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As I prepare myself knowing I'll need the surgery soon or at least sometime in my future, I want to be properly counseled on everything. I've looked up possible complications online but figured it would be best to ask a board of men actually living the experience. Basically, even if you're satisfied with your result, do your best to dissuade me from the implant.i want to hear the negatives since previously I've really only searched for the positives

I'm going to seriously try and give you the negatives I can think of. I guess first would be that I'm having to be consciously aware of the "print" my dick now makes through my pants in public because my flaccid is 3 times larger than it was before. That causes me a secondary problem of projecting waaaay too much confidence when speaking to women now. Seriously, I've caught myself a few times and had to dial it back with my wife nearby.

Then there's the knowledge that I can never have a spontaneous erection again. That really doesn't bother me much though since I CAN have an awesome one any time I want. Usually, with the spontaneous ones, I had to wait for it to go down before I could stand up in mixed company from a table or get out of a car.

Then there's the 3rd boy in my ballsack. My sack usually hangs stretched out and when I lay down on my back the pump and tubing are somewhat easy to spot, and are definitely able to be felt with very slight pressure. I could never conceal it from anyone but I'm married and likely will never have to. It doesn't phase my wife in the least when she goes down on me since I can't recall her ever doing any ball play.

Finally, a BIG negative is I think about sex a thousand times a day now like I did when I was younger. Ideally (wrong word) I need to be an incredibly wealthy guy with a stable of younger women to keep up with my libido I'm entirely capable of accommodating now. Since that isn't on the horizon, I have to do with my wife's libido. She definitely has her days though... hell, sometimes even two in a row. There's always Rosie Palms and her five daughters to take up the slack.

Aside from this, I CAN'T give you much else. Hope it helped!

DaveKell wrote:my flaccid is 3 times larger than it was before.

Mine uninflated is 75% larger -- not 3 times larger -- so that is fine with me and my guy down there.

DaveKell wrote:I think about sex a thousand times a day now like I did when I was younger.

I never stopped thinking about sex a thousand times a day.

It's a man thing!
Donnie

DaveKell wrote:I'm going to seriously try and give you the negatives I can think of. I guess first would be that I'm having to be consciously aware of the "print" my dick now makes through my pants in public because my flaccid is 3 times larger than it was before. That causes me a secondary problem of projecting waaaay too much confidence when speaking to women now. Seriously, I've caught myself a few times and had to dial it back with my wife nearby.

Then there's the knowledge that I can never have a spontaneous erection again. That really doesn't bother me much though since I CAN have an awesome one any time I want. Usually, with the spontaneous ones, I had to wait for it to go down before I could stand up in mixed company from a table or get out of a car.

Then there's the 3rd boy in my ballsack. My sack usually hangs stretched out and when I lay down on my back the pump and tubing are somewhat easy to spot, and are definitely able to be felt with very slight pressure. I could never conceal it from anyone but I'm married and likely will never have to. It doesn't phase my wife in the least when she goes down on me since I can't recall her ever doing any ball play.

Finally, a BIG negative is I think about sex a thousand times a day now like I did when I was younger. Ideally (wrong word) I need to be an incredibly wealthy guy with a stable of younger women to keep up with my libido I'm entirely capable of accommodating now. Since that isn't on the horizon, I have to do with my wife's libido. She definitely has her days though... hell, sometimes even two in a row. There's always Rosie Palms and her five daughters to take up the slack.

Aside from this, I CAN'T give you much else. Hope it helped!

Thanks Dave! As a fellow Texan maybe I'll check your surgeon out- it sounds like he did a good job

For me the negative is the lifespam of the implant and the probable revisions due to my young age.

Obviating that if the implant is well done and well measured without complications I dont see negative things, is more I see only positive things.

Right on the money Dave
From mine and Mis H’s perspective its all upside......and often inside!

Smetro wrote:Right on the money Dave
From mine and Mis H’s perspective its all upside......and often inside!

Smetro, you banging mis H again ?

Yes Ant
I had a period of freedom and discovered that the grass is not greener on the other side of the fence. Nor will I ever find another 61 year old sex bomb like H.
Life is now set and my cock is doing it’s job morning and night.....willingly
You can see why....

Dave, That was a great answer and I think it covers most guys. In a nut shell "I think about sex a thousand times a day now like I did when I was younger" I know it sounds like a great thing but if you don't have a wife willing it doesn't have you thinking.If you are single there are thousands of woman out there they will be dying to take you for a ride.

I have not posted much in a while for I have been really busy with my business. This economy is rolling.