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I'm most likely will be getting an implant. Thank God for this site. I wanted to get some feed back from some of you single guys and what you went through and have experienced in the dating world. I You see a lot of the guys on here are and have been married for years. They have a wife who knows what's going on. In many cases wanted there man to get one.So having sex there is no surprise about your implant or what you have to do to pump it up. But being single is a little different situation. Being new to a possible implant I'm very nervous, scared and discrete about my implant(TBA). There is a time and place for everything and to tell them what you have or why your pumping it up. Sometimes its not the right time, and you don't want to tell her right away. I do not want to freak her out. There are a lot of other guys she most likely could be with. Soooo what do you do? How do you have a normal dating life? I realize the whole foreplay game will change. It wont get up by its self anymore....it will need help. Id like to get some feed back on the dating game with you single guys that have an implant. I don't want this to be a turn off

I understand your concerns. I’ll make it short and sweet. You’ll get far more women with an implant than with a limp dick.

I posted on a dating site that I was impotent and seeking a lab partner to help me through the implant process.

I got several inquiries and a few offers to help. Almost all were supportive and sympathetic.

But it was not the prospect of good sex that attracted the women. It was the language I used. I promised good sex, sure, but also that I valued kindness, considered the women to be persons first and lab partners second, and my post was regarded as sincere.

Honesty and forthrightness (and some commented on the bravery of being frank right up front) was what attracted them.

Every woman I have slept with since my implant has known BEFORE I EVER MET her that I was implanted.

Having said that, I feel compelled to point out that it is NOT THE IMPLANT that got them into bed with me. We exchanged emails, talked on the phone, dated. The usual progression.

Most women make love, not sex, and their attention is focused on the MAN, not the penis. Of course a penis that works overtime is icing on the cake.

see this thread for more men's takes on the question.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7166&start=30

ED2013 wrote:I understand your concerns. I’ll make it short and sweet. You’ll get far more women with an implant than with a limp dick.

Yes you right...there is no question that Ill be getting one. I was just questioning about the dating life

Lost Sheep wrote:I posted on a dating site that I was impotent and seeking a lab partner to help me through the implant process.

I got several inquiries and a few offers to help. Almost all were supportive and sympathetic.

But it was not the prospect of good sex that attracted the women. It was the language I used. I promised good sex, sure, but also that I valued kindness, considered the women to be persons first and lab partners second, and my post was regarded as sincere.

Honesty and forthrightness (and some commented on the bravery of being frank right up front) was what attracted them.

Every woman I have slept with since my implant has known BEFORE I EVER MET her that I was implanted.

Having said that, I feel compelled to point out that it is NOT THE IMPLANT that got them into bed with me. We exchanged emails, talked on the phone, dated. The usual progression.

Most women make love, not sex, and their attention is focused on the MAN, not the penis. Of course a penis that works overtime is icing on the cake.

see this thread for more men's takes on the question.

viewtopic.php?f=6&t=7166&start=30

Thank you.... that was a good reply