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Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2018 8:08 pm
by BadGrandpa
Wife and I have had sex twice since I became bionic (pre-activation, walking around with a semi for weeks I couldn't contain myself any longer) Neither time I as able to achieve an orgasm, close....but not quite there.

Today was activation day,Dr was very happy with results and cleared me for take off.

My question is, is it normal to not be able to climax at first? I assume it is due to the trauma inflicted on my little buddy during the surgery and that it will return to normal as the healing continues.

Re: Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2018 9:42 pm
by oldbeek
Surgery 4-17-18 also waiting for an answer on this question. Same problem.

Re: Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2018 9:45 pm
by oldbeek
Surgery 4-17-18 also waiting for an answer on this question. Same problem.

Re: Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Thu Jun 14, 2018 9:54 pm
by radioradio
BadGrandpa wrote:Wife and I have had sex twice since I became bionic (pre-activation, walking around with a semi for weeks I couldn't contain myself any longer) Neither time I as able to achieve an orgasm, close....but not quite there.

Today was activation day,Dr was very happy with results and cleared me for take off.

My question is, is it normal to not be able to climax at first? I assume it is due to the trauma inflicted on my little buddy during the surgery and that it will return to normal as the healing continues.

I didn’t have my first intercourse orgasm until a few months after “take off”. It was the most intense of my whole life. I still have difficulty getting all the way to climax about half the time, but it is certainly getting better.
I have a slightly better record masturbating - probably 3 out of 4 times, but it tales a long time. Last night it took me almost an hour. (But it was a fun hour!).
Sensory nerves can take a long time to fully heal, and some never fully heal. I lost sensation with the prostatectomy and some more with the implant. I’m pretty much back to where I was before the implant.
Hope this helps, and hope you “get there” soon.
Bob

Re: Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2018 2:48 pm
by rancherejim
I've only had intercourse once since surgery and the same thing, no climax, she had to finish me off with a blo-job and even that took awhile. They always say it's the journey, but I like the the destination best of all. That few seconds of life are the best few seconds of life.

Re: Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2018 2:58 pm
by BadGrandpa
rancherejim wrote:I've only had intercourse once since surgery and the same thing, no climax, she had to finish me off with a blo-job and even that took awhile. They always say it's the journey, but I like the the destination best of all. That few seconds of life are the best few seconds of life.


True facts! Although I do enjoy having more staying power and so does my wife I am really really looking forward to the end result.

Re: Orgasm, or lack of....

Posted: Sun Jun 17, 2018 3:04 pm
by Larry10625
BadGrandpa wrote:Wife and I have had sex twice since I became bionic (pre-activation, walking around with a semi for weeks I couldn't contain myself any longer) Neither time I as able to achieve an orgasm, close....but not quite there.

Today was activation day,Dr was very happy with results and cleared me for take off.

My question is, is it normal to not be able to climax at first? I assume it is due to the trauma inflicted on my little buddy during the surgery and that it will return to normal as the healing continues.



Maybe, as long as you didn't do any permanent damage because you were impatient.

Larry