Final Concerns

The final frontier. Deciding when, if and how.

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defiant
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Final Concerns

Postby defiant » Fri Nov 30, 2018 1:09 pm

As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!
34 y.o, minor to mild to moderate ED since 21 y.o, 3 Doppler ultrasounds with 1 result of VL & 2 later results of NO physical problem, critically dependent on cialis, overcame Lymophoma at 26, ED causing immense psychological distress

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby Larry10625 » Fri Nov 30, 2018 1:19 pm

defiant wrote:As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!



I had to take testosterone injections but after my implant, there was no stopping or slowing me down... I'm horny all the time. :)

Larry
51 years old, married 29 years. Implanted Mar 30/17 by Dr. Brock of London, Ont, CANADA. (AMS 700 CX 18 + 2). Had implant removed Apr 29/17 due to Septic Shock. Liposuction By Dr. Gan and re-implant by Dr. Brock (AMS LGX 15 + 2) Dec 14/17.

defiant
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby defiant » Fri Nov 30, 2018 1:23 pm

Larry10625 wrote:
defiant wrote:As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!



I had to take testosterone injections but after my implant, there was no stopping or slowing me down... I'm horny all the time. :)

Larry


So the implant mentally boosted your desire and reduced your ‘depression’ for want of a better word around sex and arousal...?
34 y.o, minor to mild to moderate ED since 21 y.o, 3 Doppler ultrasounds with 1 result of VL & 2 later results of NO physical problem, critically dependent on cialis, overcame Lymophoma at 26, ED causing immense psychological distress

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby maxxxxx » Fri Nov 30, 2018 1:58 pm

defiant wrote:As I’ve mentioned before, I have very much made up my mind to book in for surgery. I just want to overcome a recent health issue and get a little fitter.

But before I do this, I would like to know if anyone prior to being implanted felt as though their relationship with sex was severely damaged? In that even with the prospect of an on-demand erection, you still had concerns that you would merely be a robot, as it were, as opposed to someone enjoying sex to the full and regaining all of your zeal for f*cking.

I know we all have different psyches and ways of coping but I’m interested to read some answers. Because right now, I have zero sexual confidence and a whole lot of anxiety.

Were you guys quick to mentally embrace your implant post-op and how quickly did you ‘feel’ like having sex and putting it to the test?

Thanks!


Robot better than nothing sex..
Titan 24cm no rte. December 2015

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby ED2013 » Fri Nov 30, 2018 2:17 pm

Once you’re fully healed and using it, you’ll be making women moan and scream, and that will heal you a lot mentally.
Ams 700 cx. Dr Karpman.

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby LeRoastBeef » Fri Nov 30, 2018 2:50 pm

I share your concerns, and it was nice to get a message from you earlier.

I guess natural and saline, both erections are inflated by hydraulic pressure. The mechanism of action is the same. Sensation is still there just as it was (with some variation between people).

It is hard for me to imagine what it is going to be like. It is, perhaps, impossible to comprehend.


Can one convey in words what it actually 'feels' like? I'm not sure.


They are all seem pretty happy when it's done right though, don't they?
Venous leakage (Cavernosum and glans). 31yrs. In the process of getting an implant. Nervous but accepting it has to be done. Love Franktalk.

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby oldbeek » Fri Nov 30, 2018 9:49 pm

Mine was a little sore and uncomfortable up to 7 weeks but at 7 months post op it is absolutely natural. I like to go around 50% pumped and just hold it. Looks great and feels great. Desire , lust and orgasms are back full strength.
77, good health, RP 7-2017, all nerves taken , PSA 0.05, 4-18,, .08 11/18, Pain with trimix, implant 4-18, Infra-pubic, AMS lgx 15 cm with 5cm rte. Implant at USC Keck. Dr Boyd

Mr stuby
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Re: Final Concerns

Postby Mr stuby » Fri Nov 30, 2018 10:20 pm

i could still have sex with ved before implant now 2 yrs after implant it works 100 percent, , get total glans engorement
orgasm better then before, regained size. the wife says it was a 10 before ed and pc now after implant the shape
is not the same but she says its still a 10!!!! a hell of lot better then a stick in the eye
mike
74yr.old married 53yrs. pc11/13 rad seed implants started ved 1/14 .implanted 11/20/16 ams lgx 18+1 11 up 8 down 6 1/2 flaccid 7 5/8 erect local uro sanford health,

s. central N.D.
MIKE

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby tow1366 » Sat Dec 01, 2018 4:56 am

I see your anxiety and raise you...

ED from 2015 caused by diabetes

Then Peyronies with a 90 degree bend started in 2017

Early 2018 discovered wife had been having an affair with a colleague for 18 months from late 2015 to mid 2017. She spent 4 months spinning me half truths and lies until I discovered it all. She actually made up a one night stand to try and throw me off digging for more evidence of the actual affair. A classic mid life crisis meltdown on her part.

So was living with ED, Peyronies and betrayal trauma plus knowledge the last man to fuck my wife wasnt me. So major levels of hurt, anger and feelings of failure as a man

Fast forward to this morning. Im 5 weeks post implant and sitting downstairs writing this and eating bacon and eggs. She is upstairs and wont be up for a while because she was fucked stupid for an hour last night...same thing happened last week.

This close after op its still a little painful but well worth it. Its definitely working for her, several times last night and I just kept on going. I feel a different person in a lot of ways

I will say that the initial 4 weeks were awful, at times I just wanted to stick a pin in it to deflate it and had it not been for finding this site Im not sure I would have made it through. You need to face the truth its going to be difficult for a while but listen to people here and you will come out the other side a machine. Pump up and ready to go
45 years old. Diabetic T2
ED for 3 years followed by Peyronies 90 degree bend upward
Titan Touch Implant 26 October 2018
Mr Hegarty - Dublin, Ireland

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Re: Final Concerns

Postby Bubba1956 » Sat Dec 01, 2018 5:01 am

I am 6 weeks post op and I am healed enough for sex. it is worth the wait. The surgery puts a new definition to the energizer bunny!! lol
I am 62 years old. Full blown Ed for 10 years. married for 18 years. my urologist dr. Kershen. Implanted October 15,2018. AMS 700 LGX 18cm length by 12 mm diameter I live in Coleman, Mi. USA : 8-) )


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