Will she notice ?

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.
needhelp
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Will she notice ?

Postby needhelp » Tue Jan 01, 2019 10:54 pm

First let me say I'm so glad I found this site. You all are great guys. I have a question for you all though. This may seem crazy. I'm contemplating getting an implant. I'm very self conscious. I really would not want my date to know that I have an implant. Some guys say there gf's or wife dose not know. How do you pump it up with out them noticing or how do you prepare your self for the main event or the best way to proceed when your getting into it. There may not be a bathroom around all the time. Thank you all for your help :)
61 years old, single, Charlotte NC, Had a penile fracture. Implant scheduled for April 17. Dr Terlecki Winston-Salem, NC

oldbeek
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Re: Will she notice ?

Postby oldbeek » Tue Jan 01, 2019 11:07 pm

Go on your date 80% pumped. Wear it up and right. I have spent a whole day and walking with it pumped up.
77, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .08 11/18,.07 1/19,.05 4/19, Pain with trimix, implant 4-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd

Xomanow
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Re: Will she notice ?

Postby Xomanow » Wed Jan 02, 2019 1:12 am

Cut out one of your pants pockets....the side that corresponds to your dominant hand....don't need a bathroom or a diversion.....I call this...."pumping in place"...…
Implanted Jan 4 2017 by Dr. Eid - 69 yo and single...ED gradually over 15 yrs...tired of pills, injections, cock rings....happy with my choice and results. Titan OTR - one 20cm cylinder - one 20cm+1 RTE...."got a rocket in my pocket"....

Bubba1956
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Re: Will she notice ?

Postby Bubba1956 » Wed Jan 02, 2019 12:40 pm

personally, I really don't mind that they know that I have an implant. actually I am very proud of my new friend. For me it offers endurance that I have never had, to go as long as desired kinda like the new energizer bunny!!
I am 62 years old. Full blown Ed for 10 years. married for 18 years. my urologist dr. Kershen. Implanted October 15,2018. AMS 700 LGX 18cm length by 12 mm diameter I live in Coleman, Mi. USA : 8-) )

Lost Sheep
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Re: Will she notice ?

Postby Lost Sheep » Wed Jan 02, 2019 1:34 pm

Welcome to FrankTalk. Yours is a very popular question. The "Search" function is your friend.

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Lost Sheep
Born 1948 AMS LGX 18+3 implant Nov 6, 2017 by Dr Tavis Shaw. Spent 14 months researching in effort to optimize outcome. After 30 yrs of progressive unrecognized ED I will do this RIGHT; no second chance with one's first.
Anchorage AK, USA

LMCatman
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Location: South Florida, USA

Re: Will she notice ?

Postby LMCatman » Wed Jan 02, 2019 2:30 pm

a few squeezes while you play, play a little more, a few more squeezes, play a little more, squeeze a little more.....once she rides your "never go soft" dick, it won't matter. In fact, she'll probably want to play some more....some of my girls pump it up for me, at least partially. Good luck man!
On my third Titan. 68 Years old. Radical Prostatectomy Oct 2010, No erections after, Botched Titan implant April, 2013, Successful Titan revision, April , 2014 by Dr. Paul Perito, Miami...Titan failure Feb 2017...revision by Dr Perito March 1st, 2017

HarryBelafonte
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Re: Will she notice ?

Postby HarryBelafonte » Wed Jan 02, 2019 2:43 pm

needhelp wrote:First let me say I'm so glad I found this site. You all are great guys. I have a question for you all though. This may seem crazy. I'm contemplating getting an implant. I'm very self conscious. I really would not want my date to know that I have an implant. Some guys say there gf's or wife dose not know. How do you pump it up with out them noticing or how do you prepare your self for the main event or the best way to proceed when your getting into it. There may not be a bathroom around all the time. Thank you all for your help :)


I have had mine since 2013 and my GF either hasn't noticed it or just hasn't said anything. I have gotten so good at pumping it up that I can one hand it under the covers and it appears that I have had a spontaneous erection. I am a little like you although I don't think that most women would mid one bit, especially after trying it out!
67 year old implanted with 22 cm + extenders Titan Coloplast in 2013. Facing prostate robotic prostate removal on January 15, 2019. Am told that it will be nerve sparing hope that I will still have feeling . Gleeson 7; 4+3

Larry10625

Re: Will she notice ?

Postby Larry10625 » Wed Jan 02, 2019 2:54 pm

needhelp wrote:First let me say I'm so glad I found this site. You all are great guys. I have a question for you all though. This may seem crazy. I'm contemplating getting an implant. I'm very self conscious. I really would not want my date to know that I have an implant. Some guys say there gf's or wife dose not know. How do you pump it up with out them noticing or how do you prepare your self for the main event or the best way to proceed when your getting into it. There may not be a bathroom around all the time. Thank you all for your help :)



I agree with oldbeek except... why are you trying to hide it? Would you be like that if you had an artificial leg? arm?, glass eye? You should be proud of the face that at your age, you can go for hours and not have to worry about it going soft on you. My entire family knows what I had done. I don't actively discuss it, but I make no effort to hide it either... it's a lot less stressful because I don't have to remember what I told people. I am super stoked about my bionic dick. :)

Larry

Larry10625

Re: Will she notice ?

Postby Larry10625 » Wed Jan 02, 2019 2:56 pm

Bubba1956 wrote:personally, I really don't mind that they know that I have an implant. actually I am very proud of my new friend. For me it offers endurance that I have never had, to go as long as desired kinda like the new energizer bunny!!



I picture the Energizer Bunny marching around, using his big penis as a base drum stick. hahaha :lol:

Larry

HarryBelafonte
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Re: Will she notice ?

Postby HarryBelafonte » Thu Jan 03, 2019 4:21 pm

needhelp wrote:First let me say I'm so glad I found this site. You all are great guys. I have a question for you all though. This may seem crazy. I'm contemplating getting an implant. I'm very self conscious. I really would not want my date to know that I have an implant. Some guys say there gf's or wife dose not know. How do you pump it up with out them noticing or how do you prepare your self for the main event or the best way to proceed when your getting into it. There may not be a bathroom around all the time. Thank you all for your help :)


I pump up after I pee in the bathroom and tuck it upwards into the waistband of my boxers. It is a little noticeable so I get on in bed under the covers. Sometimes I will pump it up in bud under the covers as it only takes about 6-9 pumps.
67 year old implanted with 22 cm + extenders Titan Coloplast in 2013. Facing prostate robotic prostate removal on January 15, 2019. Am told that it will be nerve sparing hope that I will still have feeling . Gleeson 7; 4+3


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