smphead wrote:For those in a committed relationship the pump is no problem i think.
But for the single guys the pump is a big problem. It would be a big turn off if she feels the pump and i have to explain i have an implant.
For sure if you go into a serious relationship you have to tell. But if it is just a hookup it's not an option.
Some eldery guys will say "just be open and tell the truth" or say i'im bionic" but that's not the thing you want to say as a young guy., nonetheless the frightening it will goes mouth to mouth in your social network.
Is there another explanation to tell her which is more socially accepted? I'm not medical educated,
but are their other reasons to have a foreign object in your nutssack? Something else which is not as embarrassing as a pump for an implant?
Sometimes you have to lie for preventing you for social humiliation.
Please no comments like "it's nothing to be ashamed to" or "just tell the truth", i'm only gonna tell the truth if it will become a serious relationship.
Help!!
Thanx bro's.
It's ALL a matter of perception !
IF... you "believe" it will become a problem; then it probably will be one.
It's called being self - conscious.
You're "imagining" a pre-conceived worst case scenario that frightens you.
Truthfully, she would be far more likely to feel/find your tips/cylinders giving a blow job or hand job.
You haven't overly concerned your self with that remote possibility, ... only ... your "pump" !
When you don't have the actual facts, your brain can become very creative at filling in the
blanks for you. Often it isn't very realistic. A lot of "what if's ?" can pop up.
Her, "possibly" fondling your nuts "
probably" isn't going to happen.
If they go for your sack gently restrict her hand and tell her you don't really like touched there. THEN immediately gently guide her hand up to your dick or somewhere else.
She probably won't feel rejected for resisting her initiating contact, in fact she'll probably respect you for communicating; no further explanation needed.
Personally ... "I've NEVER liked touched there"; I'm 65 and only had a few women go there.
I've NEVER had a negative response using my above method of guiding them away.
It shows your not rejecting them initiating "touch"contact, it just shows that you prefer it elsewhere.
As you guide there hand away, say something like, "Here is where I really like touched" or "this is where it really turns me on". THEN quickly begin kissing her before she can say much more.
Women L♡ve it when men dominate them and assert control during sex.
Why do you think "50 Shades" was so popular ???
Us "elderly guys" , just may have boned a lot of chicks in our time; sexually maturing at a time when cheap, readily available, "reliable" contraception first became widely available to the masses in the Age of Aquarius, Sex, drugs, Rock & Roll, Hippies, FREE love and liberated women.
Peace Man ... !
