Final Concerns

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.

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David_R
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby David_R » Sat Dec 01, 2018 8:13 pm

Tow1366, you are in my prayers for a recovery in emotion as well as a recovery in physical.
Age 69. Prostatectomy in 2000. My urologist is Dr. Marc Siegelbaum of Univ. of Md. St. Joseph Med. Ctr. in Baltimore suburb of Towson. (LGX, and after regular inflating I regained my original length and girth.)

alibaba
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby alibaba » Sat Dec 01, 2018 11:03 pm

defiant, I hated my first implant. Lost a lot of size, thought it was a crappy installation and it was very uncomfortable. Number 1 is chose your doctor well. Beyond that, DESPITE loathing the thing, it was so obvious the potential for an implant to be a great thing that I went for another. Glad I did. You will quickly see that it works on demand so reliably that you want to pump up a new hard on all the time. Cheers man.
LGX 21cm .Milam 01/13/16. Horror; both service and surgical outcome. hated infrapubic installation. Kramer revision 03/01/17. 22cm Titan +1.5cm extender. Those who think their opinion is the only one that matters are a danger to themselves and others.

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby defiant » Sun Dec 02, 2018 12:47 pm

Would it be fair to say then, that having ED can have an adverse affect on your libido?
34 y.o, minor to mild to moderate ED since 21 y.o, 3 Doppler ultrasounds with 1 result of VL & 2 later results of NO physical problem, critically dependent on cialis, overcame Lymophoma at 26, ED causing immense psychological distress

tow1366
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby tow1366 » Sun Dec 02, 2018 1:01 pm

defiant wrote:Would it be fair to say then, that having ED can have an adverse affect on your libido?


Completely in my case...I just wasnt interested as I knew I had no performance in me so started a vicious cycle which only went downhill

Now Im back in the game and I know (despite my own issues post affair) I will be Ok whatever way that works out
45 years old. Diabetic T2
ED for 3 years followed by Peyronies 90 degree bend upward
Titan Touch Implant 26 October 2018
Mr Hegarty - Dublin, Ireland

defiant
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby defiant » Sun Dec 02, 2018 2:08 pm

tow1366 wrote:
defiant wrote:Would it be fair to say then, that having ED can have an adverse affect on your libido?


Completely in my case...I just wasnt interested as I knew I had no performance in me so started a vicious cycle which only went downhill

Now Im back in the game and I know (despite my own issues post affair) I will be Ok whatever way that works out


Completely the same here! An inherent feeling of impotence resulting in reduced desire.
34 y.o, minor to mild to moderate ED since 21 y.o, 3 Doppler ultrasounds with 1 result of VL & 2 later results of NO physical problem, critically dependent on cialis, overcame Lymophoma at 26, ED causing immense psychological distress

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby ccrider » Sun Dec 02, 2018 2:47 pm

defiant wrote:As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!

As far as my relationship w/ sex before the implant...still had fun but couldn't penetrate...tried VED...worked, but it was extremely uncomfortable...reminded me of an ancient Medieval torture device. So my answer to your question is that I didn't look forward to it & it was mentally painful to be reminded that I couldn't perform every time we had a sexual encounter...

In my case, I wanted to take it for a test drive as soon as I was activated (about 4-5 weeks after the procedure). It was great to be back in action, but it was uncomfortable. For me, approx. 8 weeks out was the point in time wherein any discomfort vanished & I could really roll.

After approx. 8 weeks, the AMS 700 LGX implant felt completely natural after I learned to cycle & properly use the deflate button. I am now 6.5" inflated...gained an inch due top the LGX expansion capability. The sex is absolutely off-the-chain excellent...wife says she's so glad I had it done & it's the best sex she's ever had. Bottom line is that you'll be able to outlast any porn star if you so desire once everything settles in.

Most important thing is the choice of a good surgeon...did the research, decided IMHO that most of the problems (loss of length/floppy head etc) stemmed from the infrapubic method, found the two cats who were considered the masters of the penoscrotal approach (Kramer & Eid)...went with Kramer...did a stellar job & was always available afterward via phone/text w/ any post-procedure questions...

Going bionic was one of the best health moves I've ever made...best of luck to you.
...66 years old, married almost 30 years, serious ED for around 10 years. AMS 700 LGX 21 cm +3 cm RTE implanted by Dr. Andrew Kramer on Dec 7, 2016.

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby ED2013 » Sun Dec 02, 2018 2:50 pm

defiant wrote:Would it be fair to say then, that having ED can have an adverse affect on your libido?



Yes it can have a devastating impact on libido.
Ams 700 cx. Dr Karpman.

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby defiant » Sun Dec 02, 2018 2:54 pm

ccrider wrote:
defiant wrote:As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!

As far as my relationship w/ sex before the implant...still had fun but couldn't penetrate...tried VED...worked, but it was extremely uncomfortable...reminded me of an ancient Medieval torture device. So my answer to your question is that I didn't look forward to it & it was mentally painful to be reminded that I couldn't perform every time we had a sexual encounter...

In my case, I wanted to take it for a test drive as soon as I was activated (about 4-5 weeks after the procedure). It was great to be back in action, but it was uncomfortable. For me, approx. 8 weeks out was the point in time wherein any discomfort vanished & I could really roll.

After approx. 8 weeks, the AMS 700 LGX implant felt completely natural after I learned to cycle & properly use the deflate button. I am now 6.5" inflated...gained an inch due top the LGX expansion capability. The sex is absolutely off-the-chain excellent...wife says she's so glad I had it done & it's the best sex she's ever had. Bottom line is that you'll be able to outlast any porn star if you so desire once everything settles in.

Most important thing is the choice of a good surgeon...did the research, decided IMHO that most of the problems (loss of length/floppy head etc) stemmed from the infrapubic method, found the two cats who were considered the masters of the penoscrotal approach (Kramer & Eid)...went with Kramer...did a stellar job & was always available afterward via phone/text w/ any post-procedure questions...

Going bionic was one of the best health moves I've ever made...best of luck to you.


Thanks! Happy for you, getting such a good result.

So has your libido increased post implant? What with having all these new abilities...
34 y.o, minor to mild to moderate ED since 21 y.o, 3 Doppler ultrasounds with 1 result of VL & 2 later results of NO physical problem, critically dependent on cialis, overcame Lymophoma at 26, ED causing immense psychological distress

HarryBelafonte
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby HarryBelafonte » Tue Dec 04, 2018 1:12 pm

defiant wrote:As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!

You will love your implant and I assume that you are picking someone who only does implant surgery. Once you are hard on demand, you will love sex again and enjoy the confidence of being able to preform. A lot of the guys on this forum helped me make up my mind and I am so glad that they did. It looks and feels as natural as can be. Go for it. It will change your life.
67 year old implanted with 22 cm + extenders Titan Coloplast in 2013. Facing prostate robotic prostate removal on January 15, 2019. Am told that it will be nerve sparing hope that I will still have feeling . Gleeson 7; 4+3


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