Larry10625 wrote:tow1366 wrote:She had an affair which started after the ED
It was an emotionally driven thing not about sex (she claims) but knowing that the last person to fuck her wasnt me was a part of it
Plus I needed to get back in the game if things didnt work out`!
I think if my wife ever cheated on me I would be so heartbroken I could never screw her again. After all of those years when I stayed faithful when I was lucky to get it once a month, an affair would end my marriage. Emotionally driven? Except when she was moaning and screaming. Sorry buddy, I feel for you. Did you make her take HIV and STD tests?
Larry
Completely emotionally driven. She was/is someone with a low sex drive but got caught in a mid life crisis. Questioning everything, re-writing history so I became a bad person, worried about losing her youth, is this all I am etc. She had a high powered job with lots of foreign travel. Then a married colleague who had a reputation played her into it. She is totally horrified and is a wreck now. Its very difficult/impossible to fully recover from it but Im getting there. The implant was part of it.
Yes absolutely she had to take full tests, leave the job and her friends/family all know about it
On the flip side I do now live on the moral high ground and I never lose an argument now...