2019 2:23 am

Clayton,
I read your post and then your Bio. I think the problem is that your pants are too tight or loose letting that Titan slither down your leg. Seriously!

This past summer I was in the hospital for surgery on my back. I was catheterized several times. The hospital must have had problems with catheter caused bladder infections because the newer nurses( not the 2 assigned to my room) were assigned to come in and clean my penis with a nice warm wipe. They would pull down the foreskin and wipe around the penis head and catheter every hour or two it seemed. One came back after about 20 min. saying she was going check it one more time before she finished her shift. But for several hours after the catheter was removed, my gown was left open. Any nurse that walked in got a good look at my 5 1/2- 6 in. chubby in full view. When I had to get up to take a pee, the nurses wanted make sure they measured the volume in the handheld urinal before it was dumped in the toilet. But what I thought was unusual was that they always wanted to watch the process, i.e. my penis. I would turn my back on them to pee in the urinal and they would still come around in front of me to get a good look. For some reason it usually took 2 of them to monitor my urination. I have to say I have never been treated so well by nurses. I was there 4 days with very attentive nurses. I can say that I had quite an ego boost that young women would be ……. ……. for a man of my age.

So be careful of the style of pants you are wearing in front of the ladies.
PC 2006, AMS 700 LGX implanted 18+3, 2012, Dr. Paolone in Madison, WI- Married 47 yrs.

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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby David_R » Fri Feb 15, 2019 7:39 am

3rd-Nut wrote:They would pull down the foreskin and wipe around the penis head and catheter every hour or two it seemed. One came back after about 20 min. saying she was going check it one more time before she finished her shift. But for several hours after the catheter was removed, my gown was left open. Any nurse that walked in got a good look at my 5 1/2- 6 in. chubby in full view. When I had to get up to take a pee, the nurses wanted make sure they measured the volume in the handheld urinal before it was dumped in the toilet. But what I thought was unusual was that they always wanted to watch the process, i.e. my penis.

Depending on where you lived, seeing a man with a foreskin may have been interesting to them. And when they skinned it back and wiped around the penis head, their seeing you getting a nice chubby might have also been something "nice" for them to see. And watching you so closely every time you peed -- in my opinion -- verges on fascination. Congrats on being such a "fascinating penis" kind of guy! ;)

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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby Lost Sheep » Fri Feb 15, 2019 2:05 pm

David_R wrote:verges on fascination. Congrats on being such a "fascinating penis" kind of guy! ;)

Look up the pagan deity, "Fascinus"
Lost Sheep
AMS LGX 18+3 Nov 6, 2017
Prostate Cancer 2023
READ OLD THREADS-ask better questions -better understand answers
Be part of your medical team
Document pre-op size-photos and written records
Pre-op VED therapy helps. Post-op is another matter

3rd-Nut
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby 3rd-Nut » Sat Feb 16, 2019 12:28 am

David_R wrote:
3rd-Nut wrote:They would pull down the foreskin and wipe around the penis head and catheter every hour or two it seemed. One came back after about 20 min. saying she was going check it one more time before she finished her shift. But for several hours after the catheter was removed, my gown was left open. Any nurse that walked in got a good look at my 5 1/2- 6 in. chubby in full view. When I had to get up to take a pee, the nurses wanted make sure they measured the volume in the handheld urinal before it was dumped in the toilet. But what I thought was unusual was that they always wanted to watch the process, i.e. my penis.

Depending on where you lived, seeing a man with a foreskin may have been interesting to them. And when they skinned it back and wiped around the penis head, their seeing you getting a nice chubby might have also been something "nice" for them to see. And watching you so closely every time you peed -- in my opinion -- verges on fascination. Congrats on being such a "fascinating penis" kind of guy! ;)


You are correct about the location part... I live in an area where what I believe is probably at least 50/50 have foreskin and my foreskin covers only less than half the head. So I don't think that was it. My chubby was only from the implant, other than that I have a pretty normal straight penis, but the flaccid state is good sized. It definitely would not have looked like that without the implant.
Fascination is probably a good word to describe their interest.
PC 2006, AMS 700 LGX implanted 18+3, 2012, Dr. Paolone in Madison, WI- Married 47 yrs.

3rd-Nut
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby 3rd-Nut » Sat Feb 16, 2019 12:32 am

clayton2526 wrote:Bionic Brothers,
Just a note hear, it's like women can sense your confidence. I'm 9 weeks out and getting all these flirtatious offers! I am not a handy man, but all of a sudden women asking if I can assist with little broken things around the house: doorbells, leaks, sinks, etc, This is very hard! Yes, I am married, but this is difficult to fight! And I'm not at full potential, yet!!!

Any suggestions Brothers?



Clayton
Where are these women around you? Are you in an apartment building?
PC 2006, AMS 700 LGX implanted 18+3, 2012, Dr. Paolone in Madison, WI- Married 47 yrs.

clayton2526
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby clayton2526 » Sat Feb 16, 2019 12:23 pm

3rd-Nut wrote:
clayton2526 wrote:Bionic Brothers,
Just a note hear, it's like women can sense your confidence. I'm 9 weeks out and getting all these flirtatious offers! I am not a handy man, but all of a sudden women asking if I can assist with little broken things around the house: doorbells, leaks, sinks, etc, This is very hard! Yes, I am married, but this is difficult to fight! And I'm not at full potential, yet!!!

Any suggestions Brothers?



Clayton
Where are these women around you? Are you in an apartment building?


I'm a state employee with an approximate female/male ratio of 7 to 1 in the department. I won't say which department. And, I'm management, so I must be extra careful. Truth is, I am not looking to be unfaithful, it's just very challenging. The women 55+ are very open, whether attached or not.
63 years old. Implanted 12/04/2018 by Dr. Aaron Lentz at Duke Raleigh Hospital with Coloplast Titan 22 cm. ED for over 30 years. Used Viagra and Cialis, later injections, THEN Gainswave: ineffective.

3rd-Nut
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Re: Staying Focused after Implant

Postby 3rd-Nut » Sun Feb 17, 2019 3:13 am

Clayton,
Women are getting very bold.
I am surprised that they were asking you to come to their home be the fix-it man. Do they know that you have an implant? Maybe the word got out???

No one knows about my implant, certainly the nurses don't know because it is not on my med records at that hospital.
The nurses that took care of me in the hospital did what they did while my wife was in the room. When I mentioned to her the goings on with the nurses, she just casually said, "Well Honey you have an implant." meaning you are a big shower now. That was the first time she has ever made a comment about my flaccid size.
PC 2006, AMS 700 LGX implanted 18+3, 2012, Dr. Paolone in Madison, WI- Married 47 yrs.


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