An Amusing Tale

[defiant]

In recent months, the one thing that was keeping me from getting an implant was a casual FWB situation I had going on with a colleague of mine. She made it clear that it was just casual and that it wouldn't go anywhere because she wasn't after that and to be honest, nor was I. Not with this girl anyway, despite her being 13 years my junior and extremely sexy.

We'd had sex a number of times and she knew about my ED. However, most of the times we had sex, it was great and I was able to complete and so was she. She was an extremely experienced nymphomaniac who loved sex and even told me I was one of her best. How much truth lie in that, I'll never know. But there has always been a very high degree of anxiety (the cause of my chronic ED) each time we had sex. Indeed, the mere thought of sex 50% turns me on but 50% scares the hell out of me now. And I'm now absolutely and wholly dependent upon cialis, which loses effect more and more.

Anyway, last week, she came over and she was noticeably down, in a bad place. My anxiety was through the roof. The situation and bad vibe was palpable. We started making out but I just wasn't getting hard and it was just one level of anxiety to the next. Eventually I did become aroused but only 75% or so. We had sex and it was over in a minute or two. Just because I felt the need to 'get it done'.

After the sex, with my head hung in shame, she was consoling me and assuring me it wasn't bad. At which point she said, "hey, what do you think of this?" - at which point she raised her arms and showed me full on armpit growth. It was substantial! And I was in shock. But I did my utmost to give complimentary comments. But I must say, I was genuinely repulsed.

And that made me think - If I feel this disgusted by this, how fair is it of me to expect women not to find a potential implant of mine gross? Of course, I do not think they are gross at all but you might see my rationale?

Anyway, I'm 35, single and my anxiety-complex induced ED, which I've had for over 13 years which gets worse by the year is preventing me from moving forward with my life. In some ways I view this kind of ED as perhaps the worst; knowing that your plumbing is working as nature intended but your brain and the messages it's sending are corrupted to hell. It makes making the decision as to whether or not to get the implant almost impossible.

And at 35, as someone here mentioned recently. I fear all the replacements that will be needed taking their toll and at least one going wrong.

I couldn't be more stuck. But I thought I'd share my little anecdote.

[mr.skin]

Well, there most probably will be women who will find your implant gross / an unconditional turn off etc.

And it is their good right to do so. We can not tell anyone what or who to like. And I do not judge them for that.

But I guess the more normal it gets for you, the less of a deal it will be for the other person.

Nonetheless I'd always try to hide it the first (few) time(s).

[Smetro]

Non issue.
It’s easy to conceal if one wishes to do so....or not.
Just be honest and proud of having a supercock that delivers and be upfront. Women are generally very sympathetic creatures.
As for being young and needing revisions it would seem each revision means a slightly longer implant.......how can that be bad?
Always look on the bright side eh?

[tomas1]

I thought the punch line was going to when she said "have you ever considered an implant"?

Since you have little interest in a long-term-relationship with her, you should have told her your potential plan.

[Lost Sheep]

Before weighing in with an opinion/answer to your question, I would like to know more about your relationship.

Is her armpit hair new? If nto new, how is it you had not explored her body enough to have known before? If new, what prompted her "gardening". What was she REALLY asking you? Has she had a life change or some crisis? Does she keep/remove other body hair?

Many societies around the world have different conventions around body hair, particularly the removal of women's and the retention of men's. Is that a factor?

[DougAnd]

I think we have discussed to tell or not to tell before. The truth eventually comes out. It does narrow down your field of choices. But at least you will have a choice.

[Larry10625]

In recent months, the one thing that was keeping me from getting an implant was a casual FWB situation I had going on with a colleague of mine. She made it clear that it was just casual and that it wouldn't go anywhere because she wasn't after that and to be honest, nor was I. Not with this girl anyway, despite her being 13 years my junior and extremely sexy.

We'd had sex a number of times and she knew about my ED. However, most of the times we had sex, it was great and I was able to complete and so was she. She was an extremely experienced nymphomaniac who loved sex and even told me I was one of her best. How much truth lie in that, I'll never know. But there has always been a very high degree of anxiety (the cause of my chronic ED) each time we had sex. Indeed, the mere thought of sex 50% turns me on but 50% scares the hell out of me now. And I'm now absolutely and wholly dependent upon cialis, which loses effect more and more.

Anyway, last week, she came over and she was noticeably down, in a bad place. My anxiety was through the roof. The situation and bad vibe was palpable. We started making out but I just wasn't getting hard and it was just one level of anxiety to the next. Eventually I did become aroused but only 75% or so. We had sex and it was over in a minute or two. Just because I felt the need to 'get it done'.

After the sex, with my head hung in shame, she was consoling me and assuring me it wasn't bad. At which point she said, "hey, what do you think of this?" - at which point she raised her arms and showed me full on armpit growth. It was substantial! And I was in shock. But I did my utmost to give complimentary comments. But I must say, I was genuinely repulsed.

And that made me think - If I feel this disgusted by this, how fair is it of me to expect women not to find a potential implant of mine gross? Of course, I do not think they are gross at all but you might see my rationale?

Anyway, I'm 35, single and my anxiety-complex induced ED, which I've had for over 13 years which gets worse by the year is preventing me from moving forward with my life. In some ways I view this kind of ED as perhaps the worst; knowing that your plumbing is working as nature intended but your brain and the messages it's sending are corrupted to hell. It makes making the decision as to whether or not to get the implant almost impossible.

And at 35, as someone here mentioned recently. I fear all the replacements that will be needed taking their toll and at least one going wrong.

I couldn't be more stuck. But I thought I'd share my little anecdote.

Yeah, but, you are not comparing apples to apples... personal hygiene vs a prosthesis is not even a close comparison.

Larry

[robertm]

Their are women who find some penises gross, even if they are fully functional and don't have an implant. I know one woman who is repulsed by an uncircumcised penis. To each his own. There's someone out there for you.

[justanotherdrumber]

Before weighing in with an opinion/answer to your question, I would like to know more about your relationship.

Is her armpit hair new? If nto new, how is it you had not explored her body enough to have known before? If new, what prompted her "gardening". What was she REALLY asking you? Has she had a life change or some crisis? Does she keep/remove other body hair?

Many societies around the world have different conventions around body hair, particularly the removal of women's and the retention of men's. Is that a factor?

In some countries like around Europe I believe, they find it strange when some women shave underarm hair.

Underarm hair is simply viewed as "Natural".

It's all a matter of perspective.

Some men even find armpit hair on women ~H~0~T~ as a fetish !

https://www.google.com/url?q=https://ww ... hpdritoz-8

http://mentalfloss.com/article/22511/wh ... their-pits
In the US

..... or she could be a feminist.

Most women appreciate a hard dick !

It reminds me of the old FTD commercial slogan: [ Floral Telegraph Delivery]

"When you care enough to send her the very Best !"

A Firm Thick Dick... !